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So my varifcation summary is rarely displayed as iv over 20 varifcations! And im always abit cautious of how it might look to the women on here iv been on here for around 3 years now and my varis have stacked up does this put any woman off ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So my varifcation summary is rarely displayed as iv over 20 varifcations! And im always abit cautious of how it might look to the women on here iv been on here for around 3 years now and my varis have stacked up does this put any woman off ? "
Sounds like you're in dire straits. |
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Isn't the answer to all these threads "some". It might put some women off, but not others.
But to my mind, OP, there could be many more off-putting elements on a profile than the number of someone's verifications. |
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over a year ago
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I think displaying verifications is good, as you get a insight as to what the person is like..
Though obviously this might not always work as no-one will display a bad one.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes your a slag 
I don't really pay too much attention to how many people have to be honest, they could be sexual or social. The only thing that puts me off is when people have just one. |
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I have more than 50 verifications in 5 years spread over this profile and the previous one but 40 of those were from 3 group socials and 3 from one to one socials with only 7 related to play meets so people can make up their own mind in regard to that.
Maybe it makes me look like a stud but maybe it makes me look like a timewaster. Either way it doesn't affect my engagement here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can never have to meny
For people who think like that need to open they mind
I make no exuse for mine
I am single I am a (“bad word”) and like sex so what
If someone wants it to them selfs they should put a ring on it otherwise I free to do as i please and if they don’t like that that’s there problem not mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive seen some ppl, both men and women say that a high veri count puts them off as they believe that person has shagged a lot. I mean everyone is entitled to have their preferences and such but that one just seems a little petty and judgemental. A lot of them could be soicals and meets at a club without anything sexual happening, especially as a lot of them might not be displayed on their profile
At the end of the day having quite a few veris is really a good thing for the most part, shows youre genuine and well liked by more than a few ppl so its more likely to attract others, a snowball effect in a way |
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"So my varifcation summary is rarely displayed as iv over 20 varifcations! And im always abit cautious of how it might look to the women on here iv been on here for around 3 years now and my varis have stacked up does this put any woman off ?
Sounds like you're in dire straits. "
How so? Is Mark Knopfler famous for his vast collection of fab veri’s too? |
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"So my varifcation summary is rarely displayed as iv over 20 varifcations! And im always abit cautious of how it might look to the women on here iv been on here for around 3 years now and my varis have stacked up does this put any woman off ? "
How do you feel about women displaying lots of verifications? |
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"So my varifcation summary is rarely displayed as iv over 20 varifcations! And im always abit cautious of how it might look to the women on here iv been on here for around 3 years now and my varis have stacked up does this put any woman off ?
Sounds like you're in dire straits. "
I'm not a love struck romeo though lol |
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Loads of sexual ones would put me off yeah but I’m not a swinger. I have loads too but they’re mostly social ones and I only show a few. If people just look at the number they could be put off I suppose. If people read them they’d see they weren’t sexual ones. |
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over a year ago
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Definitely a mixed bag I would say.
Most have a combination of both social and meet verifications, which naturally will accumulate the longer you are on the site.
When people leave fab, their verification goes with them, but the count will stay too.
I have a summary of 25, but don't have all those to display for reasons noted above.
I don't make a decision on whether to meet someone based on their numbers, but I do look at the quality of the veris |
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I like seeing peoples veri's.
I don't care if someone has lots. It means they put themselves out there especially if they have club/social meets.
Although, if it's cam only I don't pay any attention to them.
I like having mine displayed.  |
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I personally find too many off putting, especially when all the ins & outs are mentioned. All I need to know is they are genuine and turned up as arranged . Anything else should IMO remain private .
