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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Haha here’s me with my weekly threads, asking men pretty in-depth private shit
ANYWAY, guys… say you are seeing a girl or you are into a girl (and feelings are mutual)… Do you get off thinking of her when you aren’t busy having sex? Or do you still prefer getting off to porn?
Also, if you do… do you need initiation like sexting or a naughty pic in order for you to get horny and get off to her?
And last questions, do you tell her?! Do you let her know that u masturbate thinking of her?
Ladies, obviously still like some involvement from and some thoughts from our side… do you like knowing the guy you are into, get off thinking of you?
Personally, I quite like knowing he’s so into me that he thinks of me and get off thinking of me. And do like it when he tells me he’s hard thinking of me. But anyway, Over to you ladies and gents |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I'm getting off over her then I need photos or videos, otherwise I'm in the porn "
Would you ask for her to send pics? Or more like.. u already have pics of her on ur phone and use them as … material?
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By (user no longer on site)
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Put it this way i accidently trained my brain to only cum thinking of one lass in particular no matter i had to see her and hear her in my mind or id just put my cock away even when she was gone it took me about a year to a 18 months since last seeing her to be able to pop thinking of anyone else there a sad fact for ya |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Put it this way i accidently trained my brain to only cum thinking of one lass in particular no matter i had to see her and hear her in my mind or id just put my cock away even when she was gone it took me about a year to a 18 months since last seeing her to be able to pop thinking of anyone else there a sad fact for ya"
I mean… wow serious commitment right there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha here’s me with my weekly threads, asking men pretty in-depth private shit
ANYWAY, guys… say you are seeing a girl or you are into a girl (and feelings are mutual)… Do you get off thinking of her when you aren’t busy having sex? Or do you still prefer getting off to porn?
Also, if you do… do you need initiation like sexting or a naughty pic in order for you to get horny and get off to her?
And last questions, do you tell her?! Do you let her know that u masturbate thinking of her?
Ladies, obviously still like some involvement from and some thoughts from our side… do you like knowing the guy you are into, get off thinking of you?
Personally, I quite like knowing he’s so into me that he thinks of me and get off thinking of me. And do like it when he tells me he’s hard thinking of me. But anyway, Over to you ladies and gents "
If I have photos or videos of the girl then yeah I will get off to her and it’s always better. But if not then porn it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Put it this way i accidently trained my brain to only cum thinking of one lass in particular no matter i had to see her and hear her in my mind or id just put my cock away even when she was gone it took me about a year to a 18 months since last seeing her to be able to pop thinking of anyone else there a sad fact for ya
I mean… wow serious commitment right there" you asked |
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"If I'm getting off over her then I need photos or videos, otherwise I'm in the porn
Would you ask for her to send pics? Or more like.. u already have pics of her on ur phone and use them as … material?
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I don't ask for them if I don't have any already, if they ask if I'll be thinking of them and I don't have any then I say I prefer to be looking at who I'm thinking about rather than just using my imagination. Sometimes I then get lucky |
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"Haha here’s me with my weekly threads, asking men pretty in-depth private shit
ANYWAY, guys… say you are seeing a girl or you are into a girl (and feelings are mutual)… Do you get off thinking of her when you aren’t busy having sex? Or do you still prefer getting off to porn?
Also, if you do… do you need initiation like sexting or a naughty pic in order for you to get horny and get off to her?
And last questions, do you tell her?! Do you let her know that u masturbate thinking of her?
Ladies, obviously still like some involvement from and some thoughts from our side… do you like knowing the guy you are into, get off thinking of you?
Personally, I quite like knowing he’s so into me that he thinks of me and get off thinking of me. And do like it when he tells me he’s hard thinking of me. But anyway, Over to you ladies and gents "
There’s too much thinking involved, I just want to tug one out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only with one girl i was seeing, id choose her vids and pics over porn. Sometimes id tell her i had done, sometimes she'd watch while i got myself of over her, sometimes she would semd me videos randomly knowing what it would make me do.
