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By *acey_Red OP   Woman  over a year ago

Liverpool

Personally I enjoy mixing it up and I can enjoy both fast and hard or slow and sensual. I find most men tend to default to fast and hard. Is that because that's what most men prefer or what they think women want? I know the answers will vary between men but I'm curious to hear some takes on it.

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By *hortarseWoman  over a year ago

Norfolk

I'm going to watch this one

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Me too

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By *aramedic999Man  over a year ago

Cambridge

Yes I like slow sex... nice to finish together

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By *tagvixen40Couple  over a year ago

Sheffield

I like mixing it up really, can depend on the situation though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Id be all out of puff if it was a jackhammering so hell yes a nice slow teasing grind works well

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love slow sensual sex as much as hard fast passionate sex. Both types are important to me

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By *avie65Man  over a year ago

In the west.

For me it depends on the position.

Doggy - fast or mixed

Missionary - slow

Cowgirl - that's not up to me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I personally enjoy both. I think you can gauge how its going to be with the mood and build up play

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As a bi cd male i love guys making love to me slowly and on the rare occasions i am with a woman slow and tactilecsex is best

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan  over a year ago

Bradford

Like both but slow and sensual as well is very important .

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By *urvyBi-84Man  over a year ago

Lancs


"Personally I enjoy mixing it up and I can enjoy both fast and hard or slow and sensual. I find most men tend to default to fast and hard. Is that because that's what most men prefer or what they think women want? I know the answers will vary between men but I'm curious to hear some takes on it. "

I enjoy a mix. Usually start slow and sensual then build things up to hard and fast for a bit, then slow it down again.

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By *arahsluttyireTV/TS  over a year ago

on the move

Speaking as all guy and with women.

Absolutely slow and sensual. That slow but strong stroke gets everything warmed up and then being able to vary.

Even when getting to the finish for both, it doesn’t have to be fast and furious. It can be just as powerful cumming in a locked embrace and position, stealing kisses between moans while you push long, slow powerful thrusts (with a little extra flick of the hips right at the end of each thrust)!!

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By *ighty_tightyMan  over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

It's my default, much prefer taking our time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Prefer it slow tbh. Especially with people I really care about obviously but do like it generally if there’s lots of kissing and kissing of body parts. I think it’s best in missionary but like it in some others too.

Generally hard and fast is not my go to, I’d even rather an average rhythm because it just sometimes feels really pornographic and not me. But if my partner wants it I would do it.

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By *rAitchMan  over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

I'm built for comfort, not for speed

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By *eisty LadyWoman  over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

I tell them to go fast and hard if I’m bored and want them to cum then sod off, or say I’d like them to wank off while I watch. Speeds things up then I get on with real life

Personal preference is slow and sensual but not many men on Fab seem to want that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I enjoy a mix, ive had the best orgasms with slow intense sex

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By *ansexualPandaMan  over a year ago

cumallover

It really depends on the situation and vibe of what's going on. Mixing it up is good. I don't think I could go like a jackhammer for a long time anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Altho the wild animalistic growling jack hammer does have its place given the right person and need

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By *teve_it_aloneMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline

Slow, sensual and deliberate for me. Not saying I can’t/won’t mix it up when required, but strong preference for low tempo.

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Liverpool

All down to the mood and vibe

I certainly enjoy it. Very much. There are feelings and sensation that only slow sex can achieve. And sometimes it just can't match up to the raw lust filled hard sex session.

Not really much else to say than that.

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By *ememberTheNameMan  over a year ago

barnsley


"Personally I enjoy mixing it up and I can enjoy both fast and hard or slow and sensual. I find most men tend to default to fast and hard. Is that because that's what most men prefer or what they think women want? I know the answers will vary between men but I'm curious to hear some takes on it. "

I can’t speak on behalf of all men … but I like all sex

Slow , fast , sensual, hard

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I enjoy mixing up as well especially as you move from one position to another also depends on the situation and the mood too

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By *teve_it_aloneMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline

I think shit porn has an awful lot to answer for when it comes to jackhammering and arse slapping.

