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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So a question to you lovely fabbers. Would it bother you if the person you met up with on here had a great body and personality but wasn’t much of a looker facially?
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Looks are clearly important to a certain point. What qualifies as "good looking" will be varied of course but generally nobody is going to want to sleep with somebody they don't find attractive.
Personality then plays its part in enhancing how attractive somebody can be. Best looking person oin the world can be torn down the "rankings" because of a shitty attitude |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I have to fancy him. Usually that comes via a sexual chemistry aura thing they have going on, but face is more important than body to me.
And I have a thing for unconventionally attractive men. Beautiful men are beautiful but they rarely have that raw animalistic sex vibe that gets my knickers wet.
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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Smiles) we have a girlfriend who in her profile says, “don’t like facial hair (currently sport a goatee), doesn’t like overweight men ( I am far from slim).
Yet she likes my humour, soft clit tickle beard and feels safe with us.
L prefers a slight woman, yet she was in total lust for a glorious intelligent Rubenesque women.
It’s not one thing, attraction is a holistic thing, not superficial.
Well for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks is the most important thing, no amount of personality will change it if I don't find the face attractive.
Equally, if there is no personality I dont care how attractive you are, it would be a no.
Looks draw you in but personality makes you stay. |
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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago
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My thought on this. On FAB yes ? . In normal life . I do not consider myself good looking . So not as good at making connection with females. The one thing I have noticed yes many years ago when out in pubs / clubs. The males who could be good at ‘chat ‘ . Had the best success with females . No matter looks , body etc of male. ? |
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By *oDa83Man
over a year ago
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Attractiveness is subjective to the person and their tastes. Yes aesthetic attractiveness helps but personally a person's attitude, humour and ability to socially interact wins over how they look. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So a question to you lovely fabbers. Would it bother you if the person you met up with on here had a great body and personality but wasn’t much of a looker facially?
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well let's be honest it's 50/50, I'm at that age where personality is important but I'm a guy and also looks are important |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, facial attraction is necessary for me, nice eyes, & trimmed facial hair & a nice smile & kissable mouth is good, definitely doesn't have to be an Adonis though.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So a question to you lovely fabbers. Would it bother you if the person you met up with on here had a great body and personality but wasn’t much of a looker facially?
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No looks aren't important as long you enjoy eachother that doesn't matter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm quite new here. I sent my first message to someone from a thread and we have chatted on and off for a while now. He doesn't have the typical fab pics in his profile but some show his whole body in clothes and his face is partly covered. We're having a social soon and sent face pics to each other. I don't think the face would have made a difference before but it's a bonus when it's a pleasant surprise.  |
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Attraction is a strange thing. There is a plethora of elements that go together to make a person attractive to me. It is not uncommon to see meet a pretty girl with the face of an angel just to have an ugly attitude flip my view.
Even just on a totally physical level, two people who look identical can have different levels of attractiveness. How someone moves, or how they smile, can make a difference to how attractive they appear.
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I have met a guy who I wasn't physically attracted to at first but we got on so well that seemed to offset the physical attraction .
But normally yes there has to be some physical attraction I think between us to meet. |
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"So a question to you lovely fabbers. Would it bother you if the person you met up with on here had a great body and personality but wasn’t much of a looker facially?
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Absolutely not thats just shallow!
And if guys are going to have that attitude then simply its going to be even harder for them to get a meet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So a question to you lovely fabbers. Would it bother you if the person you met up with on here had a great body and personality but wasn’t much of a looker facially?
Absolutely not thats just shallow!
And if guys are going to have that attitude then simply its going to be even harder for them to get a meet!"
Yeah guys, don't go around just having sex with someone you find attractive!!!  |
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"So a question to you lovely fabbers. Would it bother you if the person you met up with on here had a great body and personality but wasn’t much of a looker facially?
Absolutely not thats just shallow!
And if guys are going to have that attitude then simply its going to be even harder for them to get a meet!"
You’ve basically just told every woman on this forum that any hole is a goal for you. Anything warm and wet with a pulse.
