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Apologies and rant.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Apologies for my post lately.some of u found them boring..some of u found them annoying...me..didn't even have a straight head on. I just thought.." well..this is a sex site and not social media..cocks and tits out and come and meet up for sex...hence the site name.! U get some nasty people and u get some nice people on hear..doesn't cost a penny to be polite. Heck..this should be called (fab social network) what happend to the good old sex clubs were u can just walk in..fuck and then leave. In my mind...if u wonna cut out the bullshit and just fuck..this shud be the kinda site for it..u wonna get to know a person..join a damn dating site. Sorry for the rant. |
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"Apologies for my post lately.some of u found them boring..some of u found them annoying...me..didn't even have a straight head on. I just thought.." well..this is a sex site and not social media..cocks and tits out and come and meet up for sex...hence the site name.! U get some nasty people and u get some nice people on hear..doesn't cost a penny to be polite. Heck..this should be called (fab social network) what happend to the good old sex clubs were u can just walk in..fuck and then leave. In my mind...if u wonna cut out the bullshit and just fuck..this shud be the kinda site for it..u wonna get to know a person..join a damn dating site. Sorry for the rant."
Have you had a bad experience? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Umm |
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"Apologies for my post lately.some of u found them boring..some of u found them annoying...me..didn't even have a straight head on. I just thought.." well..this is a sex site and not social media..cocks and tits out and come and meet up for sex...hence the site name.! U get some nasty people and u get some nice people on hear..doesn't cost a penny to be polite. Heck..this should be called (fab social network) what happend to the good old sex clubs were u can just walk in..fuck and then leave. In my mind...if u wonna cut out the bullshit and just fuck..this shud be the kinda site for it..u wonna get to know a person..join a damn dating site. Sorry for the rant."
Even just for sex I wanna get to know the person ? X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just thought that this was the kinda site to talk about sexual content and sex ect and what ever it may entail....I guess I was wrong |
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Your opinion is valid. As is mine. We just come from opposite directions. Maybe consider it’s not just one thing to all? |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
Sorry your expectations haven't been met, OP. There seems to be a lot of that going around in one way or another I'm afraid.
Just one thing... these sex clubs where you used to walk in, fuck, walk out... were they particularly expensive? As I don't think they were swingers clubs. |
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OP I'm sorry you've not had the experience you hoped or expected from Fab.
It's primarily a swinging site not a hook up site. This means that many on here, men and women, want to know, like and trust a person before considering sex.
Maybe a different site would be a better option for you. |
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Not alot of people are comfortable with that type of arrangement because it doesnt fall under SSC (safe,sane and consensual), it wouldn't be very safe for me or anyone to let strangers in their home or body without knowing what they are like at least a little bit... |
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"I just thought that this was the kinda site to talk about sexual content and sex ect and what ever it may entail....I guess I was wrong "
You can talk about sex...but nany women don't want direct messages of a sexual nature.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That's the thing..back wen I went to sex clubs..it was just have a drink..catch the eye and fuck..no bullshit. That's just how it was. |
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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago
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"OP I'm sorry you've not had the experience you hoped or expected from Fab.
It's primarily a swinging site not a hook up site. This means that many on here, men and women, want to know, like and trust a person before considering sex.
Maybe a different site would be a better option for you."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Life is a learning experience |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
Surely if it was just a "fuck site" and not a social media community then a rant post sort of doesn't really belong here either does it?
I'll let you in on a very well known secret, community websites are a form of social media. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
If this was a fuck site wouldn't the name be different?
I wasn't aware that swinging was saying yes to whoever asks to fuck you, turning up, fucking then leaving ASAP.
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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago
Bath |
"That's the thing..back wen I went to sex clubs..it was just have a drink..catch the eye and fuck..no bullshit. That's just how it was."
Why don’t you go back to a club then if it suits your needs more? |
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"Apologies for my post lately.some of u found them boring..some of u found them annoying...me..didn't even have a straight head on. I just thought.." well..this is a sex site and not social media..cocks and tits out and come and meet up for sex...hence the site name.! U get some nasty people and u get some nice people on hear..doesn't cost a penny to be polite. Heck..this should be called (fab social network) what happend to the good old sex clubs were u can just walk in..fuck and then leave. In my mind...if u wonna cut out the bullshit and just fuck..this shud be the kinda site for it..u wonna get to know a person..join a damn dating site. Sorry for the rant."
