Everyone? Like really how are you? Not just the standard I’m fine ta. Life better now there’s no restrictions? Or not much different? Have you changed as a person since lockdown?
Interested to know x |
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"I'm feeling more hopeful
As in life in general? Or anything particular x
Life in general. Less lonely and less weighed down
What about you?"
I never had the lonely thing. I was the other way round! Everyone was home. I’m used to them all leaving in the morning and coming back in the evening and having the house to myself as I work from home. I really really struggled with that and not getting even a minute to myself.
I feel things are starting to look up though x |
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I recently gave up alcohol, went back to therapy and began opening up to friends and family. Nearly a month sober and I've honestly never felt better. 40 now and feel stronger healthier and more full of life than I did in my 20's or even teens.
They say life begins at 40, certainly looking true for me.
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More reclusive and a chunk of my mojo had gone....it'll come back I'm sure.
I know about bouncing back when things get bad so I'm not too worried.
Lots of life is doing well otherwise though and for that I'm thankful  |
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"I recently gave up alcohol, went back to therapy and began opening up to friends and family. Nearly a month sober and I've honestly never felt better. 40 now and feel stronger healthier and more full of life than I did in my 20's or even teens.
They say life begins at 40, certainly looking true for me.
Happy man! "
That is bloody brilliant! I love this  . Go you x |
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Positive about myself and my body (like I’m feeling sexy!) , uncertain about other things in other areas in my life, raging about (f) boys, and sometimes lonely here and there
But overall, I’m okay x |
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"More reclusive and a chunk of my mojo had gone....it'll come back I'm sure.
I know about bouncing back when things get bad so I'm not too worried.
Lots of life is doing well otherwise though and for that I'm thankful "
Yeah. Some thinks make us put our problems into perspective I think. If only for a little while. Not seen you around here much lately Sophie x |
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"I recently gave up alcohol, went back to therapy and began opening up to friends and family. Nearly a month sober and I've honestly never felt better. 40 now and feel stronger healthier and more full of life than I did in my 20's or even teens.
They say life begins at 40, certainly looking true for me.
Happy man!
That is bloody brilliant! I love this . Go you x"
Thanks Nora... there's gonna be good and bad days along the way but, today's a good day. Its all about appreciating these ones hope you have a lovely weekend x |
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I actually miss the lockdowns, because you know, people....
Though I did manage to lose one dickhead in the last couple of years so not so bad really.
Once you've hit rock bottom things can only get better!!!
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Life restarted in October for me, socialising again when I can, so removal of UK restrictions hasn’t had any effect on that.
It’s good to be back out, laughing, drinking and more, knowing I haven’t turned into a full time hermit or that I forgotten how
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I care a lot about socialising these days. Hardly missing a team outing. Relishing the tea and lunch gossips at work. Things I used to take for granted before lockdown. |
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"I recently gave up alcohol, went back to therapy and began opening up to friends and family. Nearly a month sober and I've honestly never felt better. 40 now and feel stronger healthier and more full of life than I did in my 20's or even teens.
They say life begins at 40, certainly looking true for me.
Happy man!
That is bloody brilliant! I love this . Go you x
Thanks Nora... there's gonna be good and bad days along the way but, today's a good day. Its all about appreciating these ones hope you have a lovely weekend x"
You too x |
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"More reclusive and a chunk of my mojo had gone....it'll come back I'm sure.
I know about bouncing back when things get bad so I'm not too worried.
Lots of life is doing well otherwise though and for that I'm thankful
Yeah. Some thinks make us put our problems into perspective I think. If only for a little while. Not seen you around here much lately Sophie x"
Check your pm's Nora x |
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"I actually miss the lockdowns, because you know, people....
Though I did manage to lose one dickhead in the last couple of years so not so bad really.
Once you've hit rock bottom things can only get better!!!
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That’s true! I actually loved the first lockdown. I loved there was nothing on the calendar, nobody could just turn up at my house, no getting up at half 6, weather was great, loads of
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"More reclusive and a chunk of my mojo had gone....it'll come back I'm sure.
I know about bouncing back when things get bad so I'm not too worried.
