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Do you have to like someone as a person.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, absolutely.
Its why I don't to club meets and have to meet people socially before play. If I don't like them as a person, I'm not interested sexually.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive played in clubs many times and i havnt even looked at therir face so once ive left the room i couldnt tell you whos cock ive just been sucking
Ive had it a few times where guys have spoken to me in clubs and when ive asked if we know each other they have told me we have played before  on serveral occasion sometimes lol
in clubs i dont need to know them or anything about them to play
on a private meet where im spending more one on one time with them its different
if ive got ready and sorted a sitter to meet someone i want a good all night session not a quick fuck and go like you do in club, so if im spending the night with someone it helps to get on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No for either of us, but length and breadth of play is proportional to the 'playtime working relationship' that is just plain good old camerarderie 
Wolf
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"Most of the chicks I bang are alien so technically I like them as aliens not people."
Remember that's technically my cock as well you're shoving in all those weird and wonderful alien holes 
...and no more crustacean related aliens, I'm still having flashbacks!  |
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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Most of the chicks I bang are alien so technically I like them as aliens not people.
Remember that's technically my cock as well you're shoving in all those weird and wonderful alien holes
...and no more crustacean related aliens, I'm still having flashbacks! "
GUM Clinic can sort those?  |
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"Most of the chicks I bang are alien so technically I like them as aliens not people.
Remember that's technically my cock as well you're shoving in all those weird and wonderful alien holes
...and no more crustacean related aliens, I'm still having flashbacks! "
Awww but they have such squidgy innards.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most of the chicks I bang are alien so technically I like them as aliens not people."
You really have got to stop trolling ComiCon for potential meets, you know!
There are only so many Orion Slave-Girls to go around! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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thinking about it tho i dont necessarily have to like someone to have sex with them i couldnt play with someone i really didnt like
I would find it very hard to want to give plessure to someone i didnt like, i think id want to bite instead of suck lol |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
When I am at home I make guacomole with the best avocadoes I can find. When I am eating out I don't have much control over the quality of the avocadoes and have to make the choice based on the general menu, cleanliness and ambience of a the eaterie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to get jiggy with em? "
Yep. Can't get a gallop on for someone who doesn't get into my mind. Like could = fancy though, and that's good enough usually, but if someone I really fancied turned out to be a total bitch I couldn't shag her - for long.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to banter (in case you haven't noticed) so anyone that can't keep up rarely gets as far as my front doorstep.
Unless I'm either :
a) really horny
b) bored
c) feeling benevolent
d) feeling too lazy to have a wank meself, or
e) any combination of the above |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
Generally I have to click with people for repeat meets, overnights, etc...but sometimes my libido can and does get the better of me and I can happily fuck a complete stranger...I also have a fantasy involving a lot of anonymous cocks to sort out as well...
Daz on the other hand, is a straight single guy so when he's in charge, it's any pulse and pussy...Taz is a criminally insane sociopath and is omnisexual so pulse, pussy and, on occasion, species mean nothing to it(Funky, send some of your aliens it's way please...) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I do. I only play with guys who I like and click with. If I didn't like someone and couldn't get along with them out of bedroom I wouldn't bother. Why is that do you think?"
Because we like the social side of swinging as much as the sex. I'm not someone who would enjoy stranger sex and find the idea of some total stranger touching me disgusting. I know plenty love the club scene and the whole stranger sex thing but that's just not my thing at all.
Yes I know it's a sex site snd not a dating site and no I'm not looking for a replacement husband but I do prefer a guy I can flirt and chat with and I'm comfortable with. For me it makes the night much better. And after 2 years swinging I think I know what works best for us |
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By *orkieMan
over a year ago
Who knows |
With 3 exceptions when I thought with my dick instead of my brain... (yep an unusual occurrence for a single guy) I have to click with someone before I do the deed, for repeat meets there has definitely got to be a connection.
In a club scenario when playing with someone other than the person I came with there must be some kind of attraction for me to play. I dont subscribe to the usual any holes a goal thing |
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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Yes I do. I only play with guys who I like and click with. If I didn't like someone and couldn't get along with them out of bedroom I wouldn't bother. Why is that do you think?
Because we like the social side of swinging as much as the sex. I'm not someone who would enjoy stranger sex and find the idea of some total stranger touching me disgusting. I know plenty love the club scene and the whole stranger sex thing but that's just not my thing at all.
Yes I know it's a sex site snd not a dating site and no I'm not looking for a replacement husband but I do prefer a guy I can flirt and chat with and I'm comfortable with. For me it makes the night much better. And after 2 years swinging I think I know what works best for us "
Good you know what works for you and stick with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the situation. I'm pretty sure we have ALL at some point in our lives been to a pub/club and its getting on for closing time. Then trawled the dance floor looking for that 'special' someone who will recieve the benefit of a half comatose sex session behind the fire station down the road! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on the situation. I'm pretty sure we have ALL at some point in our lives been to a pub/club and its getting on for closing time. Then trawled the dance floor looking for that 'special' someone who will recieve the benefit of a half comatose sex session behind the fire station down the road!
Bloody hell, it was you was it????
I dont think i have ever "trawled" is it fun?
Its great! Smells a bit fishy tho!
How very dare you Sirrah...last time I let me beer goggles do the picking up "
But you said those 15 vodkas and 7 pints didn't influence your choice that night! I'm hurt now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thinking about it tho i dont necessarily have to like someone to have sex with them i couldnt play with someone i really didnt like
I would find it very hard to want to give plessure to someone i didnt like, i think id want to bite instead of suck lol"
*zips up trousers, and runs off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on the situation. I'm pretty sure we have ALL at some point in our lives been to a pub/club and its getting on for closing time. Then trawled the dance floor looking for that 'special' someone who will recieve the benefit of a half comatose sex session behind the fire station down the road!
Bloody hell, it was you was it????
I dont think i have ever "trawled" is it fun?
Its great! Smells a bit fishy tho!
How very dare you Sirrah...last time I let me beer goggles do the picking up
But you said those 15 vodkas and 7 pints didn't influence your choice that night! I'm hurt now!
I think maybe the bottle of Absinthe and the Buckie chaser may have tipped me over the edge, I can only apologise for misleading you when I slurred I loved you and you were the best shag ever...I'll wipe me bits next time  "
My thoughts exactly, maybe next time you should drink them, instead of hitting me over the head with the bottles and dragging me round the corner to take advantage of my trusting nature! |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
Yes I do, which is one of the reasons I use my hotlist to stalk people for a while, and also why I don't play in clubs (although I go to them fairly regularly....) |
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