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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, I wouldn’t make someone feel like that. I am generally good at putting them at ease. I think it helps if you’ve been chatting for a wee while, and already know a bit about them before the meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I wouldn’t make someone feel like that. I am generally good at putting them at ease. I think it helps if you’ve been chatting for a wee while, and already know a bit about them before the meet."
You offering free hand jobs in Costa again  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, I wouldn’t make someone feel like that. I am generally good at putting them at ease. I think it helps if you’ve been chatting for a wee while, and already know a bit about them before the meet."
nice pub or bar x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I wouldn’t make someone feel like that. I am generally good at putting them at ease. I think it helps if you’ve been chatting for a wee while, and already know a bit about them before the meet.
You offering free hand jobs in Costa again "
You terror!! Ha ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I wouldn’t make someone feel like that. I am generally good at putting them at ease. I think it helps if you’ve been chatting for a wee while, and already know a bit about them before the meet. nice pub or bar x"
Is it not the same thing Woody?! X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, I wouldn’t make someone feel like that. I am generally good at putting them at ease. I think it helps if you’ve been chatting for a wee while, and already know a bit about them before the meet. nice pub or bar x
Is it not the same thing Woody?! X"
when I think coffee I think of somewhere shit like morrisons, tbh maybe it's just wording  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, I feel like it's a chance for a nice conversation with a friendly person.
I have never felt interviewed and if I ever felt a vibe like that then there's clearly no connection between us.
I did have one coffee social that didn't even make it further than the car park. We felt an instant attraction and he very quickly became Mr NBVN 
NBVN x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, I feel like it's a chance for a nice conversation with a friendly person.
I have never felt interviewed and if I ever felt a vibe like that then there's clearly no connection between us.
I did have one coffee social that didn't even make it further than the car park. We felt an instant attraction and he very quickly became Mr NBVN
NBVN x"
nice work haha like it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I wouldn’t make someone feel like that. I am generally good at putting them at ease. I think it helps if you’ve been chatting for a wee while, and already know a bit about them before the meet.
You offering free hand jobs in Costa again
You terror!! Ha ha ha "
It wasn't a no then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I feel like it's a chance for a nice conversation with a friendly person.
I have never felt interviewed and if I ever felt a vibe like that then there's clearly no connection between us.
I did have one coffee social that didn't even make it further than the car park. We felt an instant attraction and he very quickly became Mr NBVN
NBVN x"
Wow!  what coffee shops do you go to?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I walk in naked,the sight of me naked makes any woman laugh and relaxed!
Downside is I’m banned from four costas and a Starbucks,fricking prudes "
thought you were going on naked attraction but skipped the best bit haha |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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"Do anyone else feel it's more like a interview??
Erm, heck, why what do you talk about in your interviews?! 
So, oral: give or receive? "
A coffee meet and an interview on the same day ... Imagine getting the two confused |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wait! What!
You can actually meet people in real life!
Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait! What!
You can actually meet people in real life!
Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake "
You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then |
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"Wait! What!
You can actually meet people in real life!
Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake
You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then "
If he'd said Tiffin, I'd be going |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait! What!
You can actually meet people in real life!
Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake
You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then "
I will hold you to that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait! What!
You can actually meet people in real life!
Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake
You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then
If he'd said Tiffin, I'd be going "
Me too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do anyone else feel it's more like a interview?? "
It depends really , if you have being chatting ..no. it doesn't..but if you haven't really been chatting and are fortunate to get a coffee meet ..yes it can , it depends really . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait! What!
You can actually meet people in real life!
Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake
You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then
I will hold you to that "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wait! What!
You can actually meet people in real life!
Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake
You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then
If he'd said Tiffin, I'd be going
Me too! "
Well I will get you a tiffin but you will have to share it between you! I'm not made of money |
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"Wait! What!
You can actually meet people in real life!
Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake
You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then
If he'd said Tiffin, I'd be going
Me too! "
Costa Tiffin.....ahhh.....divine x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait! What!
You can actually meet people in real life!
Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake
You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then
If he'd said Tiffin, I'd be going
Me too!
Costa Tiffin.....ahhh.....divine x"
Their Bakewell tart is also lush. And I am partial to caramel shortcake |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait! What!
You can actually meet people in real life!
Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake
You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then
If he'd said Tiffin, I'd be going
Me too!
Well I will get you a tiffin but you will have to share it between you! I'm not made of money "
I'll share whatever you're having Doctor x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. That's just weird. I wouldn't meet someone I didn't feel there was something worth exploring so not sure why it would feel like an interview. Mind you.... I quite like interviews .... its just a conversation... so actually yeah.. they are a bit! Yay!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait! What!
You can actually meet people in real life!
Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake
You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then
If he'd said Tiffin, I'd be going
Me too!
Costa Tiffin.....ahhh.....divine x
Their Bakewell tart is also lush. And I am partial to caramel shortcake "
I love caramel shortcake. The ones from Gregg's are delicious x |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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I've had a couple of nice socials in pubs, and I've had a couple of not nice ones in pubs.
I can't remember ever meeting in a cafe for a hot beverage.
One nice social turned into a great evening with me being partially tied face down on his bed. That's one of my nicer Fab memories. |
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"Wait! What!
You can actually meet people in real life!
Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake
You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then
If he'd said Tiffin, I'd be going
Me too!
Costa Tiffin.....ahhh.....divine x
Their Bakewell tart is also lush. And I am partial to caramel shortcake "
They do bakewell tart? Group meet. If I find a couple of quid down the sofa, I'll get hot chocolate too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait! What!
You can actually meet people in real life!
Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake
You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then
If he'd said Tiffin, I'd be going
Me too!
Well I will get you a tiffin but you will have to share it between you! I'm not made of money
I'll share whatever you're having Doctor x"
Just let me know where and when |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait! What!
You can actually meet people in real life!
Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake
You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then
If he'd said Tiffin, I'd be going
Me too!
Well I will get you a tiffin but you will have to share it between you! I'm not made of money
I'll share whatever you're having Doctor x
Just let me know where and when "
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"Do anyone else feel it's more like a interview?? "
No as I like to chat over the phone before hand so it's more natural when you do meet face to face, I'm very easy going and wouldn't want to make any one feel uncomfortable.. |
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I Have never had that perception.
If you sense that people are lacking in information or are potentially critical of what's been said beforehand, I'd be curious as to why.
Communication is king. Many Profiles aren't great at giving others what they need.
Otherwise, the social is a 2 way street. Lighten it up. Be proactive. Do they trust you? Are you picking the right sort of people to meet?
What's the common theme? |
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