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over a year ago
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So here we go. Me and long term GF have a sex life that's fizzling out. Starting a family amongst other things means little time to do what we do best. Something that was fantastic beforehand.
Of late she said she wants to spice things up and declared her love for male gay porn. She asked could we watch together. Now, I don't find guys attractive but gay sex, cock and ass currently send flutters to my cock.
We watched, played with eachother and she admitted her fantasy for her to watch, play with herself and control while a guy fucks me. We've pegged before and we both enjoy. She is desperate to watch me with a guy and now puts gay porn on frequently.
I'm torn as I don't think I'm bi but would play and have sex with a guy. What do I do ha? |
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"I'm torn as I don't think I'm bi but would play and have sex with a guy. What do I do ha?"
Stop worrying about the labels, and just do what feels good.
There will be plenty of people posting here who insist that you are 'bi' and that you must accept it. But 'bi' means different things to different people. Some think it describes love and romance, others think it's just about the sex. Those people labelling you 'bi' probably have a different idea of what 'bi' means than you do.
You've been able to say how you feel in this forum, which means that you have a good grip on who you are. Ignore all the labels and the labelers, and just have fun. |
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"Thanks all so far. Refreshing and helpful to read certain comments. Ideally I could do with creating a couple's account on here to help perhaps"
That will definitely help. You’ll find it difficult for folk to believe there is a girlfriend without a couples profile. |
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I'm torn as I don't think I'm bi but would play and have sex with a guy. What do I do ha?"
Wellhungvwe thinks that Hunter1878bi who’s profile says he is bicurious should stop trying to pretend he isn’t bi and just get on with it. |
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"So here we go. Me and long term GF have a sex life that's fizzling out. Starting a family amongst other things means little time to do what we do best. Something that was fantastic beforehand.
Of late she said she wants to spice things up and declared her love for male gay porn. She asked could we watch together. Now, I don't find guys attractive but gay sex, cock and ass currently send flutters to my cock.
We watched, played with eachother and she admitted her fantasy for her to watch, play with herself and control while a guy fucks me. We've pegged before and we both enjoy. She is desperate to watch me with a guy and now puts gay porn on frequently.
I'm torn as I don't think I'm bi but would play and have sex with a guy. What do I do ha?"
Reading this is almost like reading about our own life and experiences!!
It was exactly the same thing with us...we took the leap...and guess what!! We both loved it!! On Saturday I sat back watching hubby and another male...was such a turn on for me and also both men.
My hubby is very much like you...no attraction to men...but does enjoy what a man can offer!!
Forget the labels!! Just go with what you both feel is right and have the best bloody time!!! If covid has taught us anything...life is too short!! Don't grow old with regrets or 'what ifs'...grow old with... wow that was fucking great and I'm glad I experienced things!!
Enjoy and above all else have fun  xx |
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Honestly, if both you and your partner are up for it, then I see this as no bigger a dilemma than trying a new dish at a restaurant you've never tried before!
Go for it. If it's not how you imagined then you've tried it at least. |
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I don't see the dilemma. If you're both wanting to try it then give it a go.
Maybe suggest to your girlfriend that you open a couples profile on here, then I imagine you'll have plenty of offers. |
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