I'm not sure you understand the concept of swinging, you seem to think this site should be full of women out for your pleasure for a start there are 100 guys to every female / couple so your odds of getting a meet are never gonna be great
Sex clubs still exist your entrance fee includes paying the ladies working there so of course sex is more likely (but still not guaranteed)
Swingers clubs are plentiful but I'm not sure that's what you're looking for as sex is definitely not
guaranteed there
I think you'd be better off on another well known Adult site, what's the saying, you get what you pay for |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"That's the thing..back wen I went to sex clubs..it was just have a drink..catch the eye and fuck..no bullshit. That's just how it was."
How long ago was that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's the thing..back wen I went to sex clubs..it was just have a drink..catch the eye and fuck..no bullshit. That's just how it was."
You do realise that the women in sex clubs are often prostitutes?
Swinging and swinging clubs are normal people, who may or may not want to get naked with you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apologies for my post lately.some of u found them boring..some of u found them annoying...me..didn't even have a straight head on. I just thought.." well..this is a sex site and not social media..cocks and tits out and come and meet up for sex...hence the site name.! U get some nasty people and u get some nice people on hear..doesn't cost a penny to be polite. Heck..this should be called (fab social network) what happend to the good old sex clubs were u can just walk in..fuck and then leave. In my mind...if u wonna cut out the bullshit and just fuck..this shud be the kinda site for it..u wonna get to know a person..join a damn dating site. Sorry for the rant."
You must be super hot for a single guy if you stood out amongst all the other single blokes in a club, fucked a lady and left with a smile on hour face, you say the good pld days but you're only 37
Also this is a swinging site not a sex site and I suggest the forum isn't the place for you if you don't want to socialise |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The club's that I went too had a bar the chat if people wanted..usually that was just the pick up bar.maybe I'm outta my league here but..I just figured 90% of people have profile pics with there tits and dicks out and so on...so..u get the picture..it's nothing personal.. just venting, my apologies. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was 20 at the time.now 37 so..17 years ago. People did have a social drink in the bar part...but for most...the bar was just a pick up bar..most women were either cheating,high sex drive and just wanted sex and then go back to there normal lives. |
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"The club's that I went too had a bar the chat if people wanted..usually that was just the pick up bar.maybe I'm outta my league here but..I just figured 90% of people have profile pics with there tits and dicks out and so on...so..u get the picture..it's nothing personal.. just venting, my apologies."
As I said, a sex club isn't a swinging club.
Yes people have erotic photos but that doesn't mesn they'll have sex with anyone who asks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I disagree with that this site is what you make it
If it’s not working change |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was 20 at the time.now 37 so..17 years ago. People did have a social drink in the bar part...but for most...the bar was just a pick up bar..most women were either cheating,high sex drive and just wanted sex and then go back to there normal lives."
Have you been to a club recently? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are hookup apps - maybe try one of those as it sounds more like what you're looking for. |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
"Why don’t you go back to a club then if it suits your needs more?"
Beat me to it, I was going to say the same!
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"I was 20 at the time.now 37 so..17 years ago. People did have a social drink in the bar part...but for most...the bar was just a pick up bar..most women were either cheating,high sex drive and just wanted sex and then go back to there normal lives."
I agree.. these women were grateful for that shag then went back to their dreary lives ..
Ducks for cover.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It sure is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The times, they are a changing... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not since covid..seems people are alot more touchy now than they were 17 years ago. |
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Only because I would love to visit these clubs.. what were the names of these clubs ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It looks that way. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Back then 17 years I paid £30 entry fee.drinks were cheap and the sex was free.just ordinary people that wanted sex..it cudnt of been more simpler. That had lives,jobs even kids..the club's was just a step away from reality to enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I didn't pay for sex..never have never will.17 years ago I paid £30 entry fee, drinks were cheap and sex was free. just ordinary people with ordinary lives that just wanted sex. It couldn't of been more simple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe? |
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"I didn't pay for sex..never have never will.17 years ago I paid £30 entry fee, drinks were cheap and sex was free. just ordinary people with ordinary lives that just wanted sex. It couldn't of been more simple."
What was the club called ? |
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This site is what you want to make of it. It can be a sex site for some, but for others it’s a social platform.
Swingers clubs are becoming more popular now and that’s because again, it’s up to the people attending what they want from it, be it sex or social interaction.
