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In the south it hard for single males
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"What everyone's thoughts on singles males looking for fun? Has anyone else come across barriers for us single guys? "
It's simple mathematics.
Hundreds of guys to every girl/couple and then some of those girls/couples are not even looking for single gents
The odds are stacked against you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are no barriers.
A bit of effort into profiles and pictures goes a long way.
Be respectful when approaching women or couples, read their profiles.
It really isn't that hard, it only is if you make it hard for yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's why we built the m6 toll. To keep you all down there  "
We need a second Hadrian’s wall. Although by the time they reach that and felt the slight dip in temperature they’d turn around to get their big coats |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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"What everyone's thoughts on singles males looking for fun? Has anyone else come across barriers for us single guys?
It's simple mathematics.
Hundreds of guys to every girl/couple and then some of those girls/couples are not even looking for single gents
The odds are stacked against you "
Add in some of those single female / couple profiles aren't even genuine ... oh dear  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why do you feel it’s harder in the South?
I would imagine that population density is a significant factor.
More people equates to more chances of success surely.
Are you perhaps becoming disillusioned after just 3 weeks on Fab? |
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Disillusioned no, and pop density doesn't equate to fabS members per se, but factoring in my own distance to travel and small town im from (personal circumstances I know) make it harder for the selected few profiles are that around |
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Can’t believe you’ve been on 3 weeks and they’ve not been queuing 
I was on 2 weeks as a single guy and met C and here we are
But seriously, you need to develop friendships and they take a long time. This isn’t the fuck and go site you’ve been led to believe it is.
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"Can’t believe you’ve been on 3 weeks and they’ve not been queuing
I was on 2 weeks as a single guy and met C and here we are
But seriously, you need to develop friendships and they take a long time. This isn’t the fuck and go site you’ve been led to believe it is.
K
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I think a lot of people believe singles guys think this is a fuck and go, great description  and proberbly because that's how most people see this, but if I'm honest I don't treat it as such but the barrier per se is not even getting replys because as you said most people treat it as such |
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Hello OP, you seem to have a nice profile and avoid a lot of the pitfalls. Are you single though? Not being able to accommodate is usually a red flag for some people. That might be an issue? |
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"Hello OP, you seem to have a nice profile and avoid a lot of the pitfalls. Are you single though? Not being able to accommodate is usually a red flag for some people. That might be an issue?"
Thank you for pointing that out, yes however living arrangements are a little strained so can't accommodate where I currently am, but appreciate you looking |
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"Hello OP, you seem to have a nice profile and avoid a lot of the pitfalls. Are you single though? Not being able to accommodate is usually a red flag for some people. That might be an issue?
Thank you for pointing that out, yes however living arrangements are a little strained so can't accommodate where I currently am, but appreciate you looking "
It's with reiterating that you are single, then just to put peoples minds at rest. |
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"I'd disagree whether it sounds like "classic thread" but we can all have an opinion 
Totally true, though tell me you've not seen this topic a zillon times when you've been here 10 year "
Completely understand, must be tough for seasoned vets here ( I mean that politely) when you have a lot of single guys treating this site like tinder. |
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I’ve cut and paste the reply I put on another similar thread OP. You need to understand the graft you need to put in :
“ It can be hard work OP but time and effort put in = rewards out. Build an interesting and engaging profile and be active by chatting on forums, making new friends and contacts and building your social network. Took me two years to get traction on here” . |
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"I’ve cut and paste the reply I put on another similar thread OP. You need to understand the graft you need to put in :
“ It can be hard work OP but time and effort put in = rewards out. Build an interesting and engaging profile and be active by chatting on forums, making new friends and contacts and building your social network. Took me two years to get traction on here” . "
Appreciate the message, thank you |
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"Completely understand, must be tough for seasoned vets here ( I mean that politely) when you have a lot of single guys treating this site like tinder."
I only complained about yet another newbie asking the same old question without bothering to do a forum search.
What's that got to do with Tinder 
I appreciate one might think wearing a suit and being sarcastically rude could make the ladies come running |
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"What everyone's thoughts on singles males looking for fun? Has anyone else come across barriers for us single guys? "
The only real barrier is when is comes to couples really they never seem to want to meet single males wich I can understand so that's a whole category that we can write off really but other than that once your established on here and got meets under your belt and a decent profile its basically about your approach and conduct |
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"Disillusioned no, and pop density doesn't equate to fabS members per se, but factoring in my own distance to travel and small town im from (personal circumstances I know) make it harder for the selected few profiles are that around "
I think your age counts against you on Fab. Many singles/couples prefer over 40’s as they have kids under 30. You may be better going to a social - they’ve just started them in Hants. |
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"What everyone's thoughts on singles males looking for fun? Has anyone else come across barriers for us single guys?
The only real barrier is when is comes to couples really they never seem to want to meet single males wich I can understand so that's a whole category that we can write off really but other than that once your established on here and got meets under your belt and a decent profile its basically about your approach and conduct "
Lots of couples want to meet single males for threesomes, Cuck/Bull/Hotwife scenarios etc how do they happen without single guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Liverpool guy down south
No definite answer I’m afraid
Think all hottys up north
Definitely some beautiful woman down here just not looking for singles or don't reply "
True just carry on as you are I do hope you find someone soon
Sometimes as well friends can be quite supportive on fab lady’s and gents  |
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"What everyone's thoughts on singles males looking for fun? Has anyone else come across barriers for us single guys?
The only real barrier is when is comes to couples really they never seem to want to meet single males wich I can understand so that's a whole category that we can write off really but other than that once your established on here and got meets under your belt and a decent profile its basically about your approach and conduct
Lots of couples want to meet single males for threesomes, Cuck/Bull/Hotwife scenarios etc how do they happen without single guys "
Most I come across are looking for single women or other couples rarely do they want guys |
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