Have some standards man
As for me, I’d say they are the most important. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So a question to you lovely fabbers. Would it bother you if the person you met up with on here had a great body and personality but wasn’t much of a looker facially?
Absolutely not thats just shallow!
And if guys are going to have that attitude then simply its going to be even harder for them to get a meet!"
Yes this.
How dare you have standards and morals!!
I’d fuck a rolling wheel if I could catch it.
Shallow bastards!!! |
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Finding someone attractive does matter to me, but there have been men in the past that I have seen a picture of and not been hugely attracted to, then I meet them and they have such an attractive personality that I then find them really physically attractive too.
I hope it works the other way too! I think my face is more attractive than my body   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes absolutely but I need a mixture of both attractions. On the same note if someone was gorgeous looking but had no personality, their penis wouldn't be going in me either. |
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I've been with people that I didn't fancy straight away. Once we got chatting though and we got on, it made them more attractive so I did take it further.
I have also met people who I could stare at all night but they open their mouth and it just killed it there and then.
Personality plays a big part in someones attractivness to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been with people that I didn't fancy straight away. Once we got chatting though and we got on, it made them more attractive so I did take it further.
I have also met people who I could stare at all night but they open their mouth and it just killed it there and then.
Personality plays a big part in someones attractivness to me. "
Exactly what I was going to say x |
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I couldn't have sex with someone I didn't find attractive, I would rather go without.
Going by how many messages I got asking if I fancied a fuck before I even had any pictures on my profile I'm guessing that looks don't matter to a fair few people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So a question to you lovely fabbers. Would it bother you if the person you met up with on here had a great body and personality but wasn’t much of a looker facially?
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I only fuck BOBFOC’s |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So a question to you lovely fabbers. Would it bother you if the person you met up with on here had a great body and personality but wasn’t much of a looker facially?
Absolutely not thats just shallow!
And if guys are going to have that attitude then simply its going to be even harder for them to get a meet!"
No it's not shallow and I've never struggled to get meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So a question to you lovely fabbers. Would it bother you if the person you met up with on here had a great body and personality but wasn’t much of a looker facially?
Absolutely not thats just shallow!
And if guys are going to have that attitude then simply its going to be even harder for them to get a meet!"
 If a woman offers a fuck just go for it. Doesn't matter if she hit every branch on the ugly tree, she still has a wet hole. I get offers all the time.  |
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Personality is way more Important to me sorry just my view I'm not saying I don't have standards I just love all women as long as there genuine and they turn up and can engage in decent conversation and there's chemistry then that's more important to me just my opinion |
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"So a question to you lovely fabbers. Would it bother you if the person you met up with on here had a great body and personality but wasn’t much of a looker facially?
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It’s all about attraction and connection. Everyone has their own taste and type but I would need to be attracted to someone and have a good connection with them to meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personality is way more Important to me sorry just my view I'm not saying I don't have standards I just love all women as long as there genuine and they turn up and can engage in decent conversation and there's chemistry then that's more important to me just my opinion "
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If your a good looking guy your going to attract good looking women its as simple as that so if your average looking guy your going to attract average looking women and so forth! So why try punch above your waight if it's not going to happen your spend your time on fab constantly searching! It's different for women as you pretty much run the site you can get wich ever guys you like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attractiveness is subjective to the person and their tastes. Yes aesthetic attractiveness helps but personally a person's attitude, humour and ability to socially interact wins over how they look."
^ I agree with this (I couldn't put this any better) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone knows what they like so yeah looks are important but they aren't everything, can be the most stunning person ever but be the most repulsive too. Need the whole package to be attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks aren't as important as personality, yes some looks help but personality wins overall. Having a good sense of humour will win me over, being respectful, genuine and having a connection is much more attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks aren't as important as personality, yes some looks help but personality wins overall. Having a good sense of humour will win me over, being respectful, genuine and having a connection is much more attractive."