I’ve no doubt there are some people who are into it, but from experience it is a minority.

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By *anicmatchMan  over a year ago

Stafford

I combine slow and fast.it all depends on the moment and how much energy I have plus you have to read the body language of your partner.

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By *iaisonseekerMan  over a year ago

Liverpool

One of the benefits of doing it more slowly is that there is more scope for passionate kissing and exploring the lady's body and just generally savouring the sensations.

That said, frenzied thrusting can really hit the spot too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think shit porn has an awful lot to answer for when it comes to jackhammering and arse slapping.

I’ve no doubt there are some people who are into it, but from experience it is a minority. "

This

As I have got older I have really gone off the polished porn out there and gone for more of the real stuff so much better although I stumbled across one called Camilla Creampie the other day let's just say that guy must have an amazing tongue lol

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By *hetalkingstoveMan  over a year ago

London

Slow can be incredibly hot. A fun way of teasing, or being teased

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I think shit porn has an awful lot to answer for when it comes to jackhammering and arse slapping.

I’ve no doubt there are some people who are into it, but from experience it is a minority. "

Does it though? I guess partially, but people have a lot to answer for, for not realising that porn is an exaggerated fantasy world often using extremes.

The tool often gets a lot of the hate, when it's the user that is often the issue.

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By *parrow77Man  over a year ago

cheshire

I enjoy mix of slow sensual and hard and fast especially if sense lady building to orgasm and then slow again to tease and prolonged yum

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By *teve_it_aloneMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I think shit porn has an awful lot to answer for when it comes to jackhammering and arse slapping.

I’ve no doubt there are some people who are into it, but from experience it is a minority.

Does it though? I guess partially, but people have a lot to answer for, for not realising that porn is an exaggerated fantasy world often using extremes.

The tool often gets a lot of the hate, when it's the user that is often the issue. "

Don’t get me wrong I’m not against all porn. I just think there’s a shitload of really bad porn. The kind of stuff that tends to be aimed at mass market cis het guys and uses misogynistic tropes - even down to the titles and key words.

When porn videos were less ubiquitous, young men and women went into early sexual encounters knowing that they knew nothing. Sometimes their experiments worked, sometimes they didn’t.

Now guys who have been wanking off to crappy porn since long before they ever get to do it in real life go into sexual encounters thinking they are a stud. That some jackhammering, a couple of slaps on the arse, and a moneyshot makes a good night’s fun.

Don’t get me wrong… not ALL men… not ALL porn… etc.

And yes, there was a lot of shit sex before broadband too. I know. I had some. I’m just really grateful I didn’t film it!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Gonna follow this one luckily I found guys who knew how to do a bit of both and that was hot. I think slow and sensual sex is so so sexy!! X just enjoy how it feels

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By *mily36CWoman  over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I think shit porn has an awful lot to answer for when it comes to jackhammering and arse slapping.

I’ve no doubt there are some people who are into it, but from experience it is a minority. "

I'll second this ... if you ever watch porn directed by females almost entirely different ...so if you're after note taking switch track maybe

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

With the right person every kind of sex.

slow, passionate, gentle, sensual, rough, hard, caressing, hands stroking, hair pulling, arse grabbing, steamy, sweaty, orgasm filled sex.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Very slow can be extremely erotic!

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By *asilyled1Man  over a year ago

ogmore valley

Depends on the situation. Sometimes lust takes over and you rip each other’s clothes off and just fuck. Other times it’s nice to go slow with lots of kissing,close eye contact,and enjoy the moment

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

From my own personal perspective, I enjoy both.

Most men tend to prefer fast because:

It's what makes them cum quicker.

It could also be because that's what most have seen whilst watching porn and think that's what "they're supposed to do".

Another way could also depend on how they masturbate too.