The clubs and this site may be changing but to start moaning about the good old days is quite a clichéd thing to do. Adapt to suit the change or look at other ways to get that instant sex.
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
Stop living in the past man! Those days are gone and they are never coming back. So adapt and get with it, or be sexless as you continue to whine and keep eating those rememberries of glory days, because nobody wants to have sex with a whiner. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This was 17 years ago .it's been knocked down now. It was a private back door club. Stil professionally run tho. |
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"This was 17 years ago .it's been knocked down now. It was a private back door club. Stil professionally run tho."
I think it was probably a brothel.. |
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I've been going to swingers clubs for 10 years and they were pretty much the same then as they are now though there's possibly more young people now. I wasn't aware things changed so drastically in the 7 years prior. |
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"Not since covid..seems people are alot more touchy now than they were 17 years ago."
Seems people are less touchy(feely) based on the original post... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That's the problem these days tho init..bring back the good old days. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This was 17 years ago .it's been knocked down now. It was a private back door club. Stil professionally run tho."
We went to a club not far from you yesterday, paid to get in, had some cheap drinks, chatted to some lovely people and then had lots of fun with them all in a room together, then left very happy having made fab new friends. Perhaps its your attitude thats gone stale, not the scene itself |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
Did they not have quote buttons back 17 years ago either? |
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Sorry but your post sounds like the someone owes you something for being on this site… it’s all about preferences… also some people like a connection.. or to connect in some sort of way before getting intimate… attraction is a major factor also ( there’s many ways some one can be attractive not just looks), also a lot of people like the social as much as the sex… each to their own |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I use to walk in..grab a drink..eye a bird up.. slight small talk...then walk in a private room and get it on. we both left happy. Cudnt if been more simple. I'm not a nasty person ..I'm just pointing out how times have changed so much..bring back the good old days. |
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"I use to walk in..grab a drink..eye a bird up.. slight small talk...then walk in a private room and get it on. we both left happy. Cudnt if been more simple. I'm not a nasty person ..I'm just pointing out how times have changed so much..bring back the good old days."
Sounds amazing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is the thing tho..it never use to be this way..in a bar/pub yes...sex club...I use to walk in..buy a drink..cought a women's eye, made small talk..went in private room,had fun and both left happy. It was that simple. |
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"This is the thing tho..it never use to be this way..in a bar/pub yes...sex club...I use to walk in..buy a drink..cought a women's eye, made small talk..went in private room,had fun and both left happy. It was that simple."
I think we get the gist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is the thing tho..it never use to be this way..in a bar/pub yes...sex club...I use to walk in..buy a drink..cought a women's eye, made small talk..went in private room,had fun and both left happy. It was that simple."
This isn't a bar or a club though
It’s a very different environment |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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•walk in
•pay £30 at the door
•buy drink at bar
•eye a women up
•small talk
•private room
•had fun.
Simple as that. |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"OP I'm sorry you've not had the experience you hoped or expected from Fab.
It's primarily a swinging site not a hook up site. This means that many on here, men and women, want to know, like and trust a person before considering sex.
Maybe a different site would be a better option for you."
Couldn’t put it better myself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Chit chat, social ect is the kinda thing IDE expect in a bar or pub. Wudnt expect that in a sex club. It was more simple.. |
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"This was 17 years ago .it's been knocked down now. It was a private back door club. Stil professionally run tho."
So you paid £30 at the door. You paid probably £20 for the club and £10 for the woman with out even knowing it |
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By *age500Woman
over a year ago
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"This is the thing tho..it never use to be this way..in a bar/pub yes...sex club...I use to walk in..buy a drink..cought a women's eye, made small talk..went in private room,had fun and both left happy. It was that simple."
Hang on, just explain this again…so after the drink? |
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"•walk in
•pay £30 at the door
•buy drink at bar
•eye a women up
•small talk
•private room
•had fun.
Simple as that."
How long did you last in the private room? |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
Talk about deju vu and living in the past, saying the same thing over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again won't change a thing. Your glory days are behind you sir. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Nope. £30 was just the entry fee. They was just ordinary people paying the same price I payed at the door. |
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"This is the thing tho..it never use to be this way..in a bar/pub yes...sex club...I use to walk in..buy a drink..cought a women's eye, made small talk..went in private room,had fun and both left happy. It was that simple.