Lots of life is doing well otherwise though and for that I'm thankful
Yeah. Some thinks make us put our problems into perspective I think. If only for a little while. Not seen you around here much lately Sophie x
Check your pm's Nora x"
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"I care a lot about socialising these days. Hardly missing a team outing. Relishing the tea and lunch gossips at work. Things I used to take for granted before lockdown."
Yeah I don’t think I take the everyday things for granted as much anymore x |
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"Life restarted in October for me, socialising again when I can, so removal of UK restrictions hasn’t had any effect on that.
It’s good to be back out, laughing, drinking and more, knowing I haven’t turned into a full time hermit or that I forgotten how
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Definitely. Took me a while to actually be bothered to get back to normal (socialising wise) but I’m getting there now! |
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"I'm feeling more hopeful
As in life in general? Or anything particular x
Life in general. Less lonely and less weighed down
What about you?
I never had the lonely thing. I was the other way round! Everyone was home. I’m used to them all leaving in the morning and coming back in the evening and having the house to myself as I work from home. I really really struggled with that and not getting even a minute to myself.
I feel things are starting to look up though x"
Not getting your own space can be just as hard as being lonely. Hard to imagine it's been 2 yrs already. |
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It has only really changed my attitute towards people who treat our planet as a dumping ground. During lockdown our waterways and seas etc turned to clean and beautiful colours. Fast food chains opened again and that was it.....crap everywhere and ruining our countryside. I know its not the fault of the fast food chains, its the minority of arses that use them! And its only an example before anyone jumps on the bandwagon as I appreciate there's a lot more to it then blaming them   |
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"Life restarted in October for me, socialising again when I can, so removal of UK restrictions hasn’t had any effect on that.
It’s good to be back out, laughing, drinking and more, knowing I haven’t turned into a full time hermit or that I forgotten how
Definitely. Took me a while to actually be bothered to get back to normal (socialising wise) but I’m getting there now! "
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over a year ago
Hull |
I’m gradually clawing my way out of the pit of doom that Lockdown only made worse. Quietly getting on with it, setting my self a lot of little goals and some quite big ones too. I’m doing it myyyyyy waaaaaaay and it seems to be working. Today has been a good day |
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"I’m gradually clawing my way out of the pit of doom that Lockdown only made worse. Quietly getting on with it, setting my self a lot of little goals and some quite big ones too. I’m doing it myyyyyy waaaaaaay and it seems to be working. Today has been a good day "
Good. It’s great to see you back here too. It’s been ages! Xx |
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"I'm feeling more hopeful
As in life in general? Or anything particular x
Life in general. Less lonely and less weighed down
What about you?
I never had the lonely thing. I was the other way round! Everyone was home. I’m used to them all leaving in the morning and coming back in the evening and having the house to myself as I work from home. I really really struggled with that and not getting even a minute to myself.
I feel things are starting to look up though x
Not getting your own space can be just as hard as being lonely. Hard to imagine it's been 2 yrs already."
It is. I think it was hard for everyone. I had friends who were so lonely on their own and I just kept thinking I’d do anything to swap for a couple of days! The grass definitely wasn’t greener on any side x |
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"I’ve not been great the last week or so. Lots of little things conspiring to drag me down to the doldrums."
I’m sorry  . I’ve seen a couple of your comments. I really hope things start to turn for you soon xxx |
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"I’m gradually clawing my way out of the pit of doom that Lockdown only made worse. Quietly getting on with it, setting my self a lot of little goals and some quite big ones too. I’m doing it myyyyyy waaaaaaay and it seems to be working. Today has been a good day
Good. It’s great to see you back here too. It’s been ages! Xx"
Aw thank you Nora, I feel a bit invisible sometimes but I’m still getting back into the swing of things xx |
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"Definitely making more time for family and friends. Not taking anything for granted anymore."
Yeah see I said to myself all through lockdown that I would do that. And I’m not doing it as much as I promised myself I would x |
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"I’m gradually clawing my way out of the pit of doom that Lockdown only made worse. Quietly getting on with it, setting my self a lot of little goals and some quite big ones too. I’m doing it myyyyyy waaaaaaay and it seems to be working. Today has been a good day
Good. It’s great to see you back here too. It’s been ages! Xx
Aw thank you Nora, I feel a bit invisible sometimes but I’m still getting back into the swing of things xx"
Won’t take long hopefully |
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"I’ve not been great the last week or so. Lots of little things conspiring to drag me down to the doldrums.
