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over a year ago
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One for the single ladies if a couple start chatting and you get to the stage of swapping face pics, and you get sent a pic of the woman. So you ask to see the male half too and eventually get sent one. Does that convince you that they are a couple?
Not me I'd like a pic of them together? Am I being too safety conscious? |
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over a year ago
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Together, holding a spoon in each hand (or any other non standard stock photo)
If they are too shy to take a fresh pic, they aren’t being serious about getting nekkid with ya
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"One for the single ladies if a couple start chatting and you get to the stage of swapping face pics, and you get sent a pic of the woman. So you ask to see the male half too and eventually get sent one. Does that convince you that they are a couple?
Not me I'd like a pic of them together? Am I being too safety conscious?"
Main thing is your comfortable. Intuition is a good thing |
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"Why does it make it unsafe if they don't have pics together?
Presumably to make it appear less likely to be a liar
But that doesn't make it unsafe. "
True. I dunno, I've only ever met one couple before and they turned out to be quite nice. |
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I don’t think there’s such a thing as being “too safety conscious”. Those are the boundaries you set for yourself and how you view your personal safety. Couples that want to meet you will either be happy to oblige, or happy to move on if they don’t want to. |
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"Why does it make it unsafe if they don't have pics together?"
The separate pics don't make it unsafe. I was meaning for moving forward to consider meeting i am being conscious for my safety  |
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We always expect and send a pic together when we are considering a meet with a couple. Safety certainly comes into it for us. To us there’s more of a risk if you don’t feel sure it’s a genuine couple you’re chatting to. |
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Do what makes you feel comfortable…
We wouldn’t think twice if a couple sent individual pics but it’s about your own comfort and ensuring the red flags don’t get waved.
Most of our pics together are more Facebook type than FAB but we have no problem sending them if required.
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Plenty of photos of us together on our account and we would certainly open with one of us together as an introduction.
Honestly, it doesn't do much to attract any ladies on fab. 95% of our luck is meeting via social events or clubs.
I think it's just how it is in our area.
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"Why does it make it unsafe if they don't have pics together?
The separate pics don't make it unsafe. I was meaning for moving forward to consider meeting i am being conscious for my safety "
I get that bit I still don't see the link. If you don't feel comfortable that's your prerogative. I have a couple's account on here but we don't have pictures of us together (well not of our faces anyway lol) but we are safe. |
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I always make them stand together with the alphabet written in Latin across BOTH their chests (very specific on that) whilst holding an East African hornbill and eating nachos. |
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"I always make them stand together with the alphabet written in Latin across BOTH their chests (very specific on that) whilst holding an East African hornbill and eating nachos."
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"Why does it make it unsafe if they don't have pics together?
The separate pics don't make it unsafe. I was meaning for moving forward to consider meeting i am being conscious for my safety
I get that bit I still don't see the link. If you don't feel comfortable that's your prerogative. I have a couple's account on here but we don't have pictures of us together (well not of our faces anyway lol) but we are safe. "
We are all different in what we need to convince us |
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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago
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I think every couple Iv ever spoke to or had a message from has always sent pics of them both together but I don’t think I’d find it less safe if they didn’t.
Aslong as when you meet it’s in a public place then it should be ok but go with your gut. |
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"I always make them stand together with the alphabet written in Latin across BOTH their chests (very specific on that) whilst holding an East African hornbill and eating nachos."
What if you don’t like nachos? Will pickled onion monster munch do?
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"I think every couple Iv ever spoke to or had a message from has always sent pics of them both together but I don’t think I’d find it less safe if they didn’t.
Aslong as when you meet it’s in a public place then it should be ok but go with your gut. "
Yes I agree i always social meet first too. This particular couple were asking me for naughty pics ,I'd already sent a face pic for some reason my gut was telling me there was something not ringing true. I'm glad I went with my gut . |
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I don't meet couples but yep, I would expect a picture of them both together before the conversation has even got to the second message.
I never chatted with anyone with a view to meeting without seeing and sending a face pic first. |
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"One for the single ladies if a couple start chatting and you get to the stage of swapping face pics, and you get sent a pic of the woman. So you ask to see the male half too and eventually get sent one. Does that convince you that they are a couple?
Not me I'd like a pic of them together? Am I being too safety conscious?"
I'd assume it was a man only and he stole the woman pic from the internet.
I want to see pics of them together. |
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"One for the single ladies if a couple start chatting and you get to the stage of swapping face pics, and you get sent a pic of the woman. So you ask to see the male half too and eventually get sent one. Does that convince you that they are a couple?
Not me I'd like a pic of them together? Am I being too safety conscious?
I'd assume it was a man only and he stole the woman pic from the internet.
I want to see pics of them together. "
Its looking that way |
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