Hang on, just explain this again…so after the drink? "
He eyed up the birds..
Then as he left a large gentleman in a suit demanded £300 for his bar bill |
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"Nope. £30 was just the entry fee. They was just ordinary people paying the same price I payed at the door."
The women paid £30 too? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Depends how horny I was .lol |
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"Nope. £30 was just the entry fee. They was just ordinary people paying the same price I payed at the door.
The women paid £30 too? "
It's called equality... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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£30 entry fee for everyone who wanted entry.this included women too |
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over a year ago
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By *age500Woman
over a year ago
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"This is the thing tho..it never use to be this way..in a bar/pub yes...sex club...I use to walk in..buy a drink..cought a women's eye, made small talk..went in private room,had fun and both left happy. It was that simple.
Hang on, just explain this again…so after the drink?
He eyed up the birds..
Then as he left a large gentleman in a suit demanded £300 for his bar bill"
Ahh, see now I totally understand…just needed it explained once more |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Call it what u like..women or man..u paid £30 on the door if u wanted entry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"•walk in
•pay £30 at the door
•buy drink at bar
•eye a women up
•small talk
•private room
•had fun.
Simple as that."
These places still exist - or at least there are events at some clubs that would cater for what you're looking for
Hey for a few quid more you can go to places where you can cut the small talk and go straight to the sex, they're called brothels
It sounds that's like what you're after
Either way, some peopls here might conduct themselves like that in a club, but Fab isn't a club - and the forums certainly aren't
Look on them as the bar area, but people are dressed, chatting with friends, getting to know people and MAYBE shagging later on
If you change your mindset, you may find what you're looking for |
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17 years ago these bored housewives were gagging for it.. they were highly sexed and needed an outlet before going back to their dull lives. The men paid £30 to get in and the women gladly paid £50. Not sure why but most of these clubs were in the North.. It was different down South |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lmao.. nope..pints was £1.50 each.never really drank that much ?? |
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I am guessing that you never had to buy the lady a drink ..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Call it what u like..women or man..u paid £30 on the door if u wanted entry."
Have you been to any clubs in the last 17 years? If not, why not? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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AHH the good old days..lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Erm….even as a sex site I want to have and give and receive not just physical, but mental stimulation.
Words are so powerful and they can heighten any experience if both people are on the same wavelength.
Sorry but that’s not just related to vanilla dating but also to swinging in my eyes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not since COVID no. |
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"I am guessing that you never had to buy the lady a drink ..
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They bought him a drink, applied the condom for him and tipped him afterwards. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Back than as long as we both left satisfied then nobody gived a shit if I'm honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am guessing that you never had to buy the lady a drink ..
They bought him a drink, applied the condom for him and tipped him afterwards. "
How awfully accommodating of those kind kind ladies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Back than as long as we both left satisfied then nobody gived a shit if I'm honest."
Times change |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not since COVID no."
Why not ? Restrictions have been lifted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am guessing that you never had to buy the lady a drink ..
They bought him a drink, applied the condom for him and tipped him afterwards. "
Then everyone else in the club applauded him out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lmao..haha..Scouse humour..cant beat it.lol |
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"Back than as long as we both left satisfied then nobody gived a shit if I'm honest."
Why leave them satisfied if you have had your hole..
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"Not since COVID no."
What about some time between 17 years ago and March 2020? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Only recently tho..COVID kinda knocked me sideways tbh. |
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"Only recently tho..COVID kinda knocked me sideways tbh."
You mean it affected your mind and memory ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As hard as it may seem..I'm not selfish.lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We see this as social media for swingers. We can say stuff on here we can’t say on Facebook/Twitter/Instagram.
If you see this as a sex site you’ll probably be disappointed. There’s nowhere near as much sex going on here as we first thought when we joined. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Haha..I love the humour. U got any more lol |
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"Haha..I love the humour. U got any more lol"
Surely you are Essex Tom in disguise ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's becoming clear I can see. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Rolmfao.. |
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"Sorry your expectations haven't been met, OP. There seems to be a lot of that going around in one way or another I'm afraid.
Just one thing... these sex clubs where you used to walk in, fuck, walk out... were they particularly expensive? As I don't think they were swingers clubs."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wasn't a brothel.just a simple sex club. |
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"Wasn't a brothel.just a simple sex club."