I’m sorry . I’ve seen a couple of your comments. I really hope things start to turn for you soon xxx"
There are better times on the horizon, and I do what I always do. Solve each problem as it arises.
Thank you Nora. Xx |
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"I recently gave up alcohol, went back to therapy and began opening up to friends and family. Nearly a month sober and I've honestly never felt better. 40 now and feel stronger healthier and more full of life than I did in my 20's or even teens.
Go you, hope your success continues to grow xxxxx
They say life begins at 40, certainly looking true for me.
Happy man! "
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"I’ve not been great the last week or so. Lots of little things conspiring to drag me down to the doldrums.
I’m sorry . I’ve seen a couple of your comments. I really hope things start to turn for you soon xxx
There are better times on the horizon, and I do what I always do. Solve each problem as it arises.
Thank you Nora. Xx"
That’s the best attitude to have. Until you have that attitude things are always harder. x |
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I'm tickety boo thanks Nora, I have lots of good people and things in my life. Work is a bit of a ballache at the moment, but I've set things in place that should improve that a lot soon. Travel restrictions ending mean it's now much easier to see himself, and we have lots of exciting plans. And I get to be back on stage with my dance family in a couple of weeks, it's been far too long and I miss that buzz of performing...although I'm currently sat trying to finish making costumes for dress rehearsal tomorrow and getting far too easily distracted |
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"I'm tickety boo thanks Nora, I have lots of good people and things in my life. Work is a bit of a ballache at the moment, but I've set things in place that should improve that a lot soon. Travel restrictions ending mean it's now much easier to see himself, and we have lots of exciting plans. And I get to be back on stage with my dance family in a couple of weeks, it's been far too long and I miss that buzz of performing...although I'm currently sat trying to finish making costumes for dress rehearsal tomorrow and getting far too easily distracted "
If you were ever negative about anything then we know it’s time to worry!  . Turn your phone off and get on with those costumes!! x |
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"More positive now and hopefully going abroad this year
That’s great. That affected me a lot too as I spend a lot of time in Spain and I missed it sooooo much . "
Same here used to go to Mexico once a year |
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"I'm tickety boo thanks Nora, I have lots of good people and things in my life. Work is a bit of a ballache at the moment, but I've set things in place that should improve that a lot soon. Travel restrictions ending mean it's now much easier to see himself, and we have lots of exciting plans. And I get to be back on stage with my dance family in a couple of weeks, it's been far too long and I miss that buzz of performing...although I'm currently sat trying to finish making costumes for dress rehearsal tomorrow and getting far too easily distracted
If you were ever negative about anything then we know it’s time to worry! . Turn your phone off and get on with those costumes!! x"
Yes boss |
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"I'm tickety boo thanks Nora, I have lots of good people and things in my life. Work is a bit of a ballache at the moment, but I've set things in place that should improve that a lot soon. Travel restrictions ending mean it's now much easier to see himself, and we have lots of exciting plans. And I get to be back on stage with my dance family in a couple of weeks, it's been far too long and I miss that buzz of performing...although I'm currently sat trying to finish making costumes for dress rehearsal tomorrow and getting far too easily distracted
If you were ever negative about anything then we know it’s time to worry! . Turn your phone off and get on with those costumes!! x
Yes boss "
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"More positive now and hopefully going abroad this year
That’s great. That affected me a lot too as I spend a lot of time in Spain and I missed it sooooo much .
Same here used to go to Mexico once a year "
Fingers crossed you’ll be there this year |
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"I don't even know whwre to start.
So I won't.
How are YOU Nora? Xx"
Know the feeling. In some aspects of life, great, in others not so great. Onwards and upwards though because there’s no way I’m going the other way x |
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Apart from my meds have been changed covid another two time and the threat of ww3
Bit calmer
Got bollocks like buster gonad but hey !
Always look on bright side of life x |
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I don't think lockdown changed me as a person as I worked through it. In this case, going out and socialising doesn't feel that daunting.
As for how I am now, changed jobs and made the biggest mistake but I'm trying to rectify that. Work has definitely given me plenty of stress and the final resolution of my divorce. I feel like I've been put through the wringer
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Not really much different, obviously getting out more during the day. Still not doing overly crowded places.