Thank fuck for that!! |
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Im just living my best life! And im happy! Iv met some amazing women who maybe arnt stunning but iv had mind blowing sex! And been blown away by there charisma and personality so that's changed my attitude completely! |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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It’s down to chemistry, I’ve got to be able to have good conversation…mental stimulation is just as important as physical for me - that said I can find someone interesting but not attractive, attraction needs to be there for me to want to have sex with them, it’s about the full package..that click xx |
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"Looks aren't as important as personality, yes some looks help but personality wins overall. Having a good sense of humour will win me over, being respectful, genuine and having a connection is much more attractive.
Thank fuck for that!!"
I dont think your going to have any problems my friend! A foot long cock trumps everything! |
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"I have to fancy him. Usually that comes via a sexual chemistry aura thing they have going on, but face is more important than body to me.
And I have a thing for unconventionally attractive men. Beautiful men are beautiful but they rarely have that raw animalistic sex vibe that gets my knickers wet.
I totally agree…except for the knickers part.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks aren't as important as personality, yes some looks help but personality wins overall. Having a good sense of humour will win me over, being respectful, genuine and having a connection is much more attractive.
Thank fuck for that!!
I dont think your going to have any problems my friend! A foot long cock trumps everything!"
Be surprised I get more "love your cock but your face don't do it" than anything else lol |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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I have to find them attractive. That doesn't mean that everyone has to find them attractive, they don't have to be classically good looking or appeal to everyone.
But they have to appeal to me. And that's not all about the face, or the body, or the personality. It's a combination of everything. And that weird something that makes you spark.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to find them attractive. That doesn't mean that everyone has to find them attractive, they don't have to be classically good looking or appeal to everyone.
But they have to appeal to me. And that's not all about the face, or the body, or the personality. It's a combination of everything. And that weird something that makes you spark.
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And the weird something…is that just because you are weird yourself?
Asking for a friend  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"I have to find them attractive. That doesn't mean that everyone has to find them attractive, they don't have to be classically good looking or appeal to everyone.
But they have to appeal to me. And that's not all about the face, or the body, or the personality. It's a combination of everything. And that weird something that makes you spark.
And the weird something…is that just because you are weird yourself?
Asking for a friend "
Tell your friend yes.
Weirdness attracts weirdness  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course they are! Physical attraction is just as important as emotional attraction. If I'm not attracted to them initially then I'm not going to agree to a meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s down to chemistry, I’ve got to be able to have good conversation…mental stimulation is just as important as physical for me - that said I can find someone interesting but not attractive, attraction needs to be there for me to want to have sex with them, it’s about the full package..that click xx"
Absolutely…..the full package is key, there’s nothing more exciting than being turned on and excited both mentally and physically with the added bonus of great banter and sparks are the biggest turn on.
As is honesty and respect both ways too.
And definitely not taking things to personal when having the banter.
All superb in my eyes xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to find them attractive. That doesn't mean that everyone has to find them attractive, they don't have to be classically good looking or appeal to everyone.
But they have to appeal to me. And that's not all about the face, or the body, or the personality. It's a combination of everything. And that weird something that makes you spark.
And the weird something…is that just because you are weird yourself?
Asking for a friend
Tell your friend yes.
Weirdness attracts weirdness "
Friend told and replied with….
Well you are weird  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"I have to find them attractive. That doesn't mean that everyone has to find them attractive, they don't have to be classically good looking or appeal to everyone.
But they have to appeal to me. And that's not all about the face, or the body, or the personality. It's a combination of everything. And that weird something that makes you spark.
And the weird something…is that just because you are weird yourself?
Asking for a friend
Tell your friend yes.
Weirdness attracts weirdness
Friend told and replied with….
Well you are weird "
Tell your friend that's attractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to find them attractive. That doesn't mean that everyone has to find them attractive, they don't have to be classically good looking or appeal to everyone.
But they have to appeal to me. And that's not all about the face, or the body, or the personality. It's a combination of everything. And that weird something that makes you spark.
And the weird something…is that just because you are weird yourself?