During masturbation, if they masturbate fast, their mind learns that's what it enjoys and therefore they try to replicate it during sex.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes I do I like a bit of everything but sometimes I just want to idly lie in bed chat kiss cuddle and play ...something I seldom do

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By *estSussexGuy76Man  over a year ago

copthorne

Yes, I love it when I'm about to cum, then stop then start again ..

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By *teve_it_aloneMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I think shit porn has an awful lot to answer for when it comes to jackhammering and arse slapping.

I’ve no doubt there are some people who are into it, but from experience it is a minority.

I'll second this ... if you ever watch porn directed by females almost entirely different ...so if you're after note taking switch track maybe "

Yeah totally. I think some women also fall victim to this effect too - thinking they have to ‘perform’ in a certain way, or vocalise in a way that’s clearly not natural or comfortable for them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes, love sensual sex

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By *etcplCouple  over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Get it over with asap, more time for playstation

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By *P994Man  over a year ago

Travelling

I prefer slow sex tbh, get more sensation than if I was to pound away. Mixing it up is good but if I had a gun to my head and told to pick one I’d be having sex at a sloths pace

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By *hristopherd999Man  over a year ago

Brentwood


"Yes, love sensual sex"

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am partial to a long slow screw

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

Glad to see the majority like a mix x

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By *eadinthecloudsMan  over a year ago

Manchester

It's all a matter of being sufficiently horny. once a particular horniness threshold is reached, speed is irrelevant

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By *egasus NobMan  over a year ago

Wandsworth

Read your partner and see what they enjoy

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By *etLikeMan  over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

I enjoy slow unhurried meets, so I’ve no intention of rushing when we progress to sex.

For me, the whole time of playing is sex, not just the intercourse.

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan  over a year ago

London

Not into quickies but sex should be a mixture of slow, fast, stopping, starting, different acts, different positions, exploring each other’s body and mind. Sex doesn’t need to start with oral and end with penetration

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Personally I enjoy mixing it up and I can enjoy both fast and hard or slow and sensual. I find most men tend to default to fast and hard. Is that because that's what most men prefer or what they think women want? I know the answers will vary between men but I'm curious to hear some takes on it. "

It should be varied OP in my opinion. Start slow and build up, take it back down, build it back up, maybe stop for a brew and a quick episode of the chase and straight back to it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love slow, sensual fucking

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By *herubchubWoman  over a year ago

Nr the sea

Where are all you slow, sensual and deep fucking Fabbers? It’s what I crave!

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By *hocCock1Man  over a year ago

Southampton

Prefer slow and sensual

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham

Yeah I'm happy to go slow and not Jackhammer.

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By *itty9899Man  over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Personally I enjoy mixing it up and I can enjoy both fast and hard or slow and sensual. I find most men tend to default to fast and hard. Is that because that's what most men prefer or what they think women want? I know the answers will vary between men but I'm curious to hear some takes on it. "

Depends on the situation, but I do like a long slow session.

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By *oly1965Man  over a year ago

colchester

I much prefer long and slow mainly .make the pleasure last

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

Beggars can’t be choosers

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman  over a year ago

Newcastle

I find a lot of guys are into slower stuff. I tend not to meet them again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love slow sweaty sex with lots of eye contact and kissing, it can't all be 100mph

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By *hostwolfMan  over a year ago

Scarborough

I feel like it's situational but yes love slow sex just as much as hard or rough

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By *erfectman122Man  over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Of course we do

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple  over a year ago

Darlington

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I enjoy a slow wank, does that count

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By *teve_it_aloneMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I enjoy a slow wank, does that count "

Depends on who you wank, I guess.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple  over a year ago

liverpool

I love slow romantic sex.

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I enjoy a slow wank, does that count "

Technically sex with yourself I guess

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By *hil most chillMan  over a year ago

South East & Europe

I adore slow sex, savouring every moment and teasing each other, seeing how long we can draw the pleasure out for. Of course it usually needs some hard and fast action mixed in to keep things interesting, but I love taking my time with sex. What's the rush??

