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Do you like getting a hug on the first date?
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"Not gonna lie if I turn up to a date and they refuse a hug at the start I’m probably just gonna end it there
You liked me enough to meet up but your still unsure about a hug? No thanks"
I am not a very huggy-feely person, hugs from strangers or people I have only just met make me feel awkward. I'm sure I'm not an exception.
Also, we need to distinguish between "vanilla date", "Fab date=social" and "Fab meet". Vanilla date - peck on the cheek when we meet is enough for me, most likely same with Fab social. Fab meet- a proper kiss and a hug. |
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over a year ago
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"Are you talking sex date or a general date l"
Even if it was a fab "date" what's weird about hugging someone, you're gonna be far more intimate than that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you talking sex date or a general date l
Even if it was a fab "date" what's weird about hugging someone, you're gonna be far more intimate than that "
Hmm not sure lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not gonna lie if I turn up to a date and they refuse a hug at the start I’m probably just gonna end it there
You liked me enough to meet up but your still unsure about a hug? No thanks
I am not a very huggy-feely person, hugs from strangers or people I have only just met make me feel awkward. I'm sure I'm not an exception.
Also, we need to distinguish between "vanilla date", "Fab date=social" and "Fab meet". Vanilla date - peck on the cheek when we meet is enough for me, most likely same with Fab social. Fab meet- a proper kiss and a hug. "
I feel the same. A hug goodbye (if we got on well) is ok but an opening hug from a stranger makes me feel awkward. |
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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
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"Are you talking sex date or a general date l
Even if it was a fab "date" what's weird about hugging someone, you're gonna be far more intimate than that "
Yes, it could be any date and as well if you meet one in a non date scenario, a hug is also acceptable  |
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"Not gonna lie if I turn up to a date and they refuse a hug at the start I’m probably just gonna end it there
You liked me enough to meet up but your still unsure about a hug? No thanks
I am not a very huggy-feely person, hugs from strangers or people I have only just met make me feel awkward. I'm sure I'm not an exception.
Also, we need to distinguish between "vanilla date", "Fab date=social" and "Fab meet". Vanilla date - peck on the cheek when we meet is enough for me, most likely same with Fab social. Fab meet- a proper kiss and a hug.
I feel the same. A hug goodbye (if we got on well) is ok but an opening hug from a stranger makes me feel awkward."
Me too, I like to make sure if the other person first. I don’t see what’s wrong with that |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Not gonna lie if I turn up to a date and they refuse a hug at the start I’m probably just gonna end it there
You liked me enough to meet up but your still unsure about a hug? No thanks
I am not a very huggy-feely person, hugs from strangers or people I have only just met make me feel awkward. I'm sure I'm not an exception.
Also, we need to distinguish between "vanilla date", "Fab date=social" and "Fab meet". Vanilla date - peck on the cheek when we meet is enough for me, most likely same with Fab social. Fab meet- a proper kiss and a hug.
I feel the same. A hug goodbye (if we got on well) is ok but an opening hug from a stranger makes me feel awkward.
Me too, I like to make sure if the other person first. I don’t see what’s wrong with that "
Nothing is wrong with that at all.
It is entirely possible to be a hugger but still be selective with who you hug based upon the situation.
I'm generally not a hugger, but I still appreciate what they are to and from others. If I got on with said person then I'd have no problem with a friendly hugging, if they still felt a bit distant or I'm still unsure then nope no way is that hug happening.
Bottom line is it is all person and situation depending for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely. Always met someone and given them a big hug. We've usually been chatting for a while so I feel like I know them fairly well already.
The hug is just my way of greeting someone I've been really looking forward to meeting.
I'm sure I hugged KG when I met him 
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By *ere70Man
over a year ago
Rovinj Istria |
i definitely want to hug person who i decided to meet after some chatting becahse we probbably shared some intimate things before meeting, and i am good in seeing who match me, and probably on other side is person who apriciates my hug to feel more relaxed. other than that i am person who loves to hug and kiss when meeting my friends. |
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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago
Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove |
Nope, over the years I’ve unfortunately met some scruffy, unshowered, smelly and downright creepy men for a coffee - thankfully agreed as a social only one advance
They will be absolutely definitely no physical contact with me on any meet unless I instigate it |
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