Trying not to worry about what's going on in the rest of the world and actually appreciating how lucky we are! |
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"Everyone? Like really how are you? Not just the standard I’m fine ta. Life better now there’s no restrictions? Or not much different? Have you changed as a person since lockdown?
Interested to know x"
What a great question!!
I’ve changed massively in lockdown! My life changed completely (as did everyone’s!) and with that, my attitude and outlook also changed. I read a book called ‘who moved my cheese’ quite early on in lock down and I’m so pleased I did, as otherwise I would have approached the situation in a much different way.
Where I’ve always been a MASSIVE worrier, I learnt to take one day at a time and not t worry about what other people thought or what the future brings. I concentrate on what’s happening next now rather than what ‘might’ happen. I think less about consequences, not meaning I don’t care about the outcome, but I don’t play every single possible option out in my head. If something feels right and I want to do it, then I will.
I allow myself to be much more open minded now. I also don’t allow people to walk all over me anymore.
I can honestly say, if lockdown hadn’t happen and my world given a good shake up, then I certainly wouldn’t have entertained being a part of this page or having the experiences we are at the mo. I would still be uptight, stressed and trying to plan out every possible situation and outcome In my mind.  |
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Big life changes for me recently
Getting used to life without Mum in my life
Back to the office on Monday having worked from home since early December
On the plus side, what a beautiful day today. We enjoyed it with a trip to the seaside. The blue skies and the fresh air were a welcome change |
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"Everyone? Like really how are you? Not just the standard I’m fine ta. Life better now there’s no restrictions? Or not much different? Have you changed as a person since lockdown?
Interested to know x
What a great question!!
I’ve changed massively in lockdown! My life changed completely (as did everyone’s!) and with that, my attitude and outlook also changed. I read a book called ‘who moved my cheese’ quite early on in lock down and I’m so pleased I did, as otherwise I would have approached the situation in a much different way.
Where I’ve always been a MASSIVE worrier, I learnt to take one day at a time and not t worry about what other people thought or what the future brings. I concentrate on what’s happening next now rather than what ‘might’ happen. I think less about consequences, not meaning I don’t care about the outcome, but I don’t play every single possible option out in my head. If something feels right and I want to do it, then I will.
I allow myself to be much more open minded now. I also don’t allow people to walk all over me anymore.
I can honestly say, if lockdown hadn’t happen and my world given a good shake up, then I certainly wouldn’t have entertained being a part of this page or having the experiences we are at the mo. I would still be uptight, stressed and trying to plan out every possible situation and outcome In my mind. "
I can relate to so much of this! Although I changed about 10 years ago due to life events, not during lockdown. I totally get this though x |
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"You do not want those floodgates opened "
Haha. I think that when people say how are you? I feel like saying ok well cancel your diary for the next 7 days and I’ll tell you . But I just go with I’m good thanks. |
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"Everyone? Like really how are you? Not just the standard I’m fine ta. Life better now there’s no restrictions? Or not much different? Have you changed as a person since lockdown?
Interested to know x
What a great question!!
I’ve changed massively in lockdown! My life changed completely (as did everyone’s!) and with that, my attitude and outlook also changed. I read a book called ‘who moved my cheese’ quite early on in lock down and I’m so pleased I did, as otherwise I would have approached the situation in a much different way.
Where I’ve always been a MASSIVE worrier, I learnt to take one day at a time and not t worry about what other people thought or what the future brings. I concentrate on what’s happening next now rather than what ‘might’ happen. I think less about consequences, not meaning I don’t care about the outcome, but I don’t play every single possible option out in my head. If something feels right and I want to do it, then I will.
I allow myself to be much more open minded now. I also don’t allow people to walk all over me anymore.
I can honestly say, if lockdown hadn’t happen and my world given a good shake up, then I certainly wouldn’t have entertained being a part of this page or having the experiences we are at the mo. I would still be uptight, stressed and trying to plan out every possible situation and outcome In my mind.
I can relate to so much of this! Although I changed about 10 years ago due to life events, not during lockdown. I totally get this though x"
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"Everyone? Like really how are you? Not just the standard I’m fine ta. Life better now there’s no restrictions? Or not much different? Have you changed as a person since lockdown?