Did it have a name? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I can only explain my experience tbh..it was what it was. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Nope...was just a private back door club.looked a bit shabby on the outside but posh inside. It's been knocked down now. I only found it the place by pure accident.i was looking for a company for an interview and was asking directions.lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So how much was it to get in the club lol |
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Now what's that smell ?
Is it cows shit? No
Is it horse shit? No
Then it must be old fashioned
Bull Shit! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Haha..lovin the humour.lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Omg..haha.lmao |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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£30 entry fee. |
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"Nope...was just a private back door club.looked a bit shabby on the outside but posh inside. It's been knocked down now. I only found it the place by pure accident.i was looking for a company for an interview and was asking directions.lol "
And its name was......? |
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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago
wirral |
"Nope...was just a private back door club.looked a bit shabby on the outside but posh inside. It's been knocked down now. I only found it the place by pure accident.i was looking for a company for an interview and was asking directions.lol "
Rear entrance only |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There was no name lv as I just saidm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope...was just a private back door club.looked a bit shabby on the outside but posh inside. It's been knocked down now. I only found it the place by pure accident.i was looking for a company for an interview and was asking directions.lol
Rear entrance only"
My wife on her period? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Haha....yeh.lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lmao |
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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago
wirral |
"Nope...was just a private back door club.looked a bit shabby on the outside but posh inside. It's been knocked down now. I only found it the place by pure accident.i was looking for a company for an interview and was asking directions.lol
Rear entrance only
My wife on her period?"
Haha I was just speaking about this guy using the back passage for entry |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Every holes a gole.lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope...was just a private back door club.looked a bit shabby on the outside but posh inside. It's been knocked down now. I only found it the place by pure accident.i was looking for a company for an interview and was asking directions.lol
Rear entrance only
My wife on her period?
Haha I was just speaking about this guy using the back passage for entry "
I’m just trying to be funny. I’m lucky if I’m even allowed in our marital bed at that time do the month |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It don't bother me..there is always the top half if ya in the mood lol. |
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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago
wirral |
"Nope...was just a private back door club.looked a bit shabby on the outside but posh inside. It's been knocked down now. I only found it the place by pure accident.i was looking for a company for an interview and was asking directions.lol
Rear entrance only
My wife on her period?
Haha I was just speaking about this guy using the back passage for entry
I’m just trying to be funny. I’m lucky if I’m even allowed in our marital bed at that time do the month "
Must be really hard for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope...was just a private back door club.looked a bit shabby on the outside but posh inside. It's been knocked down now. I only found it the place by pure accident.i was looking for a company for an interview and was asking directions.lol
Rear entrance only
My wife on her period?
Haha I was just speaking about this guy using the back passage for entry
I’m just trying to be funny. I’m lucky if I’m even allowed in our marital bed at that time do the month
Must be really hard for you "
Absolutely horrific. If anyone reading this wants to send me boob pics to make up for the 1 week a month I have to be extra polite and only get blowjobs It would be greatly appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If a women is on...I'm always willing to go top half for her..u still have a body to kiss and nipples to suck.lol |
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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago
wirral |
"If a women is on...I'm always willing to go top half for her..u still have a body to kiss and nipples to suck.lol"
That's from a Shakespeare play isn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it...I wouldn't have a clue.lol o just said that coz that's what ide do.lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a women is on...I'm always willing to go top half for her..u still have a body to kiss and nipples to suck.lol
That's from a Shakespeare play isn't it?"
King Leer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a women is on...I'm always willing to go top half for her..u still have a body to kiss and nipples to suck.lol
That's from a Shakespeare play isn't it?
King Leer "
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over a year ago
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"Apologies for my post lately.some of u found them boring..some of u found them annoying...me..didn't even have a straight head on. I just thought.." well..this is a sex site and not social media..cocks and tits out and come and meet up for sex...hence the site name.! U get some nasty people and u get some nice people on hear..doesn't cost a penny to be polite. Heck..this should be called (fab social network) what happend to the good old sex clubs were u can just walk in..fuck and then leave. In my mind...if u wonna cut out the bullshit and just fuck..this shud be the kinda site for it..u wonna get to know a person..join a damn dating site. Sorry for the rant.