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Been on over 7yrs, had like one veri and struggled for like 4yrs, started going to clubs… now got over 80 after another 3yrs…. Not all from playing obvs, some from friends, some from socialising and some from physical interactions… To be 100% honest i don't think it makes me a stud, but, i don't really care if it puts anyone off, which i can acknowledge it might, tho it probably shouldn’t (if it does put anyone off, you aint my peeps, no loss, i just think of it as a filter with non compatibles removing themselves for me… bonus more time for me to dangerwank in the closet covered in goosefat whilst crying with a belt round my neck) hahaha |
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"Been on over 7yrs, had like one veri and struggled for like 4yrs, started going to clubs… now got over 80 after another 3yrs…. Not all from playing obvs, some from friends, some from socialising and some from physical interactions… To be 100% honest i don't think it makes me a stud, but, i don't really care if it puts anyone off, which i can acknowledge it might, tho it probably shouldn’t (if it does put anyone off, you aint my peeps, no loss, i just think of it as a filter with non compatibles removing themselves for me… bonus more time for me to dangerwank in the closet covered in goosefat whilst crying with a belt round my neck) hahaha"
That sounds fun  |
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I've over 50 verifications and only on here 2 years does that put fellas off considering I've only had fun with a selected few I could count on one hand? I wouldn't imagine it would put ppl off you as such but know your definitely 110% genuine I suppose xx |
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By *hloetTV/TS
over a year ago
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Agree with what most people of saying, it doesn't really mean you're sleeping with a lot of people. If someone has a lot of veris, most of them are going to be from socials. It tells me you're genuine. I don't really chat to anyone with a few veris. Don't see the point. |
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I’ve got 88 showing and no summary. For some that’s too much, without even looking at the detail.
If they did they would see they are social ones only. I don’t show any from sexual meets, as that is between them & I
Various things could put me off with others, veris are the last thing I look at |
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"So my varifcation summary is rarely displayed as iv over 20 varifcations! And im always abit cautious of how it might look to the women on here iv been on here for around 3 years now and my varis have stacked up does this put any woman off ? "
Are you saying you disguise the true nature of your sexual history in order to fool women who don't like masses of veris into meeting you? 
Surely, in the compatability stakes, it is better to tell the truth and meet someome with whom you are compatible. You can say the meets were over many years in your profile script which, of course, every woman reads studiously.  |
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"So my varifcation summary is rarely displayed as iv over 20 varifcations! And im always abit cautious of how it might look to the women on here iv been on here for around 3 years now and my varis have stacked up does this put any woman off ? "
Rookie numbers… need to bump those up a little |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me personally I would be put off by 100s of sexual verifications, I appreciate that it's a swinging site but I'm not looking for that  "
I would be put off if they literally having sex with anything and everything and do a load of gross stuff too. For me personally I am concerned with quality not the actual numbers. Seen it all on here though, been left shocked who has sex with who but that is just me |
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"any profile with over 20 verification will ring the alarm for me. I saw a girl with 300+ verification and its safe to say she slept around a lot."
Why would 20 verifications ring an alarm?? What if not all 300 of those verifications are play meets and only say 5 or 10 where?? Though surely it's just ppl at socials verifing that this person is genuine...if you had 300 verifications am sure ppl would think the same about you ... I mean that your a genuine party goer and love social nights out with fab ppl? |
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"I’ve got 88 showing and no summary. For some that’s too much, without even looking at the detail.
If they did they would see they are social ones only. I don’t show any from sexual meets, as that is between them & I
Various things could put me off with others, veris are the last thing I look at "
Boooo. We only care about the sexual ones  |
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I don't think there is such a thing as too many verifications.
It shows they actually turn up and are likely to be who they say they are.
I don't understand those who are put off by a lot of verifications. They're not necessarily sex meets and even if thet are, so what? Mant people in the vanilla world have multiple sexual partners, they simply don't advertise it online. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Can see both sides really. Lots of verifications possibly put some people off but equally for us we prefer people who have a decent list of quality verifications. No veris and it's unlikely we would meet them. Tried that before and it's usually a bust more often than not.
It's not just the long list of them itself, it's the quality of the people they meet or what those people actually wrote about them, the type of people they get along with and if that's compatible with us.
