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over a year ago
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What do people think.
Some people seem to think that in order to be confident you have to be the loudest in the room and speak your mind.
I disagree with this , you can be quitely confident, it's about knowing when and how to speak.
I believe often the loudest ones are the most insecure and studies shows those people often were misheard at a younger age.
Just a random thought and interested to hear your respectful views.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do people think.
Some people seem to think that in order to be confident you have to be the loudest in the room and speak your mind.
I disagree with this , you can be quitely confident, it's about knowing when and how to speak.
I believe often the loudest ones are the most insecure and studies shows those people often were misheard at a younger age.
Just a random thought and interested to hear your respectful views. "
People Maybe have their confidence in different ways , you reach an age where you know your self worth for example a guy may work hard , be totally honest etc etc , nothing at all wrong with that .. nothing...but he knows in his heart and soul he'll never catch the eye of the lady that wants the guy with his boat or yacht , what lm trying to say is confidence comes in every shape or form , Money sometimes make a person confident, sport can , Music can , it all depends , everyone is different . |
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Does confidence matter ?
Isn’t that good for buying or selling cars ? Or believing you can invade another country
Or Is being polite, kind, actually listening not just waiting for a gap to speak and being honest with other people better attributes |
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"Does confidence matter ?
Isn’t that good for buying or selling cars ?
Or Is being polite, kind, actually listening not just waiting for a gap to speak and being honest with other people better attributes "
In a way you'd still need to feel confident in yourself. |
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"Does confidence matter ?
Isn’t that good for buying or selling cars ? Or believing you can invade another country
Or Is being polite, kind, actually listening not just waiting for a gap to speak and being honest with other people better attributes"
Why mention about invading another country?thats not confidence that's arrogance |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does confidence matter ?
Isn’t that good for buying or selling cars ? Or believing you can invade another country
Or Is being polite, kind, actually listening not just waiting for a gap to speak and being honest with other people better attributes"
You don’t need to be confident to invade another country.
Just have a bigger and better military.
The only thing stopping me from taking the Maldives is numbers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me confidence clearly comes from experience. So in my work I am pretty confident most of the time given 35 years experience. Sex, women and relationships is the polar opposite. |
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"Does confidence matter ?
Isn’t that good for buying or selling cars ? Or believing you can invade another country
Or Is being polite, kind, actually listening not just waiting for a gap to speak and being honest with other people better attributes
Why mention about invading another country?thats not confidence that's arrogance "
I worked for a guy years ago who said he was the most unconfident confident person ever.
he could come across externally not arrogant just totally confident but inside he was the total Opposite so doesn’t that mean confidence can be faked?
The invade part I never said which country was being invaded or who I was referring to ? |
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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago
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"Does confidence matter ?
Isn’t that good for buying or selling cars ? Or believing you can invade another country
Or Is being polite, kind, actually listening not just waiting for a gap to speak and being honest with other people better attributes
Why mention about invading another country?thats not confidence that's arrogance
I worked for a guy years ago who said he was the most unconfident confident person ever.
he could come across externally not arrogant just totally confident but inside he was the total Opposite so doesn’t that mean confidence can be faked?
The invade part I never said which country was being invaded or who I was referring to ?"
I totally fake my confidence, It is easier the less I know someone. If I want someone to know the real me I risk them not liking the less confident version. |
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I've seen it said on here with people describing themselves as strong and independent.
However my experience is that like most personality traits, if you have to continually tell others that you are a nice/strong/confident person it's usually a good sign that you are not.
Being the loudest person in the room/forum is often a side effect of fomo and a need for validation.
I know people who have been attracted to and/or married the loudest person in the room because they confused that with confidence. Every one of them regretted it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do people think.
Some people seem to think that in order to be confident you have to be the loudest in the room and speak your mind.
I disagree with this , you can be quitely confident, it's about knowing when and how to speak.
I believe often the loudest ones are the most insecure and studies shows those people often were misheard at a younger age.
Just a random thought and interested to hear your respectful views. "
Confidence is silent, issues are loud |
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"What do people think.
Some people seem to think that in order to be confident you have to be the loudest in the room and speak your mind.
I disagree with this , you can be quitely confident, it's about knowing when and how to speak.
I believe often the loudest ones are the most insecure and studies shows those people often were misheard at a younger age.
Just a random thought and interested to hear your respectful views.
Confidence is silent, issues are loud "
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think it's about confidence, it's usually about validation. As humans we look to others for that reassurance of who we believe we are as a person. Usually the quieter one's in the room are content not caring about other people's opinions on them. |
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