Even just for sex I wanna get to know the person ? X"
Me too..definitely not fuck & go |
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"Apologies for my post lately.some of u found them boring..some of u found them annoying...me..didn't even have a straight head on. I just thought.." well..this is a sex site and not social media..cocks and tits out and come and meet up for sex...hence the site name.! U get some nasty people and u get some nice people on hear..doesn't cost a penny to be polite. Heck..this should be called (fab social network) what happend to the good old sex clubs were u can just walk in..fuck and then leave. In my mind...if u wonna cut out the bullshit and just fuck..this shud be the kinda site for it..u wonna get to know a person..join a damn dating site. Sorry for the rant."
Are you annoyed because the women on here aren't fucking you after a simple 'fuck now' message? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This was 17 years ago .it's been knocked down now. It was a private back door club. Stil professionally run tho.
I think it was probably a brothel.. "
Some clubs and parties still employ prostitutes. |
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"I use to walk in..grab a drink..eye a bird up.. slight small talk...then walk in a private room and get it on. we both left happy. Cudnt if been more simple. I'm not a nasty person ..I'm just pointing out how times have changed so much..bring back the good old days."
Oh yes how times have changed, with women having freedoms and choice, and the balls to say no.
Or maybe they just grew up, or maybe you've simply not aged well and aren't as attractive as you were 17 years ago when all you had to do was eye a girl and she fell onto your cock in a private backdoor club that sounds suspiciously like those women were getting paid behind closed doors and you just didn't realise it coz a 100% strike rate in a club ain't normal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What did I just read...
Haven't laughed so much in a while.
This is satire right? |
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"What did I just read...
Haven't laughed so much in a while.
This is satire right?"
It's gotta be a wounder having the illusion shattered that actually you never were a sex god king pin who could get a free shag literally in the blink of an eye after all.
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"What did I just read...
Haven't laughed so much in a while.
This is satire right?"
Same here () just read from top to toe and I wasn’t disappointed. I don’t remember it being £1.50 a pint in 2005 |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
I want to find a walk in fuck and leave club.
Sounds like a hoot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The site is indeed based around sex, though it's aimed towards the swinging lifestyle and though hook ups may be a part, so is the social aspect.
Swinger's and those that understand the lifestyle, the community will always have a better chance than those that think this is simply a 'sex' site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use to walk in..grab a drink..eye a bird up.. slight small talk...then walk in a private room and get it on. we both left happy. Cudnt if been more simple. I'm not a nasty person ..I'm just pointing out how times have changed so much..bring back the good old days.
Oh yes how times have changed, with women having freedoms and choice, and the balls to say no.
Or maybe they just grew up, or maybe you've simply not aged well and aren't as attractive as you were 17 years ago when all you had to do was eye a girl and she fell onto your cock in a private backdoor club that sounds suspiciously like those women were getting paid behind closed doors and you just didn't realise it coz a 100% strike rate in a club ain't normal."
Many people don't realise that some of the women are being paid to entertain the men.
Unfortunately it can make some men very annoyed when some women turn them down, as they assume all should fuck them with a welcoming smile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chit chat, social ect is the kinda thing IDE expect in a bar or pub. Wudnt expect that in a sex club. It was more simple.."
You're aware this isn't a sex club though, right? It's a social media platform.
Go to an actual club, there are about 6 within 30 miles of you.
Pay entry fee
Buy drink
Chat to people
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What did I just read...
Haven't laughed so much in a while.
This is satire right?
Same here () just read from top to toe and I wasn’t disappointed. I don’t remember it being £1.50 a pint in 2005 "
I vaguely recall paying about £1.10 a pint when I first started going out (1994 ish) in a normal pub (I lived in the North East)
Nightclubs did a 50p night on certain nights too.
£1.50 a pint.. definitely mid 90s at the best.. from my recollection. |
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"Stop living in the past man! Those days are gone and they are never coming back. So adapt and get with it, or be sexless as you continue to whine and keep eating those rememberries of glory days, because nobody wants to have sex with a whiner. " This |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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End of the day..it was a club with normal people. They wasn't pros or paid behind closed doors or any other kinda bullshit that most of yall are speculating..on occasion there was people that I new..both men and women so..just seems that today people are more fussy. |
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over a year ago
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[Removed by poster at 27/02/22 10:50:57] |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"End of the day..it was a club with normal people. They wasn't pros or paid behind closed doors or any other kinda bullshit that most of yall are speculating..on occasion there was people that I new..both men and women so..just seems that today people are more fussy."