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By *tylebender03Man  over a year ago

Manchester

Yeah I enjoy slow sex, I practise tantric sex, through slow sex you can extend orgasms

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By *orbidden eastMan  over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

For me it most definitely depends on the mood.

But I have to say a slow sensual taking your time sex is extremely satisfying

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Slow , passionate for me… I’m more into how the woman feels than myself, I love lots of teasing and foreplay, I can mix it up depending on how she responds

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Slow , teasing , the best way

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By *ilffadMan  over a year ago

swansea

Both. Depends on the person and mutual desires

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Glad to see there are still some men who like it slow and sensual. I think it's more intimate x

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By *issMeSlowlyMan  over a year ago

Northampton

I prefer it slow and sensual. More chance for plenty of hot, slow kissing

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By *iscean_dreamMan  over a year ago

Llanelli


"Personally I enjoy mixing it up and I can enjoy both fast and hard or slow and sensual. I find most men tend to default to fast and hard. Is that because that's what most men prefer or what they think women want? I know the answers will vary between men but I'm curious to hear some takes on it. "

I mix it up, think I always have. It's good to have variation I think

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes, I do. I love it lasting as long as possible, and I explicitly say to her to take as much time as she wants before she cums. It gives her the opportunity to be edged.

IS

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By *alentedfMan  over a year ago

Near Newbury

I adore passionate sex.

Be it long slow kisses and teasing caressing exploring.

To hot I need to fuck this moment sex.

Longs it's good and mutually fun hell why not

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By *ossman0168Man  over a year ago

Liverpool

It’s always best to mix things up, slow and sensual at the start the build it up into a crescendo of fun for maximum enjoyment

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By *antra MassageMan  over a year ago

city

Yes, slow and sensuous.

Remember the song "I like a lover wifh a slow hand.... "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

More than happy to just lie back and let a lady take all the time she wants....

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By *eyond PurityCouple  over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I love slow sex - you can feel every movement so much more.

C at times tries to hurry me along when she is close but I love to build that orgasm up even longer and she’s always grateful as it’s much more intense!

There’s a time for urgent and fast but slow definitely has its place too

K

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By *ustathingMan  over a year ago

Reading

I was fucking a fwb the other week, and she kept on telling me to go slower... By the end I was pretty much stopped so much it killed the moment and we both ended up frustrated lol

There's slow... Then there's Sssslllloooowwwww

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By *histlerMan  over a year ago

Guildford

You've got to mix it up - slow doesn't need to mean soft. If you're just one speed the whole time that would be pretty boring sex!

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By *ucka39Man  over a year ago

Newcastle

Definitely slow erotic mixed with passion it's been known to have the windows steam up

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman  over a year ago

Liverpool

Thank you so much for all your perspectives. It's definitely been an interesting read for me

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By *ungle VIP 1Man  over a year ago

colchester

Mix it up and spice things up, but find when both had a drink it turns to hard and fast all the time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For me it depends on the situation, slow and sensual is incredible, lots of eyes staring deeply, passionate kisses and fingers caressing…and also mood dependent too.

Then followed by arms and legs entwined into each other.

Hard and fast is one for when your out and teasing each other until the point of no return.

Getting through the door, pinned against the wall, hard deep kisses and frantic hands searching each others body’s.

Before ending up with that first hard push and the jointly timed exhale of that first joint moan.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Personally I enjoy mixing it up and I can enjoy both fast and hard or slow and sensual. I find most men tend to default to fast and hard. Is that because that's what most men prefer or what they think women want? I know the answers will vary between men but I'm curious to hear some takes on it. "

It all depends tbh , time ,location etc .

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By *adshaggersCouple  over a year ago

aldershot

I love the idea of slow and sensual, but I can’t help pushing it to being fucked as hard as they physically can. It makes me feel alive and exhausted all at the same time

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By *inger_SnapWoman  over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I wish more of them did! It's hard to find guys that are into that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish more of them did! It's hard to find guys that are into that."