Ive not seen anyone else thats had the same effect on me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only with one girl i was seeing, id choose her vids and pics over porn. Sometimes id tell her i had done, sometimes she'd watch while i got myself of over her, sometimes she would semd me videos randomly knowing what it would make me do.
Ive not seen anyone else thats had the same effect on me "
So … do you get off to porn nowadays then, Mr? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm really into someone... i tend not to think about them because it hurts to much and amplifies the feeling of not being with them...if that makes sense..
If it's animal lust then its different.. some women I chat to now make my mouth water just thinking about them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love it. I also love seeing the evidence
My favourite thing seeing a guy play with my pic on the screen "
Kinda love seeing the evidence too, it is a turn on (sometimes) |
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I don’t tend to watch as much porn as I did as my mind is now full of scenarios we’ve played out together or with others or situations with potential new play friends.
C is always central and it’ll be either something we’ve recently done or a play session with others and re-living some top shelf moments.
Or if we’ve discussed a fantasy we’ve not managed yet, I visualise that and how it would pan out.
I think as I’m more instrumental in arranging meets, as sometimes it’s a surprise to C, then my imagination of how it’ll work out sends my mind into overdrive and I’m excited by it.
C gets plenty of pics and videos to show I’m thinking of her when we aren’t together
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When I was seeing someone yes I used to get of thinking of her but didn't need porn as I just thaught of all the filthy naughty things we did to each other and maybe even fantasies about more. When I told her about it she was very excited and that she did the same. |
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Always a bit of both! I love porn, not going to lie, but if I'm into someone then I'll DEFINITELY get off to her pics/vids.
But even more than that, drawing on the memories in the "wank bank" (charming, I know) to remember her in certain positions/outfits... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For some reason I feel like a pervert wanking over someone I know. I did in when I was younger but now it’s always over porn."
But what about someone that was into you? Would that weird you out?? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha here’s me with my weekly threads, asking men pretty in-depth private shit
ANYWAY, guys… say you are seeing a girl or you are into a girl (and feelings are mutual)… Do you get off thinking of her when you aren’t busy having sex? Or do you still prefer getting off to porn?
Also, if you do… do you need initiation like sexting or a naughty pic in order for you to get horny and get off to her?
And last questions, do you tell her?! Do you let her know that u masturbate thinking of her?
Ladies, obviously still like some involvement from and some thoughts from our side… do you like knowing the guy you are into, get off thinking of you?
Personally, I quite like knowing he’s so into me that he thinks of me and get off thinking of me. And do like it when he tells me he’s hard thinking of me. But anyway, Over to you ladies and gents "
It would be rude not to let her know you busted a nut over her.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha here’s me with my weekly threads, asking men pretty in-depth private shit
ANYWAY, guys… say you are seeing a girl or you are into a girl (and feelings are mutual)… Do you get off thinking of her when you aren’t busy having sex? Or do you still prefer getting off to porn?
Also, if you do… do you need initiation like sexting or a naughty pic in order for you to get horny and get off to her?
And last questions, do you tell her?! Do you let her know that u masturbate thinking of her?
Ladies, obviously still like some involvement from and some thoughts from our side… do you like knowing the guy you are into, get off thinking of you?
Personally, I quite like knowing he’s so into me that he thinks of me and get off thinking of me. And do like it when he tells me he’s hard thinking of me. But anyway, Over to you ladies and gents
It would be rude not to let her know you busted a nut over her...."
Sounds painful |
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If it’s someone been with and with either dating or fb then no don’t need porn or stimulation happy to play over great sex had and what I’d like to do to her in person.
Find if person makes me horny and wanting her when not together means sex be hotter when together. Granted have enjoy sexting and phone sex with said ladies but mostly can enjoy imagining her myself.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, I’ve had thoughts about women I’m attracted to and before you know it cock is hard and I’m contemplating having a little tug.
The weirder one is when you think about a women you didn’t think you were attracted to, but the little guy downstairs says otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Haha here’s me with my weekly threads, asking men pretty in-depth private shit
ANYWAY, guys… say you are seeing a girl or you are into a girl (and feelings are mutual)… Do you get off thinking of her when you aren’t busy having sex? Or do you still prefer getting off to porn?
