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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How easily do you place the initial trust in someone "
As a man I think it is easier than for a female especially on here as it goes withou saying single ladies are more vulnerable to negative experiences.
But for me I still find it a little unsettling and that is as a quite well built man who can look after myself.
What I would recommend would be to get to know the individual have a social meet first. Try to judge their character a little before pleasing ultimate trust in them.
I don't know if it helps but that would be my advice.
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
Depends who, what the context and relationship are and what I'm trusting them with.
Trusting them with my heart it usually takes a while. But there has been an exception.
Trusting what they say, depends what it is and usually takes a while.
Trusting them with my possessions, hell, why not. It is just stuff.
But I don't trust anyone to make me peanut butter toast. Because they'll never get it right. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Slowly especially on here. Too many too free with others personal info and pics to trust anyone on here from the start.
In real life I will trust someone up to a point to start then it depends on how they act after that.
I do have people I trust completely and they are worth their weight in gold because of that. That includes someone on here . |
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Not easy at all
With some people you just know you can from how they conduct themselves from the get go. Just as some will be ‘never in a month of Sundays’. ! Then there’s the middle roaders, you trust them with some things but nothing personal.
I trust my gut instinct, it’s rarely wrong. |
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"Take people as I find them, lie to me then don't expect a second chance"
I do this. Trust them with information you don't mind being shared and only give them 1 chance to break that trust 
I need to place some sort of trust initially then build a relationship from that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How easily do you place the initial trust in someone "
I don't, it normally takes a few weeks or months of getting to know someone first before I bare all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How easily do you place the initial trust in someone "
iiv only ever completely 100% trusted exactly 1 person in my life i dont even trust my kids or family as much as that i always selfishly held something back where as now i cant let anyone in at all so in truth i dont maybe with small things but never again will it be 100% me maybe 35% at the most
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Relatively easily I think. I start off assuming most people are decent and wait to be shown otherwise. I am learning not to overshare too soon though, just incase. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Relatively easily I think. I start off assuming most people are decent and wait to be shown otherwise. I am learning not to overshare too soon though, just incase. "
I love that attitude. I’m happy to be wrong about people but no one needs to earn trust , it’s a given. |
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"How easily do you place the initial trust in someone "
As soon as you joined the site. If you think your profile and pics and videos cant be copied and sent without your consent and would never find their way outside of the site your trusting anyone that sees your profile. I work on the assumption that anything I upload or say could be copied and sent to my Facebook friend list. Unlikely....but it could. I'm lucky, and Worst case scenario of my profile getting exposed is my parents die of heart attack, friends surprised, take the piss for a day then move on and few mates send me their usernames as they are on there. If you being fucked in a car park in Scunthorpe by local rugby team and some lorry drivers would get you fired from your headteacher job....don't video it and have it on your profile |
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