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over a year ago
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When you meet someone and the connection is instant. Things move to the bedroom. Kissing is amazing, foreplay is amazing. Sex is amazing but he only wants to do you from behind. Should I be insulted ?
I've tired to climb on top of him but he flips me over. I've suggested missionary but he just laughs. I've suggested anything but doggystyle. He just tells me that it's fun. I don't know what else to do and it's really putting me off. Any suggestions? Everything I bring it up he makes a joke out of it. |
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over a year ago
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Doesn’t sound like an amazing connection to me if he’s not interested in listening to you or making sure the sex is how you both want it …
But hey, it’s not my relationship … |
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Doesn’t sound that amazing.
I had a meet like that once, he not only wanted doggy, he didn’t want me to move at all! Erm, no thanks! So I got up and left.
Just ask him why and tell him you’re not happy. Don’t let him make a joke out of it. |
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"When you meet someone and the connection is instant. Things move to the bedroom. Kissing is amazing, foreplay is amazing. Sex is amazing but he only wants to do you from behind. Should I be insulted ?
I've tired to climb on top of him but he flips me over. I've suggested missionary but he just laughs. I've suggested anything but doggystyle. He just tells me that it's fun. I don't know what else to do and it's really putting me off. Any suggestions? Everything I bring it up he makes a joke out of it. "
Who wouldn’t want to look at the front of you while fucking he must be mad x |
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By *ynda1978Woman
over a year ago
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That doesn't sound great and I personally wouldn't stand for it! I'm sure you'll meet someone who is just as amazing or should I say better.
Leave alone as they say it was good whilst it lasted and walk away!! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doesn’t sound like an amazing connection to me if he’s not interested in listening to you or making sure the sex is how you both want it …
But hey, it’s not my relationship …"
Oh, and he’s probably been watching too much porn ..  |
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"When you meet someone and the connection is instant. Things move to the bedroom. Kissing is amazing, foreplay is amazing. Sex is amazing but he only wants to do you from behind. Should I be insulted ?
I've tired to climb on top of him but he flips me over. I've suggested missionary but he just laughs. I've suggested anything but doggystyle. He just tells me that it's fun. I don't know what else to do and it's really putting me off. Any suggestions? Everything I bring it up he makes a joke out of it. "
Reads to me as he dosnt want any attachement issues.
So dosnt want to face you when your having sex with him and thats why he prefers from behind only.
or a guilty conscience. |
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"I've suggested missionary but he just laughs....
Everything I bring it up he makes a joke out of it."
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Sex should be filled with fun, tactility and laughter.
But if you're being mocked then that's bordering on contempt and irreverence. |
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Just tell him you don't enjoy that position, end of
He doesn't get to dictate which positions you have sex in, it's a two way conversation, if he doesn't change positions, he doesn't get to have sex, simple |
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I wouldn't be insulted, but I would be asking him why he was laughing at my suggestions. That's a little odd. The spark may be there but there has to be give and take between the two of you, surely?
Mrs TMN x |
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I find the sexiest sex is when you’re facing each other.
From behind is good too, but much more impersonal.
On a separate note, my ex took me to visit the doctor because I only wanted to have sex doggy-style. The doctor asked ‘Why don’t you try it the normal way around?’ I said ‘I tried that, but the dog kept licking my face’. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find the sexiest sex is when you’re facing each other.
From behind is good too, but much more impersonal.
On a separate note, my ex took me to visit the doctor because I only wanted to have sex doggy-style. The doctor asked ‘Why don’t you try it the normal way around?’ I said ‘I tried that, but the dog kept licking my face’."
FFS! that's my kind of joke. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You'll come to this conclusion yourself as you're already put off and asking the question.
You've tried talking to him and he laughs at you. That's horrible.
If I were you, I wouldn't give him anymore of my time, he's certainly not amazing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doesn’t sound like an amazing connection to me if he’s not interested in listening to you or making sure the sex is how you both want it …
But hey, it’s not my relationship …"
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could he be Married or with someone so feels guilty? Either way its not a mutual thing if it's only his way...plenty of guys would be interested...move on x |
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"When you meet someone and the connection is instant. Things move to the bedroom. Kissing is amazing, foreplay is amazing. Sex is amazing but he only wants to do you from behind. Should I be insulted ?
I've tired to climb on top of him but he flips me over. I've suggested missionary but he just laughs. I've suggested anything but doggystyle. He just tells me that it's fun. I don't know what else to do and it's really putting me off. Any suggestions? Everything I bring it up he makes a joke out of it. "
Is this guy a fb? or you both in a relationship? Ask your self...are the other positions important?...why doesn't he like them? and if he's really putting you off all ready then maybe you've answered your own question OP?..get rid of him? Only you can decide. |
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Hmmm Let's guess
Lazy?
Power, and enjoys you getting less out of it?
Frightened that he might have to do something with your pleasure in mind (and will fail)
Doesn't know how to do any other positions (and doesn't care)
Not interested in what you think, say or want.
... and all reasons to to not waste further time trying to educate him.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stop fucking him.
Find someone who respects you enough to listen to you, and your desires/wants. "
^ I agree with what this lady said.
Sounds all one sided and on his terms - for him to laugh every time you question it? He has no real consideration or respect for you. |
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I had an ex boyfriend like this. I managed to occasionally branch out into other positions but mostly we never really got past it. We split up for other reasons but it was really starting to get to me in the end. I enjoyed the position but anything gets boring if it's the only thing you do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nobody in this forum knows. The best answers people can do is guesses. It seems to me that you really like this guy for his other qualities. However you have to get to the bottom of it and find out from him. When he turns it into a joke, tell him it's not funny anymore. That it's starting to become an issue for you. That you want a real connection, that includes honesty from his side. If despite all your attempts he doesn't care to share his genuine reason with you and/or try to fulfill your legitimate wants, then he is not worth keeping. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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Doggy is my least favourite position, and it hurts me, so if I am not getting pleasure out of it, despite the connection and great other elements, it’d be a bye bye from me…
I only cum on missionary…  and on top, but I take aaaaaahes and I don’t have the patience.  |
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"When you meet someone and the connection is instant. Things move to the bedroom. Kissing is amazing, foreplay is amazing. Sex is amazing but he only wants to do you from behind. Should I be insulted ?
I've tired to climb on top of him but he flips me over. I've suggested missionary but he just laughs. I've suggested anything but doggystyle. He just tells me that it's fun. I don't know what else to do and it's really putting me off. Any suggestions? Everything I bring it up he makes a joke out of it. "
He sounds like a prick.
You have an amazing arse though, so that might be part of the reason. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When you meet someone and the connection is instant. Things move to the bedroom. Kissing is amazing, foreplay is amazing. Sex is amazing but he only wants to do you from behind. Should I be insulted ?
I've tired to climb on top of him but he flips me over. I've suggested missionary but he just laughs. I've suggested anything but doggystyle. He just tells me that it's fun. I don't know what else to do and it's really putting me off. Any suggestions? Everything I bring it up he makes a joke out of it.
He sounds like a prick.
You have an amazing arse though, so that might be part of the reason. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He's having sex exactly the way he wants to....
Personally I'd have shut that door long ago
This. He's not meeting your needs."
Thank. I guess he is not  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Should be a two way thing. Maybe do one position you like and then what he likes. Alternate. You both might get to enjoy all positions in the end!"
This is 100 percent true |
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No? Breath as fresh as a Springtime Meadow?
Ah well I’m at a loss then! 