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UNWANTED FRIEND REQUESTS
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You know you don’t have to accept them don’t you? "
I’m a nice person and I want to have friends that know and understand this lifestyle but all I have sitting in my friends list is weird people |
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Trying their luck. They don’t end up in my friends list, they stay in the friends request box
It’s good to have a clear out of the friends list every couple of months too, no interaction then removed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why is it lacking in manners? They want to look at your friends only videos and photos probably "
They should at least say “hi don’t mind me I’m just perving” or something along those lines maybe |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Trying their luck. They don’t end up in my friends list, they stay in the friends request box
It’s good to have a clear out of the friends list every couple of months too, no interaction then removed. "
Never took advice from a spurs fan but this might be the first  |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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"Why is it lacking in manners? They want to look at your friends only videos and photos probably
They should at least say “hi don’t mind me I’m just perving” or something along those lines maybe "
Decline their request and block them, job done! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would people send friend requests, not say a word and just sit in your friends list for weeks without a single word ?! Where’s the manners ? "
Why do you accept friend requests from people you don't know and then don't even chat to them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it lacking in manners? They want to look at your friends only videos and photos probably
They should at least say “hi don’t mind me I’m just perving” or something along those lines maybe
Decline their request and block them, job done! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why is it lacking in manners? They want to look at your friends only videos and photos probably
They should at least say “hi don’t mind me I’m just perving” or something along those lines maybe
Decline their request and block them, job done! "
I find that rude to do just in case they are thinking of what to say but I might just do that from now on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would people send friend requests, not say a word and just sit in your friends list for weeks without a single word ?! Where’s the manners ?
Why do you accept friend requests from people you don't know and then don't even chat to them? "
Exactly if you’re that bothered, make a move send them a message along the lines of thank you for the friends request… |
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"Why is it lacking in manners? They want to look at your friends only videos and photos probably "
Because if he wanted them visible for all to see they'd be public not friends only l, they are private for a reason |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because they want to man behind the cock "
I have a video of my face on the fronds only section but again, they should either pop up or remove me once they see it don’t you think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know you don’t have to accept them don’t you?
I’m a nice person and I want to have friends that know and understand this lifestyle but all I have sitting in my friends list is weird people "
Why do you want to talk to them anyway if you think they're weird?  |
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"Why would people send friend requests, not say a word and just sit in your friends list for weeks without a single word ?! Where’s the manners ? "
Who can say, I'd just be thankful of the attention mind  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You know you don’t have to accept them don’t you?
I’m a nice person and I want to have friends that know and understand this lifestyle but all I have sitting in my friends list is weird people
Why do you want to talk to them anyway if you think they're weird? "
I’ve reached that conclusion after they’ve been sitting there perving for weeks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why is it lacking in manners? They want to look at your friends only videos and photos probably
Because if he wanted them visible for all to see they'd be public not friends only l, they are private for a reason "
Exactly! And I don’t spect them to at lease say something once I’ve let them in to my friends only circle lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just delete and block them. They only want to look at your pics, not chat. Set yourself boundaries OP x "
I assumed we were all adults here who just want to have some fun but I guess some people just like to watch and maybe that’s all there is to them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have plenty sent to us.
If you just leave them there and forget about them they can't resend.
Absolutely no drama for us "
I’m fairly new to this lifestyle so I just wanted to make friends but most people on here don’t seem friendly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trying their luck. They don’t end up in my friends list, they stay in the friends request box
It’s good to have a clear out of the friends list every couple of months too, no interaction then removed. "
^^ this ^^ I don’t accept friend invites unless we’ve at least chatted (and even then I don’t always accept. Also do a clear out the friend list every couple of months if we’ve not chatted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would people send friend requests, not say a word and just sit in your friends list for weeks without a single word ?! Where’s the manners ?
Why do you accept friend requests from people you don't know and then don't even chat to them?
Exactly if you’re that bothered, make a move send them a message along the lines of thank you for the friends request… "
Yep... I've heard this is a site for adults.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know you don’t have to accept them don’t you?
I’m a nice person and I want to have friends that know and understand this lifestyle but all I have sitting in my friends list is weird people "
Get rid of them then. I only accept those I’ve spoken to and want to meet, anyone else gets deleted |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Trying their luck. They don’t end up in my friends list, they stay in the friends request box
It’s good to have a clear out of the friends list every couple of months too, no interaction then removed.
