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What's your chatting M.O. on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’d never move chatting away from here. Although it has its faults it does everything we need it to. Even if we’ve met someone we still only ever chat on here. |
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By *inx_xxWoman
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
I would agree, unless I have formed a friendship I don't feel the need to move away from messaging on here.
If people become pushy to message in other ways, to me it's a red flag of how they will respect boundaries in the bedroom. Learnt the hard way unfortunately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We keep all our chats on here. Much easier for both of us to read through if we want to have a nosey. Your phone isn’t constantly pinging with notifications and you can reply as and when you feel like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Spend a few minutes crafting a well thought out message. Include some indicators that I have actually read the profile.
Then sit back and watch the inevitable silence haha. |
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"We keep all our chats on here. Much easier for both of us to read through if we want to have a nosey. Your phone isn’t constantly pinging with notifications and you can reply as and when you feel like it. "
Oh yes I do hate a phone ping! I'm trying to watch the lost boys here, stop pinging! I turn notifications off on most apps. |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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"If we’re arranging to meet someone we insist on WhatsApp or message. We have a burner phone.
If they’re not prepared to move then we call it off. "
Same as this ^^^ if you can't talk off line it's a red flag  |
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"If we’re arranging to meet someone we insist on WhatsApp or message. We have a burner phone.
If they’re not prepared to move then we call it off.
Same as this ^^^ if you can't talk off line it's a red flag "
I’d never move to WhatsApp or give my number out to those I’ve never met, even then only a couple of people have it. Has to be a different messaging service. If they don’t like that then fair enough suits me, we don’t talk anymore if they keep pushing for my number. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We stick to on here.
I did give out my number and we sent WhatsApps but their profile picture was of their child. Fine in normal circumstances but not when it was filthy messages coming over whilst I was cooking the tea or my kids had the phone.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If we’re arranging to meet someone we insist on WhatsApp or message. We have a burner phone.
If they’re not prepared to move then we call it off.
Same as this ^^^ if you can't talk off line it's a red flag
I’d never move to WhatsApp or give my number out to those I’ve never met, even then only a couple of people have it. Has to be a different messaging service. If they don’t like that then fair enough suits me, we don’t talk anymore if they keep pushing for my number. "
Yeah we’re the same. I’ve had the same number for about 12 years. I’m not changing it because someone from here gets clingy or doesn’t take no for an answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Telegram is decent. Much better than Kik! "
True. But have you ever visited local groups? The spam bots are unreal. I made the mistake of entering one. They had my name on a lost from that point. I get at least 50 messages a day from spam bots sending me crap. I dumped it shortly after. |
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Once it gets past a certain point we take the chat to Telegram as a 3 or 4 way conversation on here is too hard.
If they don’t want to go on to Telegram then we’ll stay here but to be honest I don’t think we’ve met anyone without going onto Telegram as we all can get a good feel for each other easier (pun intended  )
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You get chatting on here.
Do you move the conversation elsewhere, a messaging app, phone etc?
Or just stay chatting here to you cross paths? "
It depends , sometimes you don't have any choice , the person you're chatting to may only want to stay here . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As above, read the profile and respond showing that the profile has been read and ask questions to draw conversation. Only exchange numbers when an arrangement to meet is made and only for that purpose. If they want to move to kik or whatsapp we block them. Happy to move to Zoom to have a face-to-face away from the rest of Fab. It can get quite sexy that way if we're lucky. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If we’re arranging to meet someone we insist on WhatsApp or message. We have a burner phone.
If they’re not prepared to move then we call it off.
Same as this ^^^ if you can't talk off line it's a red flag
I’d never move to WhatsApp or give my number out to those I’ve never met, even then only a couple of people have it. Has to be a different messaging service. If they don’t like that then fair enough suits me, we don’t talk anymore if they keep pushing for my number. "
If you use a special phone with a pay as you go sim then of there’s trouble you can just bin the sim. The number won’t link to your Facebook or contacts etc so we think it’s safe enough. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
I'm not very talkative unless I'm in a sexual relationship with someone. Even then I'm not the biggest conversationalist.
If I chat here it's usually to see if it will go further; then it moves to my phone. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"I'm not very talkative unless I'm in a sexual relationship with someone. Even then I'm not the biggest conversationalist.
If I chat here it's usually to see if it will go further; then it moves to my phone."
This for me too.
I did dabble with KiK but got fed up of 3am booty texts waking me up so deleted it. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"I'm not very talkative unless I'm in a sexual relationship with someone. Even then I'm not the biggest conversationalist.
If I chat here it's usually to see if it will go further; then it moves to my phone.
This for me too.
I did dabble with KiK but got fed up of 3am booty texts waking me up so deleted it."
I turned off notifications for Kik but got rid of it anyway, because of the spambots. |
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"If we’re arranging to meet someone we insist on WhatsApp or message. We have a burner phone.
If they’re not prepared to move then we call it off.
Same as this ^^^ if you can't talk off line it's a red flag
I’d never move to WhatsApp or give my number out to those I’ve never met, even then only a couple of people have it. Has to be a different messaging service. If they don’t like that then fair enough suits me, we don’t talk anymore if they keep pushing for my number.
If you use a special phone with a pay as you go sim then of there’s trouble you can just bin the sim. The number won’t link to your Facebook or contacts etc so we think it’s safe enough. "
Thanks for the tip, however one phone / sim is enough for me. What I do works for me, each to their own though and what works for them. |
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"You get chatting on here.
Do you move the conversation elsewhere, a messaging app, phone etc?
Or just stay chatting here to you cross paths? "
Stay chatting on here until they get bored and stop messaging and remove me from friends list  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You get chatting on here.
Do you move the conversation elsewhere, a messaging app, phone etc?
Or just stay chatting here to you cross paths?
Stay chatting on here until they get bored and stop messaging and remove me from friends list "
Hey that’s my move |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would agree, unless I have formed a friendship I don't feel the need to move away from messaging on here.
**If people become pushy to message in other ways, to me it's a red flag of how they will respect boundaries in the bedroom. Learnt the hard way unfortunately. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You get chatting on here.
Do you move the conversation elsewhere, a messaging app, phone etc?
Or just stay chatting here to you cross paths? "
Chat here, If it gets as far as a social then WhatsApp. Cannot be doing with Kik, or the Snappychat thing or the Tiky Tok (whatever that is) |
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If the other person is happy to I like to chat on WhatsApp or Kik as it’s much easier to get the conversation flowing rather than trying to catch each other on line
But if they prefer to stay on Fab then that’s fine |
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