Interested to know x
What a great question!!
I’ve changed massively in lockdown! My life changed completely (as did everyone’s!) and with that, my attitude and outlook also changed. I read a book called ‘who moved my cheese’ quite early on in lock down and I’m so pleased I did, as otherwise I would have approached the situation in a much different way.
Where I’ve always been a MASSIVE worrier, I learnt to take one day at a time and not t worry about what other people thought or what the future brings. I concentrate on what’s happening next now rather than what ‘might’ happen. I think less about consequences, not meaning I don’t care about the outcome, but I don’t play every single possible option out in my head. If something feels right and I want to do it, then I will.
I allow myself to be much more open minded now. I also don’t allow people to walk all over me anymore.
I can honestly say, if lockdown hadn’t happen and my world given a good shake up, then I certainly wouldn’t have entertained being a part of this page or having the experiences we are at the mo. I would still be uptight, stressed and trying to plan out every possible situation and outcome In my mind.
I can relate to so much of this! Although I changed about 10 years ago due to life events, not during lockdown. I totally get this though x
Takes something big to make you re-assess. X x "
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"Everyone? Like really how are you? Not just the standard I’m fine ta. Life better now there’s no restrictions? Or not much different? Have you changed as a person since lockdown?
Interested to know x"
Could be better if im honest, body wise im fine, can’t complain but the arthritis in my finger joints is sometimes too much, one finger in particular is doing me in, will need to phone the dr for either topical pain relief (as can’t take any other oral ones) or radical treatment like amputation of course they will refuse & I’ll be doomed to live the next 30 years in daily pain
Thank you for asking, how are you? |
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"Everyone? Like really how are you? Not just the standard I’m fine ta. Life better now there’s no restrictions? Or not much different? Have you changed as a person since lockdown?
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Could be better if im honest, body wise im fine, can’t complain but the arthritis in my finger joints is sometimes too much, one finger in particular is doing me in, will need to phone the dr for either topical pain relief (as can’t take any other oral ones) or radical treatment like amputation of course they will refuse & I’ll be doomed to live the next 30 years in daily pain
Thank you for asking, how are you? "
I get carpal tunnel but I’m wondering if it’s something worse. I’m one of these people who goes to the doctors every couple of years with a list . I can’t stand doctors and hospitals x |
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I am very good thank you nora. I’m still the same person I always have been. As long as I can pay my bills then everyone else can have my time and money as far as I’m concerned. Me my boy and dog and cat will be just fine
How are you nora? |
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I’m in a much better place now than when we first went into lockdown. I really struggled with not seeing people and had panic attacks where I ended up in hospital twice.
I still have my moments but I’m 100% better and enjoying life again |
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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago
Kettering |
I'm not ok I'm depressed docs wants to give me tabs but I said no. Just want them to sort my stomach problems out. Like today I'm at work and had awful trots , good job it's a quiet day tmi I'm sure but...... |
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None of my issues are lockdown related. I have too many things and people I'm responsible for and I don't feel like I have any solid emotional support. Mr KC tries his best, but...... reasons.
Dad with dementia
Still dealing with Grandad's Will
Son with mental health problems
5yo daughter
Full time job with significant responsibility
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Ooh didn’t see this thread Auntie Nora! Apols I may have started a very similar one. It’s because great minds think alike.
I’m good thanks. Thank you for asking. And you? |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
Sadly I seem to have become much more reclusive than prior to Covid.
During the period of the restrictions I moved from being a 70 something old person to being an 80 something old person which, according to one of my friends, puts me in Lifes Departure Lounge, this along with health issues, is starting to weigh heavily on me.
Hopefully the support I am getting from friends and family will pull me through.
Leaving Winter and going into Spring is helping as will the move into Summer. |
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over a year ago
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I'm living the dream - life was tough during the lockdowns and that's when I split from my former partner, but now I'm far more myself again and living life like I'm 20 years younger - really exciting times!!! |
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"Health ..pretty good
Happiness...can't complain
Sex life....up and down like a yo-yo...on the up today "
32 weeks on
Health  ....tests underway ...fingers crossed
Happiness....still chippa considering
Sex life ....most certainly up grinning from ear to ear |
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