Not that hard, there’s a thread above full of them apparently.

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I quite like slow and sensual and especially when we’re both totally spent and need a bit of slowdown and recovery or just sometimes when the mood or chemistry calls for it

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By *omerset1976Man  over a year ago

Burnham

Simple answer…. Yes. X

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By *inger_SnapWoman  over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"I wish more of them did! It's hard to find guys that are into that.

Not that hard, there’s a thread above full of them apparently. "

None within reach though lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish more of them did! It's hard to find guys that are into that."

We’re a rare breed what can I say

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By *urulovesnylonMan  over a year ago

Harrow

I love slow sex makes it more sensual.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love it any way it comes at any particular time. I would say it doesn't have to be fast to be hard - I love it slow and hard; as deep and grinding as physically possible, then pushing for more, but slow and passionate. Nice to have a bit of fast action as well of course, but give me deep grinding any day of the week!!

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Liverpool

2 deadly sins in one really isn't it. Lust and sloth.

Maybe slow sex is not such a good thing after all!

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By *sums.r.usCouple  over a year ago

conwy

Yes love slow and fast. Soft and rough. Suppose it all depends on the person your with and what they like too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Perfer slow .... I seem to cum more ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Slow to start, fast and hard to finish

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish more of them did! It's hard to find guys that are into that.

Not that hard, there’s a thread above full of them apparently.

None within reach though lol"

Queue volunteers in 3, 2, 1….

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By *ussytingler81Man  over a year ago

here

Yes I do from time to time.

I like a bit of everything, it all depends on the mood of eachother

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish more of them did! It's hard to find guys that are into that.

Not that hard, there’s a thread above full of them apparently.

None within reach though lol

Queue volunteers in 3, 2, 1…."

Cue… fucksake.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Personally I enjoy mixing it up and I can enjoy both fast and hard or slow and sensual. I find most men tend to default to fast and hard. Is that because that's what most men prefer or what they think women want? I know the answers will vary between men but I'm curious to hear some takes on it. "

What you said

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I wish more of them did! It's hard to find guys that are into that.

Not that hard, there’s a thread above full of them apparently.

None within reach though lol

Queue volunteers in 3, 2, 1….

Cue… fucksake."

I thought you meant "queue of" to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Personally I enjoy mixing it up and I can enjoy both fast and hard or slow and sensual. I find most men tend to default to fast and hard. Is that because that's what most men prefer or what they think women want? I know the answers will vary between men but I'm curious to hear some takes on it. "

Love slow and sensual

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish more of them did! It's hard to find guys that are into that.

Not that hard, there’s a thread above full of them apparently.

None within reach though lol

Queue volunteers in 3, 2, 1….

Cue… fucksake.

I thought you meant "queue of" to be fair "

I could have passed it off as that but clearly I have too much integrity.

And prefer to call my own typos out like a massive knob.

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I wish more of them did! It's hard to find guys that are into that.

Not that hard, there’s a thread above full of them apparently.

None within reach though lol

Queue volunteers in 3, 2, 1….

Cue… fucksake.

I thought you meant "queue of" to be fair

I could have passed it off as that but clearly I have too much integrity.

And prefer to call my own typos out with my massive knob."

Using it like a pointer on a projector screen.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish more of them did! It's hard to find guys that are into that.

Not that hard, there’s a thread above full of them apparently.

None within reach though lol

Queue volunteers in 3, 2, 1….

Cue… fucksake.

I thought you meant "queue of" to be fair

I could have passed it off as that but clearly I have too much integrity.

And prefer to call my own typos out with my massive knob.

Using it like a pointer on a projector screen. "

I just slap it down on my iPad screen.

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By *teve_it_aloneMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I wish more of them did! It's hard to find guys that are into that.

Not that hard, there’s a thread above full of them apparently.

None within reach though lol

Queue volunteers in 3, 2, 1….

Cue… fucksake.