Also, if you do… do you need initiation like sexting or a naughty pic in order for you to get horny and get off to her?
And last questions, do you tell her?! Do you let her know that u masturbate thinking of her?
Ladies, obviously still like some involvement from and some thoughts from our side… do you like knowing the guy you are into, get off thinking of you?
Personally, I quite like knowing he’s so into me that he thinks of me and get off thinking of me. And do like it when he tells me he’s hard thinking of me. But anyway, Over to you ladies and gents
It would be rude not to let her know you busted a nut over her...."
You got a point |
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I prefer getting of to partners / fwbs than watching porn. Porn is just a bit dull and un-intimate.
I do much prefer seeing a message from her, or even better a photo or video rather than my own imagination as that also helps confirm the intamacy and connection as opposed to you just wanking to anybody.
I've also no problem telling them about it. Most of the time, that's ended up with them wanking thinking of me too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer getting of to partners / fwbs than watching porn. Porn is just a bit dull and un-intimate.
I do much prefer seeing a message from her, or even better a photo or video rather than my own imagination as that also helps confirm the intamacy and connection as opposed to you just wanking to anybody.
I've also no problem telling them about it. Most of the time, that's ended up with them wanking thinking of me too. "
I get this completely! When there’s mutual attraction and I’m told about it, definitely makes me play as it’s such a turn on knowing a guy is playing over me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definitely do this and am very open about it with her ( the women in this situation)
I think it is very important to be open and honest in a relationship no matter what the conversation is about x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Much prefer getting off to a real person I know. Porn has its place but you can't beat the memories and thoughts of past experiences or experiences to come .."
Ha love this answer! Very true x |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I prefer rubbing off to porn. I don’t have to worry about the socks he might be wearing, worry that’s he’s tossing one off into a clean towel fresh out of my drier, that the lube he’s enjoying isn’t that last bit of my baby oil I was saving for that special tit wank moment.
It’s just far more relaxing watching porn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even my fantasies have to be realistic which is frustrating.
I'd love to tell Kylie I masturbate at her pics daily but realistically I just stare open mouthed,helpless, in awe of her. |
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Sorry but porn wins every time
Millions of videos to browse and cater to my every desire and fantasy and kink no matter how fucked up
I’m never gonna get a girl that’s as hot as the ones I watch in porn. So when it comes to just getting that devil seed out of me so I can think straight I go for the best option |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha here’s me with my weekly threads, asking men pretty in-depth private shit
ANYWAY, guys… say you are seeing a girl or you are into a girl (and feelings are mutual)… Do you get off thinking of her when you aren’t busy having sex? Or do you still prefer getting off to porn?
Also, if you do… do you need initiation like sexting or a naughty pic in order for you to get horny and get off to her?
And last questions, do you tell her?! Do you let her know that u masturbate thinking of her?
Ladies, obviously still like some involvement from and some thoughts from our side… do you like knowing the guy you are into, get off thinking of you?
Personally, I quite like knowing he’s so into me that he thinks of me and get off thinking of me. And do like it when he tells me he’s hard thinking of me. But anyway, Over to you ladies and gents " I love porn but am allways thinking of the missus ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry but porn wins every time
Millions of videos to browse and cater to my every desire and fantasy and kink no matter how fucked up
I’m never gonna get a girl that’s as hot as the ones I watch in porn. So when it comes to just getting that devil seed out of me so I can think straight I go for the best option "
The devil seed out of you
Dead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If my mind has time to wander, usually at work I might have some erotic imaginings of some of the Ladies I work near (I work near a health establishment). But typically they are just for internal consumption. I would be turned on if they thought about me that way but Given their Jobs I doubt they give me much thought sadly |
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Frequently have the missus on my mind when having a little me time. Sometimes pics or video of her and stuff we’ve done or close my eyes and visualise.
I’ve done it while she’s there and I’ve spoken out my fantasy as she listens and watches me this for some reason is way hotter than it should be |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was on the number 23 bus thinking of Kylie, and forgot to get Off if that counts as an answer.
