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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I’m single and I like it that way. It took a while know what it was I was looking for. I’m gonna try and explore more things in the swinging scene and stay single with some good friends who share the same passion for the adventures |
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By *arrisonMan
over a year ago
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I'd much rather have someone to share it with.
I never thought loneliness would be a feature of my life but I was wrong in that regard.
Rather dispiritingly I think it's unlikely to change.
Sorry to run contrary to popular opinion. |
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I think living with someone would just piss me off in all honesty.
I like the quiet.
I don't enjoy sharing a bed.
I get angry at the smell of other peoples shit, I know we all shit but it really makes my nostrils sad and feel attacked.
Sure there's stuff I miss like eating dinner together but I'm barely home in the evenings anyway coz I work shifts so that would be rare. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd much rather have someone to share it with.
I never thought loneliness would be a feature of my life but I was wrong in that regard.
Rather dispiritingly I think it's unlikely to change.
Sorry to run contrary to popular opinion."
I don't want to live with a man, but I don't want to remain single. Loneliness is a killer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd much rather have someone to share it with.
I never thought loneliness would be a feature of my life but I was wrong in that regard.
Rather dispiritingly I think it's unlikely to change.
Sorry to run contrary to popular opinion."
Loneliness is also a part of me too, still not sure I'd like to live with someone again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep, single pringle too.
I was only thinking about this earlier, spent 7 years single now and have become very anti social because of it...I'm probably now borderline not suitable for human consumption  |
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"I'd much rather have someone to share it with.
I never thought loneliness would be a feature of my life but I was wrong in that regard.
Rather dispiritingly I think it's unlikely to change.
Sorry to run contrary to popular opinion."
I don't think the views of those who are happier living alone are popular due to positive reasons. Most of us have been led to this point due to heartbreak and pain that we never wish to repeat. You know it's fucked up when you (i) find comfort in loneliness coz it means I'm safe from fresh hurt. |
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By *arrisonMan
over a year ago
Woolacombe |
"I'd much rather have someone to share it with.
I never thought loneliness would be a feature of my life but I was wrong in that regard.
Rather dispiritingly I think it's unlikely to change.
Sorry to run contrary to popular opinion.
I don't want to live with a man, but I don't want to remain single. Loneliness is a killer. "
Yes, I fear it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd much rather have someone to share it with.
I never thought loneliness would be a feature of my life but I was wrong in that regard.
Rather dispiritingly I think it's unlikely to change.
Sorry to run contrary to popular opinion.
I don't think the views of those who are happier living alone are popular due to positive reasons. Most of us have been led to this point due to heartbreak and pain that we never wish to repeat. You know it's fucked up when you (i) find comfort in loneliness coz it means I'm safe from fresh hurt."
Yeah, it is fucked up. I know what you mean. Wish so many people on here didn't know what you mean. Lots of people decrying that they ever need anyone else or god forbid "catch the feels". Because feeling that hurt, that rejected - that's hard to open yourself up to. Again. |
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"I'd much rather have someone to share it with.
I never thought loneliness would be a feature of my life but I was wrong in that regard.
Rather dispiritingly I think it's unlikely to change.
Sorry to run contrary to popular opinion.
I don't think the views of those who are happier living alone are popular due to positive reasons. Most of us have been led to this point due to heartbreak and pain that we never wish to repeat. You know it's fucked up when you (i) find comfort in loneliness coz it means I'm safe from fresh hurt.
Yeah, it is fucked up. I know what you mean. Wish so many people on here didn't know what you mean. Lots of people decrying that they ever need anyone else or god forbid "catch the feels". Because feeling that hurt, that rejected - that's hard to open yourself up to. Again. "
I think that's part of why I reckon I'd get pissed off too with the little stuff. Stuff that's not actually that bad, just an inconvenience, like my nostrils being attacked by the smell of shit or me not getting a good night's sleep due to sharing a bed and their movement/snoring waking me..... coz I know I'd be thinking "why the fuck am I allowing this inconvenience to me when it's gonna turn to shit anyway and they'll not even appreciate it? " |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only come on here because I’m lonely, I was in a horrible controlling marriage.. now I live alone, work from home a lot and go out on my own.. it was ok at first but I do miss waking up to someone, on the plus side my place is immaculate and nobody messes it up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd much rather have someone to share it with.
