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Why do you feel the need to swing?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't swing
However I have needs that are kinks which I am enjoying exploring with amazing people 
If I Strip my thoughts back to bare I am on an pleasure discovery journey "
Pretty much this
Have little kinks that need fed |
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It's not a need as such - the question is posed in rather a negative way, isn't it?
Why do I swing? Cos it's fun.
Some people play golf or go to the football. I like to fuck! I love the hedonistic pleasure seeking decadence of it.
Mrs TMN x |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"I don't swing
However I have needs that are kinks which I am enjoying exploring with amazing people
If I Strip my thoughts back to bare I am on an pleasure discovery journey "
^That…. And trying to fulfil all your needs by one single person is a myth, you compromise and limit each other. |
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"I don't swing
However I have needs that are kinks which I am enjoying exploring with amazing people
If I Strip my thoughts back to bare I am on an pleasure discovery journey
^That…. And trying to fulfil all your needs by one single person is a myth, you compromise and limit each other."
Exactly. Never going to meet anyone that ticks every single box... |
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We have fantasies we want to fulfil…top shelf memories that we can’t do between the two of us.
Finding a 3rd or 4th person who also enjoys themselves sexually and all creating top shelf memories is exciting.
K |
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"Someone asked me this recently.
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What would yours be to that question?
PW "
It's not a need. We simply enjoy it. It adds a lot to our sex lives but isn't the driving force for it.
We get to meet new people, make good friendship's and be inhibition free. We have far more fun sharing stories and and with all the flirty build up (plus all the rest).
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Ever since my wife became disinterested in sex, about 12 years ago, I was confined to the attic bedroom.
I really really miss that feel of being wanted, and skin on skin contact. Yes of course I feel bad for this, as we still get on really well.
But my desire outweighs my loyalty.  |
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"Someone asked me this recently.
I know my answer/response. What would yours be to that question?
PW "
We love sex with others and seeing each other enjoy ourselves. We are in a solid loving relationship and have no insecurities or jealousies. It's affectionate friendships that go beyond a hug, handshake or kiss without fears of upsetting someone. It's sharing love, giving love, feeling love from others who feel the same. It's the excitement of the first meet, first kiss, first wandering hand while looking over to see your partner excitedly enjoying the same. It's the hope of a lasting naughty friendship and we've almost got there a few times  |
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"Someone asked me this recently.
I know my answer/response. What would yours be to that question?
PW
We love sex with others and seeing each other enjoy ourselves. We are in a solid loving relationship and have no insecurities or jealousies. It's affectionate friendships that go beyond a hug, handshake or kiss without fears of upsetting someone. It's sharing love, giving love, feeling love from others who feel the same. It's the excitement of the first meet, first kiss, first wandering hand while looking over to see your partner excitedly enjoying the same. It's the hope of a lasting naughty friendship and we've almost got there a few times "
We couldn’t have put it better, perfectly describes why we do |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's not a need as such - the question is posed in rather a negative way, isn't it?
Why do I swing? Cos it's fun.
Some people play golf or go to the football. I like to fuck! I love the hedonistic pleasure seeking decadence of it.
Mrs TMN x"
It was the word need in the question that did it for me, it didn't sit well with me either. Like you I think the question implied a negative. Almost suggesting that you're missing something elsewhere though maybe that wasn't how it was intended.
Like you... Because it's an enjoyable experience to have.
And because it can add things you didn't necessarily even know you liked. I think it also forms more of a bond and closeness in its own way.
PW
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By (user no longer on site)
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The whole answer would fill a book but I'll keep it short.
My ex wife was the village bike. I had to come to terms and get over the jealousy. Instead of pushing it inside, I encouraged her to do what she liked and fuck other guys. Licking the cum out of her just-fucked pussy became a pleasure. And we also swung (swinged?) with like-minded friends.
Now divorced and re-married but the swinging was not the cause of that. |
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I’ve never felt the “need” to swing, after never having had sex with anyone but my ex husband once I was separated it was more of a vessel that allowed me to find people that enjoyed meeting and having sex without too much of a tie as at the time I didn’t want another full time relationship. I was looking for so many different scenarios and I wanted to try everything, I’ve had some great times   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not a need to swing, we enjoy it, meeting people with similar interests, watching the Mr in ways I can't when he's with me, trying new things together, it all adds to the excitement.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because I enjoy pleasure and the freedom to express myself sexually . I’ve confirmed to societies norms for far too long and felt frustrated and always wanting more, more , more x |
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We don't need to swing, we like to explore our boundaries. It also allows us to play bi, explore light BDSM, which we simply can't do alone.
Also, we feel it provides much more trust and security in the relationship. We're much more open and honest about desires and kinks. And why stray away alone when you can just ask to have sex with someone and be allowed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As a single man I'm not a swinger, more of an accomplice to other peoles swinging- I want a partner to swing with, then I will be a fully fledged swinger!!! It's great being involved as a third wheel, but look forward to the real thing - the excitement of watching your partner with other people and the same back - just having someone to share the experience with is the dream!!! I know who I want to share it with!!! |
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I have needs and kinks I want to enact out however I'm very much against having a relationship right now.So effectively I'm just having fun and I'm meeting and making new amazing friends along the way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't be classed as a 'swinger'. I found the perfect fwb before fab and was then introduced to this site. I enjoy profiles, pictures, chatting and forums. The latter helps to educate me mentally and sexually and in turn has challenged some of my existing boundaries....those have been stretched a tad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it simple boils down to variety. And that little frisson of excitement that comes from doing what a huge number of people would consider unacceptable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone asked me this recently.
I know my answer/response.
What would yours be to that question?
PW "
Our honest answer would be that we are quite slutty, enjoy sex with others, genuinely feel compersion and also like our desires to be exposed in front of selecting third parties.
Whether we’d actually say that to vanilla people I dunno. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like and enjoy the wild variety of things. I don't eat the same food at the same restaurant every time so why should I when it comes to sex.
Variety is a spice of Life |
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