And we’ve every right to be fussy.
As is your right to not be.
Enjoy yourself your way, and let others enjoy themselves their way. |
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"Sorry your expectations haven't been met, OP. There seems to be a lot of that going around in one way or another I'm afraid.
Just one thing... these sex clubs where you used to walk in, fuck, walk out... were they particularly expensive? As I don't think they were swingers clubs."
Thinking maybe these clubs the op speaks of were called Brothel |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"End of the day..it was a club with normal people. They wasn't pros or paid behind closed doors or any other kinda bullshit that most of yall are speculating..on occasion there was people that I new..both men and women so..just seems that today people are more fussy."
On occasion there were people you knew. Same at the clubs and parties I've been to where there were also paid people.
Fussy..... aww |
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"That's the thing..back wen I went to sex clubs..it was just have a drink..catch the eye and fuck..no bullshit. That's just how it was."
And still IS. This is a SITE not a CLUB.
The context for sex is totally different.
People in clubs are far safer than those that meet strangers one on one.
Think about it. |
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"The club's that I went too had a bar the chat if people wanted..usually that was just the pick up bar.maybe I'm outta my league here but..I just figured 90% of people have profile pics with there tits and dicks out and so on...so..u get the picture..it's nothing personal.. just venting, my apologies."
Got to say I agree with you there. For some reason pictures have veered away from the alluring, erotic and sensual to vulgar , base and pornographic and many of them far from good ( spotty clunges etc ) Amuses me to see the righteous indignation of a gaping arsehole venting about expectations. Sometimes it's like putting a bowl of steak in front of a starving dog and expecting it to sit up and beg. |
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"Stop living in the past man! Those days are gone and they are never coming back. So adapt and get with it, or be sexless as you continue to whine and keep eating those rememberries of glory days, because nobody wants to have sex with a whiner. "
I'm claiming dibs on 'rememberries' ...... thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stop living in the past man! Those days are gone and they are never coming back. So adapt and get with it, or be sexless as you continue to whine and keep eating those rememberries of glory days, because nobody wants to have sex with a whiner.
I'm claiming dibs on 'rememberries' ...... thanks "
I remember those from South Park. |
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over a year ago
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"End of the day..it was a club with normal people. They wasn't pros or paid behind closed doors or any other kinda bullshit that most of yall are speculating..on occasion there was people that I new..both men and women so..just seems that today people are more fussy."
I know, the fucking audacity, being fussy about who I allow in my vagina |
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"End of the day..it was a club with normal people. They wasn't pros or paid behind closed doors or any other kinda bullshit that most of yall are speculating..on occasion there was people that I new..both men and women so..just seems that today people are more fussy.
I know, the fucking audacity, being fussy about who I allow in my vagina "
I'm more fussy about who I allow in my biscuit tin |
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"End of the day..it was a club with normal people. They wasn't pros or paid behind closed doors or any other kinda bullshit that most of yall are speculating..on occasion there was people that I new..both men and women so..just seems that today people are more fussy.
I know, the fucking audacity, being fussy about who I allow in my vagina
I'm more fussy about who I allow in my biscuit tin"
You can't just allow anybody to put their finger on your garibaldi Granny |
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over a year ago
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"End of the day..it was a club with normal people. They wasn't pros or paid behind closed doors or any other kinda bullshit that most of yall are speculating..on occasion there was people that I new..both men and women so..just seems that today people are more fussy.
I know, the fucking audacity, being fussy about who I allow in my vagina
I'm more fussy about who I allow in my biscuit tin"
I will let just anyone in ….. to my biscuit tin |
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"End of the day..it was a club with normal people. They wasn't pros or paid behind closed doors or any other kinda bullshit that most of yall are speculating..on occasion there was people that I new..both men and women so..just seems that today people are more fussy."