Asking for a friend
Tell your friend yes.
Weirdness attracts weirdness
Friend told and replied with….
Well you are weird
Tell your friend that's attractive "
Sorry my friend has left the room
I will pass on the weirdness to him upon his arrival |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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Tell your friend that's attractive
Sorry my friend has left the room
I will pass on the weirdness to him upon his arrival "
I'll tell him next time he cums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's each to their own tbh , if a lady can't stimulate my mind it ends there , doesn't matter what she looks like tbh it's mind first ..body after."
Same |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tell your friend that's attractive
Sorry my friend has left the room
I will pass on the weirdness to him upon his arrival
I'll tell him next time he cums "
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"It's each to their own tbh , if a lady can't stimulate my mind it ends there , doesn't matter what she looks like tbh it's mind first ..body after.
Same "
But surely it doesn't matter if she has the best personality in the world, if she is physically unattractive to you, her personality will only be able to stimulate so much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's each to their own tbh , if a lady can't stimulate my mind it ends there , doesn't matter what she looks like tbh it's mind first ..body after.
Same
But surely it doesn't matter if she has the best personality in the world, if she is physically unattractive to you, her personality will only be able to stimulate so much. "
But wouldn't that be the same for a beautiful body who lacks personality but physically she's perfection. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"It's each to their own tbh , if a lady can't stimulate my mind it ends there , doesn't matter what she looks like tbh it's mind first ..body after.
Same
But surely it doesn't matter if she has the best personality in the world, if she is physically unattractive to you, her personality will only be able to stimulate so much.
But wouldn't that be the same for a beautiful body who lacks personality but physically she's perfection."
Yes, that's what I'm saying. Very few people (and even then I question if any) can truely say looks don't matter. Of course they do! But so does personality. Both are required for a true attraction and neither will get far without the other.
How many people would say yes to a date from somebody "unattractive" if they randomly asked? That personality ain't shining through that quickly.
If 2 people, one that is by society accepted standards "attractive" and the other" unattractive" were given a script to say the exact same thing in asking people out, the attractive one would get a better reception and more potential dates.
Now put them on blind dates, with no script and the person they are dating has to stay the entire date, then whoever has the strongest personality is given a chance to shine.
Your attractive and my attractive may be totally different so results may vary but there is no way people can tell me one side is more important than the other.
They both enhance (or diminish) the other.
So yes, looks are important. Just as personality is important. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's each to their own tbh , if a lady can't stimulate my mind it ends there , doesn't matter what she looks like tbh it's mind first ..body after.
Same
But surely it doesn't matter if she has the best personality in the world, if she is physically unattractive to you, her personality will only be able to stimulate so much.
But wouldn't that be the same for a beautiful body who lacks personality but physically she's perfection.
Yes, that's what I'm saying. Very few people (and even then I question if any) can truely say looks don't matter. Of course they do! But so does personality. Both are required for a true attraction and neither will get far without the other.
How many people would say yes to a date from somebody "unattractive" if they randomly asked? That personality ain't shining through that quickly.
If 2 people, one that is by society accepted standards "attractive" and the other" unattractive" were given a script to say the exact same thing in asking people out, the attractive one would get a better reception and more potential dates.
Now put them on blind dates, with no script and the person they are dating has to stay the entire date, then whoever has the strongest personality is given a chance to shine.
Your attractive and my attractive may be totally different so results may vary but there is no way people can tell me one side is more important than the other.
They both enhance (or diminish) the other.
So yes, looks are important. Just as personality is important. "
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"So a question to you lovely fabbers. Would it bother you if the person you met up with on here had a great body and personality but wasn’t much of a looker facially?
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It wouldn't bother me no; if someone makes me smile and gives me a stiffy, game on! |
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I’ll be honest too, I see a lot of women saying if they dudnt find him that attractive but he had a great personality they could get over that
I really don’t want that. It sounds sweet as you type it out, but does anyone really want that? Being in a relationship with someone who you know doesn’t really fancy you that much physically?
