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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone else just wish that if a user knows you in the real world, then they feel relaxed enough to say hello on here? Aren’t we all here for similar things? I may not be what they are looking for, but if we know one another, then surely it’s cool to chat?
I get that some people have kids etc, but if they know me then they’ll know I’m discreet.
Anyone met people on here that they already knew in real world settings? If so, how did things go? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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No I don't. I'd rather they didn't. For the most part my fab life is separate from my home life and never the twain shall meet - I've seen and heard of too many times when it goes to shit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab life and real life are two different worlds
To sum it up
Fab life club life swingeing life porn life
I am a “bad word”
Out side them in real life I am a nun ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't remember the saying, but something about shitting on your own doorstep or where you eat. One of the two.
I think that applies with merging fab and real life, in my opinion. Just doesn't really go well together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont think I would like that no. I work in a big place and wouldnt appreciate being known and approached, or by parents or even worse teachers at kids school |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, so I see it’s a definite NO from people. I was just curious, but in hindsight I think you all have very valid points. I wouldn’t shit myself if someone said hello, but maybe it’s not for the best if they did |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I’ve had two people I know in the real world contact me on here. And the assumption was that I’d be up for it as I’m on here. It felt seedy and pushy. I’d rather be left alone. You do you and I’ll do me sort of thing. |
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"Does anyone else just wish that if a user knows you in the real world, then they feel relaxed enough to say hello on here? Aren’t we all here for similar things? I may not be what they are looking for, but if we know one another, then surely it’s cool to chat?
I get that some people have kids etc, but if they know me then they’ll know I’m discreet.
Anyone met people on here that they already knew in real world settings? If so, how did things go?"
Everyone has a different definition of discreet and they are proving that they genuinely are discreet by not saying hello.
Any attempt to do otherwise would prove that you aren't. |
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"Does anyone else just wish that if a user knows you in the real world, then they feel relaxed enough to say hello on here? Aren’t we all here for similar things? I may not be what they are looking for, but if we know one another, then surely it’s cool to chat?
I get that some people have kids etc, but if they know me then they’ll know I’m discreet.
Anyone met people on here that they already knew in real world settings? If so, how did things go?
Everyone has a different definition of discreet and they are proving that they genuinely are discreet by not saying hello.
Any attempt to do otherwise would prove that you aren't. "
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We don't actually know anybody from our real world on here, but those that we have met just socially or otherwise, we'd happily speak to if our paths crossed in a non fab environment.
We'd like to think that those we have met here are adult enough not to sweat it and have a conversation that is appropriate for the environment.
If an acquaintance from real would contact us, we'd probably laugh about it but not take things further.
What goes on in fab, stays in fab is our stance on things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve had two people I know in the real world contact me on here. And the assumption was that I’d be up for it as I’m on here. It felt seedy and pushy. I’d rather be left alone. You do you and I’ll do me sort of thing." |
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