If it was just one club though and nobody else seems to have experienced similar, are you sure it was a reflection of all clubs at the time? |
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Sure, anyone who asks to meet me for sex I immediately say yes to all since being on Fab. I've gave up my career & see none of my family now as I obviously have to prioritise being available for sex immediately to everyone |
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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago
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Repeating yourself isn’t going to bring back the “good old days” op nor is it likely to win you any favours on here. Try living in the present and adapt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sure, anyone who asks to meet me for sex I immediately say yes to all since being on Fab. I've gave up my career & see none of my family now as I obviously have to prioritise being available for sex immediately to everyone "
Know your place. |
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"Sure, anyone who asks to meet me for sex I immediately say yes to all since being on Fab. I've gave up my career & see none of my family now as I obviously have to prioritise being available for sex immediately to everyone "
Fantastic. When can you fit me in, literally? |
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"Sure, anyone who asks to meet me for sex I immediately say yes to all since being on Fab. I've gave up my career & see none of my family now as I obviously have to prioritise being available for sex immediately to everyone
Fantastic. When can you fit me in, literally? "
Oh well you are on my hotlist Sir so I'll take this literally |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"I'm more fussy about who I allow in my biscuit tin
You can't just allow anybody to put their finger on your garibaldi Granny "
Confirmation Granny shaves her froof and calls it Gary |
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"Sure, anyone who asks to meet me for sex I immediately say yes to all since being on Fab. I've gave up my career & see none of my family now as I obviously have to prioritise being available for sex immediately to everyone
Fantastic. When can you fit me in, literally?
Oh well you are on my hotlist Sir so I'll take this literally "
Oh this pleases me. You can definitely take it literally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"End of the day..it was a club with normal people. They wasn't pros or paid behind closed doors or any other kinda bullshit that most of yall are speculating..on occasion there was people that I new..both men and women so..just seems that today people are more fussy.
I know, the fucking audacity, being fussy about who I allow in my vagina
I'm more fussy about who I allow in my biscuit tin
I will let just anyone in ….. to my biscuit tin "
Shameless hussy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"End of the day..it was a club with normal people. They wasn't pros or paid behind closed doors or any other kinda bullshit that most of yall are speculating..on occasion there was people that I new..both men and women so..just seems that today people are more fussy.
I know, the fucking audacity, being fussy about who I allow in my vagina
I'm more fussy about who I allow in my biscuit tin
I will let just anyone in ….. to my biscuit tin
Shameless hussy! " I know |
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"Sure, anyone who asks to meet me for sex I immediately say yes to all since being on Fab. I've gave up my career & see none of my family now as I obviously have to prioritise being available for sex immediately to everyone
Fantastic. When can you fit me in, literally?
Oh well you are on my hotlist Sir so I'll take this literally
Oh this pleases me. You can definitely take it literally "
Here for the taking Sir |
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Well thank you, I needed a good laugh!!! This post has been hilarious |
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"End of the day..it was a club with normal people. They wasn't pros or paid behind closed doors or any other kinda bullshit that most of yall are speculating..on occasion there was people that I new..both men and women so..just seems that today people are more fussy."
That's not right how dare people b fussy? I mean we should all b gratefull surely? Especially at my age? x |
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"I want to find a walk in fuck and leave club.
Sounds like a hoot! "
I think they're called "brothels" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In this day and age we should be greatfull.. we all might not be here soon if Putin carrys on..lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I can't be everyones cup of tea darlin.lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If ur interested LV then feel free to inbox me. |
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"In this day and age we should be greatfull.. we all might not be here soon if Putin carrys on..lol"
Grateful for what? |
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As a single man o/p it takes time and patient. Join in with forum/cam room chat and maybe get noticed that way. Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In this day and age we should be greatfull.. we all might not be here soon if Putin carrys on..lol"
We should be grateful, so we let anyone shag us? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh dear |
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"Back then 17 years I paid £30 entry fee.drinks were cheap and the sex was free.just ordinary people that wanted sex..it cudnt of been more simpler. That had lives,jobs even kids..the club's was just a step away from reality to enjoy."
We are now entering a fantasy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was going to make a back door joke but it has been done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Isnt sex a bit about lolling about in the afterglow. In, drink, wink, shag and leg it misses some of the fun. For me anyway. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Apologies for my post lately.some of u found them boring..some of u found them annoying...me..didn't even have a straight head on. I just thought.." well..this is a sex site and not social media..cocks and tits out and come and meet up for sex...hence the site name.! U get some nasty people and u get some nice people on hear..doesn't cost a penny to be polite. Heck..this should be called (fab social network) what happend to the good old sex clubs were u can just walk in..fuck and then leave. In my mind...if u wonna cut out the bullshit and just fuck..this shud be the kinda site for it..u wonna get to know a person..join a damn dating site. Sorry for the rant."
You could make your own site that works like that abs see if you can get all the whiny people to join and leave here ? |
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