Women that gave that answer, how would you feel if on a 4th date the guy said “yeah you know what, when I 1st saw you I didn’t really fancy you at all. But your alright now I know you” |
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My last long term fab friend told me on our third coffee that “It’s never going to happen!”
So maybe a nice personality and good sense of humour can open closed doors but patience is always a good idea imho  |
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"I’ll be honest too, I see a lot of women saying if they dudnt find him that attractive but he had a great personality they could get over that
I really don’t want that. It sounds sweet as you type it out, but does anyone really want that? Being in a relationship with someone who you know doesn’t really fancy you that much physically?
Women that gave that answer, how would you feel if on a 4th date the guy said “yeah you know what, when I 1st saw you I didn’t really fancy you at all. But your alright now I know you” "
Totally see your point. I think there has to be the attraction otherwise it’s gonna feel like settling? Like how can you be with somebody if you don’t fancy them?? |
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"I’ll be honest too, I see a lot of women saying if they dudnt find him that attractive but he had a great personality they could get over that
I really don’t want that. It sounds sweet as you type it out, but does anyone really want that? Being in a relationship with someone who you know doesn’t really fancy you that much physically?
Women that gave that answer, how would you feel if on a 4th date the guy said “yeah you know what, when I 1st saw you I didn’t really fancy you at all. But your alright now I know you”
Totally see your point. I think there has to be the attraction otherwise it’s gonna feel like settling? Like how can you be with somebody if you don’t fancy them?? "
Sounds to me one reason why divorce rates are so high. thinking they can just settle for someone they don’t really fancy and years later it all comes bubbling to the surface. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's no doubt about it there are great replies to this thread , it's each to their own as regards this topic , to me Sex is way better if there's a mental connection , it does not appeal to everyone , not every shoe fits, l have been with ladies and they have mentioned that the guy was texting his next meet while in the same hotel room .. needless to say he was fucked out on his ear straight away , it's all a matter of choice here , some will fuck because of instant attraction while there has to be a mental connection for others , it doesn't make any of those bad , it's just the way it is , different strokes for different folk , it happens in real life , it can be no different here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ll be honest too, I see a lot of women saying if they dudnt find him that attractive but he had a great personality they could get over that
I really don’t want that. It sounds sweet as you type it out, but does anyone really want that? Being in a relationship with someone who you know doesn’t really fancy you that much physically?
Women that gave that answer, how would you feel if on a 4th date the guy said “yeah you know what, when I 1st saw you I didn’t really fancy you at all. But your alright now I know you” "
It's ok for women to have sympathy shags with a man they like. But the same women would be deathly offended if a man said he didn't fancy her and only shagged her because he liked her sense of humour. |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ll be honest too, I see a lot of women saying if they dudnt find him that attractive but he had a great personality they could get over that
I really don’t want that. It sounds sweet as you type it out, but does anyone really want that? Being in a relationship with someone who you know doesn’t really fancy you that much physically?
Women that gave that answer, how would you feel if on a 4th date the guy said “yeah you know what, when I 1st saw you I didn’t really fancy you at all. But your alright now I know you”
It's ok for women to have sympathy shags with a man they like. But the same women would be deathly offended if a man said he didn't fancy her and only shagged her because he liked her sense of humour. "
This is one of the things that holds me back on here. I’d hate it if I thought someone was just shagging me because I was moderately easier to get on with than the person he really wanted to shag. |
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Like a lot of other Fabbers I dip in and out of fab life and over the past eight or so years I haven’t found any right way of saying no thanks! (or being told it) and although it plays havoc with the ego I would rather be told than just ghosted….but then again maybe I am used to disappointment |
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As long as I find them attractive then it doesn't matter to me whether others would find them so, however nothing more disappointing than seeing pictures and the real thing not looking like said picture |
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"So a question to you lovely fabbers. Would it bother you if the person you met up with on here had a great body and personality but wasn’t much of a looker facially?
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Yep, personality is a major winner when having fun with others. |
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