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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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..find socialising/meeting new people exhausting sometimes?
I like meeting new people, getting to know them, but sometimes afterwards I just need to be by myself for a while...like get back in my zone..does that make sense? I find all the talking a bit exhausting at times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"..find socialising/meeting new people exhausting sometimes?
I like meeting new people, getting to know them, but sometimes afterwards I just need to be by myself for a while...like get back in my zone..does that make sense? I find all the talking a bit exhausting at times. "
Yes it makes sense. Unplug n have a kitkat   |
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"..find socialising/meeting new people exhausting sometimes?
I like meeting new people, getting to know them, but sometimes afterwards I just need to be by myself for a while...like get back in my zone..does that make sense? I find all the talking a bit exhausting at times. "
Not in person, but online on dating sites. Tedious and just made me want to quit every time x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"..find socialising/meeting new people exhausting sometimes?
I like meeting new people, getting to know them, but sometimes afterwards I just need to be by myself for a while...like get back in my zone..does that make sense? I find all the talking a bit exhausting at times.
Not in person, but online on dating sites. Tedious and just made me want to quit every time x"
Same here. It is mentally tedious. |
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"..find socialising/meeting new people exhausting sometimes?
I like meeting new people, getting to know them, but sometimes afterwards I just need to be by myself for a while...like get back in my zone..does that make sense? I find all the talking a bit exhausting at times. "
Absolutely x |
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"..find socialising/meeting new people exhausting sometimes?
I like meeting new people, getting to know them, but sometimes afterwards I just need to be by myself for a while...like get back in my zone..does that make sense? I find all the talking a bit exhausting at times.
Not in person, but online on dating sites. Tedious and just made me want to quit every time x
Same here. It is mentally tedious."
Too right fella. Invest a week chatting fir bugger all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It can be intense, there's often a huge build up and adrenaline rush to these events, so it's only natural to deflate afterwards  "
I think you described it well then.
The build up, adrenaline rush and excitement...then the need to re-centre afterwards. |
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By *ori_FiCouple (FF)
over a year ago
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"I’m an introvert so this is me exactly! "
Us too! Though if we have a lot in common kinkwise with someone and it is an easy and relaxed time where we feel like we can be ourselves then it is easier. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m an introvert so this is me exactly! "
I think I've become an introvert over time, if that's possible. Or maybe I have always been, just didn't realise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone I meet in dating apps are all materialistic,I look at the person i don't care what they got or what theyhaven't got etc,unfortunately it seems that way these days,waste of time |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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It depends on how much effort it is. Some conversations can be hard work, finding that common ground. Others just flow.
I think it can also depend on what you are expecting, is the social just a social event or a prelude to something else. |
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"I hear you, I enjoy it but it's consumes loads of energy. So often if I had to people a lot I need to go hide away for a bit, to build up reserves again.
For another bumming "
Bloody hell you, you're an idiot sometimes  |
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"I hear you, I enjoy it but it's consumes loads of energy. So often if I had to people a lot I need to go hide away for a bit, to build up reserves again.
For another bumming
Bloody hell you, you're an idiot sometimes "
Yes but loveable idiot right!!??   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m an introvert so this is me exactly!
Snap. I don't want or need others"
I do want others though, does being an introvert mean you don't want to be around other people? Because if so then I'm definitely not one as I love being with people...just not all the time |
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"I’m an introvert so this is me exactly!
Snap. I don't want or need others
I do want others though, does being an introvert mean you don't want to be around other people? Because if so then I'm definitely not one as I love being with people...just not all the time "
No, not at all. I'm just very solitary |
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"I’m an introvert so this is me exactly!
Snap. I don't want or need others
I do want others though, does being an introvert mean you don't want to be around other people? Because if so then I'm definitely not one as I love being with people...just not all the time "
No, that's not an introvert. You can be sociable, but prefer your own company x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It can be intense, there's often a huge build up and adrenaline rush to these events, so it's only natural to deflate afterwards
I think you described it well then.
The build up, adrenaline rush and excitement...then the need to re-centre afterwards. "
I find this too and often have a good amount of my own time after |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I tend to just tell funny mental storys if im not tearing clothes off "
Is it either one or the other? If you stop telling stories then someone is about to lose their clothes? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tend to just tell funny mental storys if im not tearing clothes off
Is it either one or the other? If you stop telling stories then someone is about to lose their clothes? "
its generally the way it works seems humour makes clothes unnecessary |
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"I hear you, I enjoy it but it's consumes loads of energy. So often if I had to people a lot I need to go hide away for a bit, to build up reserves again.
For another bumming
Bloody hell you, you're an idiot sometimes
Yes but loveable idiot right!!?? "
Maybe  |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
Extroverts charge themselves form other peoples' noise and energy.
Introverts need to offload that energy and then recharge in peace and quiet.
It just like operating systems: some can update without switching off and others can do it on the fly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"..find socialising/meeting new people exhausting sometimes?
I like meeting new people, getting to know them, but sometimes afterwards I just need to be by myself for a while...like get back in my zone..does that make sense? I find all the talking a bit exhausting at times. "
I personally think it's an age thing , as in , you reach the stage where you don't really care wether you hit it off or not with that person , there's way too much more in life to be concerned about other than if you made an impression with your meet or not. |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
How much of it is, the late nights, booking baby sitters, having the cash available, very long soaks in the club hot tub, dancing all night long or even the stress of not having anything to wear, despite 4 full wardrobes? |
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