But equally depends what you use the site for, if you just meet people one to one and don't go in for clubs, parties etc. Can see how a lot of verifications would be intimidating for people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to meet people with as many as possible, it means they're experienced and reliable. In my experience many people don't leave one anyway, I had 27 or 28 I think on my last profile, but I met 120-150 people, so it's not a clear representation anyway. As others have said, they could be from socials, clubs, or other non sexual meets anyway Xx |
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"any profile with over 20 verification will ring the alarm for me. I saw a girl with 300+ verification and its safe to say she slept around a lot."
I don’t see what’s wrong with that? |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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We actively seek out guys with higher meets and we have a good look at the veri trail. We want to meet reliable, guys who 'get it', respectful and the professional/experienced type with couples, so alot of verifications is not a put off for us. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It won't appeal to everyone OP. And to be honest, that's handy isn't? Another way of checking your compatibility. We all have little things that suggest to us someone may or may not be a good fit for us, verifications are no different. |
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"Edit them if it bothers you.
Its not a diary, fab doesnt need to be updated with who you meet. "
?? You can't edit a varfication? U can only choose wich ones to display wich is exactly what iv done |
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"So my varifcation summary is rarely displayed as iv over 20 varifcations! And im always abit cautious of how it might look to the women on here iv been on here for around 3 years now and my varis have stacked up does this put any woman off ?
Are you saying you disguise the true nature of your sexual history in order to fool women who don't like masses of veris into meeting you?
Surely, in the compatability stakes, it is better to tell the truth and meet someome with whom you are compatible. You can say the meets were over many years in your profile script which, of course, every woman reads studiously. "
My dude you have totally over thought this im not trying to fool anyone! Varfications are personal why should everyone know people's sexual history! I was just asking if women judge a guy on that! That's all |
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"You can never have to meny
For people who think like that need to open they mind
I make no exuse for mine
I am single I am a (“bad word”) and like sex so what
If someone wants it to them selfs they should put a ring on it otherwise I free to do as i please and if they don’t like that that’s there problem not mine "
This^^^ I agree with Nat (thumb xx |
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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago
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"Edit them if it bothers you.
Its not a diary, fab doesnt need to be updated with who you meet.
?? You can't edit a varfication? U can only choose wich ones to display wich is exactly what iv done"
Yes decide which ones you show. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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It is your profile so run it how you see fit.
We once got told by a couple that they wouldn't meet anybody who had more than three verifications as that was too many. I asked them what they would do when they reached three or more verifications but they could quite grasp what I was getting at. |
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We have run and attended several social events. Many of our veri's come from those.
If people want to get a cob on their shoulder about the number of veris another account has, they're kinda barking up the wrong tree on this site in our opinion. The amount of veris on another's account dosnt faze us in the least. In fact they're a good indication of how legit they are in our eyes.
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"It is your profile so run it how you see fit.
We once got told by a couple that they wouldn't meet anybody who had more than three verifications as that was too many. I asked them what they would do when they reached three or more verifications but they could quite grasp what I was getting at."
I had that with a guy once. Apparently any woman with more than five wasn’t for him.
He (somehow) had three in his first three months on here and genuinely didn’t grasp my point when I asked him what he’d do after he hit five. |
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"It is your profile so run it how you see fit.
We once got told by a couple that they wouldn't meet anybody who had more than three verifications as that was too many. I asked them what they would do when they reached three or more verifications but they could quite grasp what I was getting at.
I had that with a guy once. Apparently any woman with more than five wasn’t for him.
He (somehow) had three in his first three months on here and genuinely didn’t grasp my point when I asked him what he’d do after he hit five. "
Probably one of those type of guys that thinks only men can sleep around, not women |
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You're 34 years old and I'm absolutely positive you've had sex with way more people than the verifications show.
It means nothing and if anybody bases their decision to have sex with anybody by numbers or the lack of verifications, more fool them.