I never thought loneliness would be a feature of my life but I was wrong in that regard.
Rather dispiritingly I think it's unlikely to change.
Sorry to run contrary to popular opinion.
I don't think the views of those who are happier living alone are popular due to positive reasons. Most of us have been led to this point due to heartbreak and pain that we never wish to repeat. You know it's fucked up when you (i) find comfort in loneliness coz it means I'm safe from fresh hurt.
Yeah, it is fucked up. I know what you mean. Wish so many people on here didn't know what you mean. Lots of people decrying that they ever need anyone else or god forbid "catch the feels". Because feeling that hurt, that rejected - that's hard to open yourself up to. Again.
I think that's part of why I reckon I'd get pissed off too with the little stuff. Stuff that's not actually that bad, just an inconvenience, like my nostrils being attacked by the smell of shit or me not getting a good night's sleep due to sharing a bed and their movement/snoring waking me..... coz I know I'd be thinking "why the fuck am I allowing this inconvenience to me when it's gonna turn to shit anyway and they'll not even appreciate it? " "
When you're ready one day, that little stuff won't even be in your head. I don't think I'm ready either. Hell even guys on here tell me I come across as wary.  |
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By *ickJMan
over a year ago
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I've been single for 3 years now. I enjoy living alone (I have my teenage kid alternate weeks)
I can do what I want without having to consider if it fits in with "our" plans. I'm my own person for the first time in 20odd years.
It'd be nice to have someone pop round for sex occasionally, but to be honest, after 2 years of pandemic disallowing it, I've sort of got out of the habit of wanting that too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't want to live with anyone again. I'm more than happy to live on my own now and think I would struggle to adjust to living with someone again. However, If I ever find the holy grail partner that wants to swing then I'll give it a bloody good go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on what you want , being single is ok , without a doubt , you have control of your own life , you can do whatever you want ,to a certain extent , you always run the risk of being caught should you decide to rob a bank etc but you get my drift .Now living with someone ? THAT is a different kettle of fish altogether , l don't care what other people think , it's my opinion , that for that to happen everything and l mean EVERYTHING has to be right ..it's a huge HUGE decision to leave someone else into your home to live with them , my advice ? Choose wisely ..oh boy what a decision to make .. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I don’t think I could live with anyone again. I like my own space too much and I’m not domesticated at all, they’d end up doing the cooking.
I would rather he have his place, I have mine, and we see each other for a bit and then they go away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Divorce hurt but I'd much prefer to share my life with someone then being single and alone for the length of time it's been for me.
They say time heals but not fast enough. Don't get me wrong there are times I enjoy my single life.
My flat is always tidy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd much rather have someone to share it with.
I never thought loneliness would be a feature of my life but I was wrong in that regard.
Rather dispiritingly I think it's unlikely to change.
Sorry to run contrary to popular opinion.
I don't want to live with a man, but I don't want to remain single. Loneliness is a killer. "
This for me too! |
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Not currently wanting a relationship. ?deep down and in the future I would like to fund someone.
As for living with someone, it's been over 11yrs since I've lived with a partner, it would take someone very special.
And definitely not hanging on to Apron strings still |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Happily single with an open mind - should something come along I feel is worth changing that for or adds to my overall happiness then I’d consider it - if it doesn’t add value it’s not worth it! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd much rather have someone to share it with.
I never thought loneliness would be a feature of my life but I was wrong in that regard.
Rather dispiritingly I think it's unlikely to change.
Sorry to run contrary to popular opinion."
Shit man that’s rough. Why isn’t it likely to change? All work and no play or just small town limiting opportunities? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love being single, but will admit i do miss company sometimes.
Someone to wake upto and cuddle, nights in, days out.
I suppose a fwb, could make them things happen, but its finding one, lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been living on my own for 8 years now, I’ve been single for 5 of those, this last period for just under 3 years. While I like doing what I want, when I want, the evenings, especially at the weekends are starting to get boring now. Not sure I’d want to move in with someone, but I do miss company, which for me is a big statement.
I think being on my own through lockdown had a big effect, my thinking definitely changed after the solitude |
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