I thought you meant "queue of" to be fair

I could have passed it off as that but clearly I have too much integrity.

And prefer to call my own typos out with my massive knob.

Using it like a pointer on a projector screen. "

If you can get a laser to shine out the end of it, that’s a real talent! Changing the batteries is a bit fiddly though.

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I wish more of them did! It's hard to find guys that are into that.

Not that hard, there’s a thread above full of them apparently.

None within reach though lol

Queue volunteers in 3, 2, 1….

Cue… fucksake.

I thought you meant "queue of" to be fair

I could have passed it off as that but clearly I have too much integrity.

And prefer to call my own typos out with my massive knob.

Using it like a pointer on a projector screen.

I just slap it down on my iPad screen. "

Use a bit of precum to underline.

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I wish more of them did! It's hard to find guys that are into that.

Not that hard, there’s a thread above full of them apparently.

None within reach though lol

Queue volunteers in 3, 2, 1….

Cue… fucksake.

I thought you meant "queue of" to be fair

I could have passed it off as that but clearly I have too much integrity.

And prefer to call my own typos out with my massive knob.

Using it like a pointer on a projector screen.

If you can get a laser to shine out the end of it, that’s a real talent! Changing the batteries is a bit fiddly though. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish more of them did! It's hard to find guys that are into that.

Not that hard, there’s a thread above full of them apparently.

None within reach though lol

Queue volunteers in 3, 2, 1….

Cue… fucksake.

I thought you meant "queue of" to be fair

I could have passed it off as that but clearly I have too much integrity.

And prefer to call my own typos out with my massive knob.

Using it like a pointer on a projector screen.

I just slap it down on my iPad screen.

Use a bit of precum to underline. "

Typos don’t arouse me that much.

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I wish more of them did! It's hard to find guys that are into that.

Not that hard, there’s a thread above full of them apparently.

None within reach though lol

Queue volunteers in 3, 2, 1….

Cue… fucksake.

I thought you meant "queue of" to be fair

I could have passed it off as that but clearly I have too much integrity.

And prefer to call my own typos out with my massive knob.

Using it like a pointer on a projector screen.

I just slap it down on my iPad screen.

Use a bit of precum to underline.

Typos don’t arouse me that much."

Granted, its a niche kink

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish more of them did! It's hard to find guys that are into that.

Not that hard, there’s a thread above full of them apparently.

None within reach though lol

Queue volunteers in 3, 2, 1….

Cue… fucksake.

I thought you meant "queue of" to be fair

I could have passed it off as that but clearly I have too much integrity.

And prefer to call my own typos out with my massive knob.

Using it like a pointer on a projector screen.

I just slap it down on my iPad screen.

Use a bit of precum to underline.

Typos don’t arouse me that much.

Granted, its a niche kink "

Which is fortunate on here.

There’d be cum everywhere!

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I wish more of them did! It's hard to find guys that are into that.

Not that hard, there’s a thread above full of them apparently.

None within reach though lol

Queue volunteers in 3, 2, 1….

Cue… fucksake.

I thought you meant "queue of" to be fair

I could have passed it off as that but clearly I have too much integrity.

And prefer to call my own typos out with my massive knob.

Using it like a pointer on a projector screen.

I just slap it down on my iPad screen.

Use a bit of precum to underline.

Typos don’t arouse me that much.

Granted, its a niche kink

Which is fortunate on here.

There’d be cum everywhere!"

Very true

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By *teve_it_aloneMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I wish more of them did! It's hard to find guys that are into that.

Not that hard, there’s a thread above full of them apparently.

None within reach though lol

Queue volunteers in 3, 2, 1….

Cue… fucksake.

I thought you meant "queue of" to be fair

I could have passed it off as that but clearly I have too much integrity.

And prefer to call my own typos out with my massive knob.

Using it like a pointer on a projector screen.

I just slap it down on my iPad screen.

Use a bit of precum to underline.

Typos don’t arouse me that much.

Granted, its a niche kink

Which is fortunate on here.