^^ this ^^ I don’t accept friend invites unless we’ve at least chatted (and even then I don’t always accept. Also do a clear out the friend list every couple of months if we’ve not chatted. "
I’m just gonna have to clean it all I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just delete and block them. They only want to look at your pics, not chat. Set yourself boundaries OP x
I assumed we were all adults here who just want to have some fun but I guess some people just like to watch and maybe that’s all there is to them "
There's a lot of people who are just pic collectors chancing their luck x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just delete and block them. They only want to look at your pics, not chat. Set yourself boundaries OP x
I assumed we were all adults here who just want to have some fun but I guess some people just like to watch and maybe that’s all there is to them
There's a lot of people who are just pic collectors chancing their luck x"
Pic collectors ? What do you mean? I’m worried now |
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"I just delete and block them. They only want to look at your pics, not chat. Set yourself boundaries OP x
I assumed we were all adults here who just want to have some fun but I guess some people just like to watch and maybe that’s all there is to them "
Why would you accept friend requests from people you've had no intersections with
You made those images private for a reason presumably
Picture collectors are people that are just here to look at and screen shot others images |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just delete and block them. They only want to look at your pics, not chat. Set yourself boundaries OP x
I assumed we were all adults here who just want to have some fun but I guess some people just like to watch and maybe that’s all there is to them
Why would you accept friend requests from people you've had no intersections with
You made those images private for a reason presumably
Picture collectors are people that are just here to look at and screen shot others images "
I accepted them to obviously see if they’re interested and plan a fun date from there but obviously that’s not happened
Thanks for letting me know about the pics collectors. I’ll be careful going forward |
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"Why would people send friend requests, not say a word and just sit in your friends list for weeks without a single word ?! Where’s the manners ? "
So they can see your private pics vids. We dont accept friend requests unless we have chatted. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why would people send friend requests, not say a word and just sit in your friends list for weeks without a single word ?! Where’s the manners ?
So they can see your private pics vids. We dont accept friend requests unless we have chatted."
I’ll have to be like you guys then hopefully it works |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just to look at your pics ..dont accept there request..or if they used to chat before and don't now just remove them .."
Yeah thank you darling I’ll just do that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why accept people as friends if you've never chatted to them?
I just leave the requests as if you delete them, they can resend.
I only have people I know on mine x"
I know you haven't even asked to perv my friends pics |
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"Why accept people as friends if you've never chatted to them?
I just leave the requests as if you delete them, they can resend.
I only have people I know on mine x
I know you haven't even asked to perv my friends pics"
Can I? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would people send friend requests, not say a word and just sit in your friends list for weeks without a single word ?! Where’s the manners ? "
Usually the classic sign of an asshole
Akways worth a routine use of the good old block button |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why accept people as friends if you've never chatted to them?
I just leave the requests as if you delete them, they can resend.
I only have people I know on mine x
I know you haven't even asked to perv my friends pics
Can I? "
I’d happily let you perv on mine but we need to speak first lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have plenty sent to us.
If you just leave them there and forget about them they can't resend.
Absolutely no drama for us
I’m fairly new to this lifestyle so I just wanted to make friends but most people on here don’t seem friendly "
We don't except random friend requests from people we don't know on here or any other form of social media.
If you're looking to meet people local with the same interests in the lifestyle we'd suggest popping along to a local social event and getting yourself known.. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Why would you accept them in the first place from people you have not interacted with especially if you want them to. You could always message them first that's another option. Most send them just to look at your pics you don't have on public display.
I don't even look at my friend's requests if I'm chatting to someone I'll ask them can I send a fr and if they say yes I'll send one on.Apart from that I don't even look at mine because most are from people I've never spoken to and never will .I just bulk delete them once in a blue moon. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why would you accept them in the first place from people you have not interacted with especially if you want them to. You could always message them first that's another option. Most send them just to look at your pics you don't have on public display.
I don't even look at my friend's requests if I'm chatting to someone I'll ask them can I send a fr and if they say yes I'll send one on.Apart from that I don't even look at mine because most are from people I've never spoken to and never will .I just bulk delete them once in a blue moon. "
Wow someone has manners. The fact that you ask is quite impressive for this site. Makes you like one in a million. I need friends like you lol |
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