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over a year ago
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A reasonable size hotlist
Block list is mainly for people who don’t match preferences so I don’t keep reading their profiles. I use it more like a filter. |
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The block list, is far bigger. I just add to it and don't review it. The hotlist is reviewed and designed to be realistic, rather than a dream list. With experience over almost 15 years, I've got better at understanding what I want and can work. |
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over a year ago
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I find it interesting to see some people don't have a blocklist. Unless I completely block men from messaging I just can't avoid blocking some. They keep messaging even when I've never responded or I've said no. As well as the abusive or sordid messages. |
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"Block list must be in the thousands!
So much hate in you! "
It’s not hate. It’s how I do fab. If I’m not interested I delete a message and block. It’s just a tool. Never ever block forumites though, even though I’m blocked by a few |
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Block list has 16 on it. I'd say the hotlist is about 3 times bigger than that. And I've only ever blocked once, it's my husband who gets more irritated with people than I do. Maybe I'm just too nice ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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over a year ago
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"Your hotlist or block list? "
Tbh l don't bother with any , l don't have a hotlist cause that's just me I don't put anyone higher than the next as regards a block list l don't have any simply because if they're interested ..they're interested.. if their not ..their not ..Like a lot of people here l don't take things seriously. |
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