There’d be cum everywhere!"

There’d be *more cum everywhere!

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By *ack688Man  over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Ideally some of everything, the idea of sex being all one tempo sounds a bit weird

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Personally I enjoy mixing it up and I can enjoy both fast and hard or slow and sensual. I find most men tend to default to fast and hard. Is that because that's what most men prefer or what they think women want? I know the answers will vary between men but I'm curious to hear some takes on it. "

No I like both . Its nice to mix it up sometimes and plenty of kissing

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By *ustamanMan  over a year ago

weymouth

Yes absolutely, to me it's like fine dining and should take several hours over several courses

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By *ood Girl KatWoman  over a year ago

Bristol

Have to say this is an interesting and enjoyable thread to read.

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By *ohn123456789999Man  over a year ago

hastings

I enjoy all sex as long as I'm pleasing the woman and seeing the pleasure on her face

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have to say this is an interesting and enjoyable thread to read. "

You should read some of our other stuff.

There’s a piece entitled “men tell women whatever they want to hear”.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have to say this is an interesting and enjoyable thread to read.

You should read some of our other stuff.

There’s a piece entitled “men tell women whatever they want to hear”."

FFS I spat coffee out of my nose

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By *alxxMan  over a year ago

Dagenham

Both

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have to say this is an interesting and enjoyable thread to read.

You should read some of our other stuff.

There’s a piece entitled “men tell women whatever they want to hear”.

FFS I spat coffee out of my nose "

Apologies.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sorry to old to rush

Wham bam

Thank you mammmm

More in to the pleasure the feel the excitement for both

So very slow

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By *agic.MMan  over a year ago

Orpington

Depends what the background music is

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Liverpool


"Depends what the background music is "

Dubstep... Go!

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By *onlywishiMan  over a year ago

Newcastle

Enjoy having the time to slowly explore and excite

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By *immyinreadingMan  over a year ago

henley on thames


"Personally I enjoy mixing it up and I can enjoy both fast and hard or slow and sensual. I find most men tend to default to fast and hard. Is that because that's what most men prefer or what they think women want? I know the answers will vary between men but I'm curious to hear some takes on it. "

Slow is brilliant. Leads to a much more intense climax, and takes longer so prolongs the pleasure

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By *ockosaurusMan  over a year ago

Warwick

I like mixing it up, but prefer slow and sensual tbh.

I think the jackhammer type fucking probably gained so much popularity because of porn and guys thinking that's how it should be done.

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By *izzy69Man  over a year ago

London


"Personally I enjoy mixing it up and I can enjoy both fast and hard or slow and sensual. I find most men tend to default to fast and hard. Is that because that's what most men prefer or what they think women want? I know the answers will vary between men but I'm curious to hear some takes on it. "

I like mixing it up. Variety keeps things interesting but also you have tob take the pace out of things at some point or it can become a bit of a short season, lol. If you know what I mean.

But definitely love a hot dirty noisy rampant crescendo of an ending though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Personally I enjoy mixing it up and I can enjoy both fast and hard or slow and sensual. I find most men tend to default to fast and hard. Is that because that's what most men prefer or what they think women want? I know the answers will vary between men but I'm curious to hear some takes on it. "

I prefer long and slow, I don’t have penetrative sex that much, prefer a lot of fore play. Even to the point of not bothering with penetration at all. I have found (especially among the younger) that people are trying to emulate what they see in porn films, both men and women. Sex is there for both to enjoy, it’s not always fireworks but if you talk and know what the other likes it can be amazing fun for both. The point I think is that you shouldn’t be a selfish lover.

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By *illerpinsMan  over a year ago

liverpool

Hand on my heart I love slow sex, especially if there is a lot of kissing involved, for me there is no greater feeling then feeling every inch of my cock working it’s way into the lady, while hearing the deep breathing of her rattan than loads moans or screams

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Absolutely love slow and sensual sex with oozing amounts of foreplay. I just love the feeling of being touched and to touch.

