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Fuck and go or spend time with each other?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just a quick poll after chatting to a few friends about whether as a whole people are more a fuck and go or like to spend extra time together like drinks, dinner or even just cuddling with a film on?
Personally I prefer a little extra social time with my meets but interesting to know the overall perspective? |
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I think it depends on what you looking for .. we would prefer a quick drink see if attraction is there then a fuck and go …. Surprising it’s particularly hard to find that if you looking for a couple .. it’s almost like you have to date before you fuck them ..
We once posted a meet for a fuck and go and got told sorry we only looking for a normal meet tonight .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single I did fuck and go for a while. I literally just wanted the sex and nothing more. This was with one person I saw repeatedly. I was fresh out of a relationship and didn't want any form of attachment or a relationship. Over time I softened a bit and enjoyed others company more and the social side. Now I'm in a relationship.
So maybe the answers you'll get in a poll won't reflect people's current state of mind after breakups or hurts and so on and the fuck and go scenarios may seem cold but there may be to it and there's reasons behind it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh I've had good experiences of both. Some people I click better with and enjoy a full night out/in, and others I still really like as people but maybe we don't laugh as much or share as many interests and it's more just about the sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d like the social time. It would all feel a bit cold and transactional without it."
I would totally have to introduce you to some music and some food ...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d like the social time. It would all feel a bit cold and transactional without it.
No dieu, dieu, auf weidersehen a dieu to you 
Bastard  "
Only after I've had a glass of wine usually |
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Deffinatley not a fuck and go kind of guy, I love the social aspect as much as I love the sex.
I love the build up, the chatting, the flirting and getting to actually know the person.
Going on walks, going out for food, or even just meeting up for a cuddle and a chat..... for me it's about the whole experience  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This site seems to have a few kinds of different cultures .
The forum culture are , intelligent and funny and actually like to communicate , witty ,
Then there's the other folk who use this site , we all know them lol
Send messages with caveman / cavewoman mentality , and are literally on here for ....fuck fuck n go , . These are the people often found complaining about being ignored , deleted , and sending abuse .
Each to their own I guess ..
But the forum clan are more my kinda people ...big love to everyone :0) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh I've had good experiences of both. Some people I click better with and enjoy a full night out/in, and others I still really like as people but maybe we don't laugh as much or share as many interests and it's more just about the sex. "
I agree with you!! X totally x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If travelling to an area not visited before you would be silly not to visit new interesting places with that person.. Having your own sexy personal tour guide.  "
Like old Roman walls and museums. |
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Most definitely social side too. The more you know about a person the better other things can get. The fuck and go is cheap and nasty .. We've all done it and sometimes needs must but how can trust be won so more can be explored without that extra time and connection? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have done fuck'n'go over the years. It's the kind of situation to meet a certain need of ours.
For us as a couple and myself when I play as a hotwife I enjoy the whole time spent with someone, like a date. I enjoy a meal, drinks, chat before/during/after sex.
NBVN x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Prefer to take time getting to know someone, see if we're on the same wavelength, and build up some trust. I find the sex is usually better too when you're more comfortable with each other.
I'd only do fuck and go with someone I already know well, and when it's a case of only time for a quickie or part of a fantasy scenario. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Prefer to go for a coffee after "
After?!
The horn goggles are off after they cum. I've gone from looking like Kim Kardashian to Les Dawson at that point.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the situation. Prefer to spend time getting to know people etc but more on here want asap fuck n go meets. Ive done one offs but its always been awkward vibes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Prefer to go for a coffee after
After?!
The horn goggles are off after they cum. I've gone from looking like Kim Kardashian to Les Dawson at that point. "
Lol I doubt you do. . but if its someone I know I like to spend time afterwards and sometimes I like a quickie and sometimes I just want a Bj and nothing more  |
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Think my answer came across wrong! I don't meet just anyone for fuck and go ! Infact don't meet many at all! Have to have a connection first allways meet for a social if not attracted then nothing will happen! But once that connection has been made will meet them on numerous occasions but will only ever b fuck an go as that's the reason of the meet! Life is busy if I wanted lovey dovey stuff would get a partner x |
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Totally depends on the mood. I never fuck and go solo though. If it’s just me then it’s social, chat, and hopefully repeated meets.
Mostly with the other half it’s the same. Occasionally we have fuck and go fun, but it’s different as we have each other to cuddle and chat after.
It’s just a different mood. |
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Hate quickies, I need to understand and feel chemistry with a woman. Whether that minds drinks, dinner etc or just a few hours alone talking, getting to know her likes, her needs, then reading body language as we go. That’s how the sparks fly and the chemistry builds. Makes for an intense naughty friendship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like the art of the tease .. the anticipation you get when you go for dinner or drinks, when you can feel there’s mutual attraction …. I like teasing him across the table before we go back and fuck |
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"I like the art of the tease .. the anticipation you get when you go for dinner or drinks, when you can feel there’s mutual attraction …. I like teasing him across the table before we go back and fuck "
Fore fore-play….the build up can be amazing |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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Fuck and go these days. I have little interest in cosying up on the sofa and having a “boyfriend” experience with someone who is not nor is likely to be my boyfriend.
And I just don’t have the time anymore.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had it happen to me and it didn't feel nice at all. I'd much rather a bit of chat afterwards... At least. "
Have feeling the chat would last all day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My last meet in November last year ended up been one  had met before & was a couple of hours, then met again,we had a brew,chat, had sex then straight after said he was going back to work..no cuddle or kiss goodbye..
Made me feel a bit rubbish...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuck and go for us although we do chat for a short while before to make sure we’re comfortable going ahead. We have each other for connection."
Just avoid the salad dressing |
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