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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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The label kinky is defined as involving or given to unusual sexual behaviour.
Many people are involved in the BDSM world so is it no longer kinky by that definition?
I could like watching Bill play with his willy while he does a headstand on the local heard of goats, is that kinky or just something we both enjoy?
If someone likes something they like it, doesn’t mean it’s kinky. |
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over a year ago
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I don't list my kinks publicly. It just means I will get people messaging me giving me hassle or trying to get into my knickers. Even ticking one of the interests will result in that. |
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"Kinks come in many forms.
They do. so say what it means to
You."
People who enjoy different sexual things, like sniffing knickers, ice or wax play, spanking. Just stuff that is special to them but not enjoyed by others. |
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"Kinks come in many forms.
They do. so say what it means to
You.
People who enjoy different sexual things, like sniffing knickers, ice or wax play, spanking. Just stuff that is special to them but not enjoyed
by others."
I get all of that I just pose the question to see what the resulting thoughts were .appreciate all contributions
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The problem with listing your kinks on a profile is that some hard of thinking types see it as a todo list rather than a general interest list.
Personally I came to nswinging to get away from the Twue BDSM high protocol stuff and to just enjoy the kinky sex
A lot of what we do comes under the bdsm label but that isn't the be all and end all of it. |
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Love a good kink discussion
Mine are
BDSM
Wax
Temperature
Sensual
Rope
With a few others added into the mix I want to try
I get why people don't list them, as the wannabees can get overwhelming, but if I can help someone understand and grow with knowledge of my interests then I'm happy to chat about them. |
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"The problem with listing your kinks on a profile is that some hard of thinking types see it as a todo list rather than a general interest list.
Personally I came to nswinging to get away from the Twue BDSM high protocol stuff and to just enjoy the kinky sex
A lot of what we do comes under the bdsm label but that isn't the be all and end all of it."
I'm not a fan of Twue doms myself. Protocol doesn't work for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The problem with listing your kinks on a profile is that some hard of thinking types see it as a todo list rather than a general interest list.
Personally I came to nswinging to get away from the Twue BDSM high protocol stuff and to just enjoy the kinky sex
A lot of what we do comes under the bdsm label but that isn't the be all and end all of it.
I'm not a fan of Twue doms myself. Protocol doesn't work for me. "
You not doing the caps things right it should be Twue Dom's they get upset if you forget the capital D |
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"The problem with listing your kinks on a profile is that some hard of thinking types see it as a todo list rather than a general interest list.
Personally I came to nswinging to get away from the Twue BDSM high protocol stuff and to just enjoy the kinky sex
A lot of what we do comes under the bdsm label but that isn't the be all and end all of it.
I'm not a fan of Twue doms myself. Protocol doesn't work for me.
You not doing the caps things right it should be Twue Dom's they get upset if you forget the capital D"
I know. ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The problem with listing your kinks on a profile is that some hard of thinking types see it as a todo list rather than a general interest list.
Personally I came to nswinging to get away from the Twue BDSM high protocol stuff and to just enjoy the kinky sex
A lot of what we do comes under the bdsm label but that isn't the be all and end all of it.
I'm not a fan of Twue doms myself. Protocol doesn't work for me.
You not doing the caps things right it should be Twue Dom's they get upset if you forget the capital D
I know. " Are you feeling upset, Drew? ![](/icons/s/lol.gif) |
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Kinky doesn't mean BDSM so why would you list it unless you were into it
Kinky means unusual sexual behaviours which could be different partners, multiple partners, bdsm, role play, pain play, Dom & sub, hotwifing, cuckold, etc the list goes on
So why the need to list bdsm if that's not your kink? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kinky is such a broad term and can describe anything from a fetish for something to sexual acts that are not considered the norm, saying that my take on it has always been what is kinky to one person may not be kinky to another ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
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I have some things I'd call a kink but not kinky.
For me the feel of nylon and kissing all the way up stockinged legs is a link others might say I'm kinky, perish the thought.
Everyone has their own likes and dislikes but Victorian and puritanical beliefs make some people feel ashamed of things they enjoy.
If you like it do it as it is your pleasure and no one else's. |
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"Erotic is using a feather.
Kinky is using the whole chicken.
Erotic is putting whipped cream on your partner
Kinky is putting cream on, then whipping it"
Well I wouldn't whip it off .id lick it off then do the whipping Lol.but then again the cream had been whipped in the first place .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like to have a woman watch as i piss on an electric fence
By that definition is you that kinky or is her for watching ." i know by the end i have a kinky pinky winky ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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