I also adore the reactions I receive from people and performing oral sex.

The longer the playtime, the better

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By *r.Vice GuyMan  over a year ago

bristol/london

I believe most men have been conditioned by watching too much porn. From speaking with exs they all pretty much said the same thing, they like it when it starts slow and they can feel it coming all the way in and all the way back out and slowly building up to hard and passionate pounding. Dicks are simple, touch it enough and it'll cum. Pussy is Pandoras labyrinth of wonder and amazement, but only if listened to and attended to accordingly. At least this is my opinion on the matter and may be completely wrong lol

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By *r.Vice GuyMan  over a year ago

bristol/london

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do.....but I need 'edging' quite a lot some days

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Absolutely yes

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By *inger_SnapWoman  over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"I wish more of them did! It's hard to find guys that are into that.

Not that hard, there’s a thread above full of them apparently.

None within reach though lol

Queue volunteers in 3, 2, 1….

Cue… fucksake."

Cue a queue? Still waiting...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish more of them did! It's hard to find guys that are into that.

Not that hard, there’s a thread above full of them apparently.

None within reach though lol

Queue volunteers in 3, 2, 1….

Cue… fucksake.

Cue a queue? Still waiting..."

Am I waiting at the wrong door then?

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By *entleman_of_pleasureMan  over a year ago

Manchester

I prefer slow, so as to build things, which always heightens pleasure considerably for all involved. And the climax (and sometimes climaxes for the woman) is usually all the more wild for it.

That said, there's a time and a place for a burst of frenetic sexual cavorting. One episode in a drive through car wash springs to mind...

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By *erry bull1Man  over a year ago

doncaster

Nice slow and deep

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline

Love it. All that bump and grind. Slow and steady, cuddles and kisses makes the ninja happy

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By *rReyMan  over a year ago

Fleet

all in the moment for me, passion levels can run high, tearing at each others clothes, then fast and furious it probably is . But in more sensual situations, the the whole slow passionate body to body thing can often be better.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Owh yeah love it slow and deep,kissing and teasing but I like it rough and hard too. My favourite is to mix it up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

it would be nice to find out...... fast sex too ....

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By *exy Two-Shoes40Man  over a year ago

bolton

Speaking from experience, it depends how much experience they have.

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By *RWYNMan  over a year ago

Blaenau Gwent

My wife always liked it slow but building up to the climax.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes I enjoy it being in the moment with a woman deep and passionate is one of life's greatest pleasures.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Slow works for me, that way I'm not out of breath in 5 minutes

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By *ungmagic10Man  over a year ago

Northampton

I always start slow and sexy.. Gotta show her what the waist can do first lol x Then eventually we can get to those long hard strokes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd you catch gonorrhoea from slow sex is it a slow clap?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like to mix it up

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I wanna lover with a slooooowwww hand….

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By *alldarkandharmlessMan  over a year ago

Ross on Wye

I much prefer slow sex and make it last longer. But can fuck you fast and hard if that's what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In the tune of Mambo Number Five

A little bit of Slow Sex in my life

A little bit of Stroking by my side

A little bit of Holding is all I need

A little bit of You is what I see

A little bit of Passion in the sun

A little bit of Deep Fucking all night long

A little bit of Massage, here I am

A little bit of you makes me your man

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I enjoy slow sex. Soft touches, teasing, gentle arousal, exploring contours ... and then when she's fully aroused and can take no more, moving to harder and faster.

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By *eembuckMan  over a year ago

portsmouth

Slow, long sensual thrusts, where man and woman both feel the pleasure. technique rather than speed, bring maximum mutual satisfaction.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All depends what the other party prefers

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Speaking from experience, it depends how much experience they have."

Why?..

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By *xydadbodMan  over a year ago

Milton keynes

A bit of mixture is always a good thing. For one, we are not machines lol but going slow and sensual slows the pace down.. and I find it quite intimate and plus a good way to catch your breath than collapsing on the floor panting lol

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