The long walk back was worth it though "
Don’t say that!! X feeling well guilty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She knows I don't need porn to 'get off' on her. My memory serves me very well indeed. I'm getting excited right now just thinking about her and where she's going later too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was on the number 23 bus thinking of Kylie, and forgot to get Off if that counts as an answer.
The long walk back was worth it though
Don’t say that!! X feeling well guilty "
So you should
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I think of her. I think of it it spontaneously which does also get me hard and yes, I tell her how what filth I’ve just directed in my mind starring her.
The only exception would be work, but even there I have found myself having to control my thoughts and breathing.
I’ve got a high sex drive, an active imagination and the woman concerned is frrrickin hot, so ever wonder why I’m constantly thinking about it. |
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By *S2004Man
over a year ago
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Porn doesn’t really do it for me. My go to material is my fat more attractive partner with other guys. I am lucky that I have had the pleasure of seeing it in the flesh and nothing else compares |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Porn doesn’t really do it for me. My go to material is my fat more attractive partner with other guys. I am lucky that I have had the pleasure of seeing it in the flesh and nothing else compares"
I mean, fair enough I take it you aren’t the jealous kind of guy then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was on the number 23 bus thinking of Kylie, and forgot to get Off if that counts as an answer.
The long walk back was worth it though
Don’t say that!! X feeling well guilty
So you should
If you want to reimburse my bus fare its £3.50
Or perhaps we can come to some sort of arrangement..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it’s some random guy off here, it kinda leaves me cold.
But if it’s a guy I know and like, great!
I’m not one for porn and prefer a real-life connection. |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"Haha here’s me with my weekly threads, asking men pretty in-depth private shit
ANYWAY, guys… say you are seeing a girl or you are into a girl (and feelings are mutual)… Do you get off thinking of her when you aren’t busy having sex? Or do you still prefer getting off to porn?
Also, if you do… do you need initiation like sexting or a naughty pic in order for you to get horny and get off to her?
And last questions, do you tell her?! Do you let her know that u masturbate thinking of her?
Ladies, obviously still like some involvement from and some thoughts from our side… do you like knowing the guy you are into, get off thinking of you?
Personally, I quite like knowing he’s so into me that he thinks of me and get off thinking of me. And do like it when he tells me he’s hard thinking of me. But anyway, Over to you ladies and gents "
Ooh, this could get interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me, I only wank about people I know, usually the girl I’m seeing at that particular time, I imagine all sorts of scenarios, if I’m honest, porn doesn’t do it for me, I’ll start watching it, it’ll get me fired up, but then while I wank, I use what I’ve seen in porn but with me and the girl I’m seeing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love knowing a man is thinking of me in that way, especially without the contact.
Like I like knowing that I've left that effect on a man, leaving him wanting more....
I recently caught up with a man I had sex with years ago (just the once) and he confessed that he has recently got out prison
He then went on to inform me that he used thoughts of me as wank material and yeah I found that pretty hot...so of course I had to remind him how I felt |
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Hi all mrs cherries just told me to have a read of this and I don't wank as much as I used too(I don't have too) but if I do then she is always on my mind or I watch naughty videos of her that iv got on my phone. I sometimes imagine her in differant scenarios too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For some reason I feel like a pervert wanking over someone I know. I did in when I was younger but now it’s always over porn.
But what about someone that was into you? Would that weird you out?? X "
Yeah unless they actually asked me to do it. Maybe i’m weird but I just feel kind of creepy after doing it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Always over porn. Why wank over something you can have anytime you want? "
Maybe because they turn u on loads? I guess it’s more with somebody that you aren’t living with so you are still getting to know them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If porn isn't to hand, my wanks are generally over past fucks
I don't really get off on someone I'm seeing
Wanking, to me, is about the fantasy, not the current reality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love knowing Mr has been wanking over me, really turns me on. I know he uses porn but also gets off thinking about past things we’ve done, depends on his mood! |
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I will watch porn while I master bate, but I'm usually thinking about real sex I've had too, and sometimes I'll even message the girl if I think she'd like to know. When there's some interaction going on, it makes the solo play more exciting |
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