Numbers mean nothing. |
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"It is your profile so run it how you see fit.
We once got told by a couple that they wouldn't meet anybody who had more than three verifications as that was too many. I asked them what they would do when they reached three or more verifications but they could quite grasp what I was getting at.
I had that with a guy once. Apparently any woman with more than five wasn’t for him.
He (somehow) had three in his first three months on here and genuinely didn’t grasp my point when I asked him what he’d do after he hit five. "
Haha brilliant |
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"So my varifcation summary is rarely displayed as iv over 20 varifcations! And im always abit cautious of how it might look to the women on here iv been on here for around 3 years now and my varis have stacked up does this put any woman off ? "
Not gonna lie....too many puts me off big time. |
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I've over 50
Been on 5 years so I show a mix of socials n meets. I hope that the people reading will digest that X
Include a two year break, it's not that bad X |
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"So my varifcation summary is rarely displayed as iv over 20 varifcations! And im always abit cautious of how it might look to the women on here iv been on here for around 3 years now and my varis have stacked up does this put any woman off ?
Not gonna lie....too many puts me off big time."
So how do you measure 'too many', versus the length of time someone is on the site? xx |
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For those that say lots of veris put them off, you do know that people have sex away from Fab don't you?
I could have one verification but shagged 300 blokes in 3 months or 5 verifications over 10 years.
Verifications mean nothing. |
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"So my varifcation summary is rarely displayed as iv over 20 varifcations! And im always abit cautious of how it might look to the women on here iv been on here for around 3 years now and my varis have stacked up does this put any woman off ? "
I’ve got a fair few but I’ve been here a long time. I don’t think the number matters. When I see someone with lots of veris I think ‘good, they like sex and people like sex with them’. |
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I think tho there’s a sort of limit of verifications, I’ve seen some who had 90 meeting verifications (meaning he might have met many more women and couples) and that kinda put me off
Someone had like 400+… |
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"So my varifcation summary is rarely displayed as iv over 20 varifcations! And im always abit cautious of how it might look to the women on here iv been on here for around 3 years now and my varis have stacked up does this put any woman off ? "
vErifications.
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"So my varifcation summary is rarely displayed as iv over 20 varifcations! And im always abit cautious of how it might look to the women on here iv been on here for around 3 years now and my varis have stacked up does this put any woman off ? vErifications."
Oh the grammar police are out again! I'm aware I spelt it wrong |
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"So my varifcation summary is rarely displayed as iv over 20 varifcations! And im always abit cautious of how it might look to the women on here iv been on here for around 3 years now and my varis have stacked up does this put any woman off ?
Are you saying you disguise the true nature of your sexual history in order to fool women who don't like masses of veris into meeting you?
Surely, in the compatability stakes, it is better to tell the truth and meet someome with whom you are compatible. You can say the meets were over many years in your profile script which, of course, every woman reads studiously.
My dude you have totally over thought this im not trying to fool anyone! Varfications are personal why should everyone know people's sexual history! I was just asking if women judge a guy on that! That's all "
That's why I don't like to see more than 4.
I like private people. Don't care if they have 100 or 1,000 veris. People have sex outside Fab. 0 veris doesn't mean they are a virgin. Veris prove nothing.
The people saying most of their veris are social ....   |
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"So my varifcation summary is rarely displayed as iv over 20 varifcations! And im always abit cautious of how it might look to the women on here iv been on here for around 3 years now and my varis have stacked up does this put any woman off ? "
ah ha your a right stud muffin aren't you |
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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago
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I purposely don’t get verified often as Iv been told more then once by men on here they don’t like it when a women has loads and I’m a private person. It isn’t anyone’s business who I meet etc
However it would put me off if someone has lots of sexual meets in a short space time and I don’t like the verifications that go into graphic detail, no one needs to know exactly what goes on between the sheets! |
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A blank profile isn't very attractive.
Too many verifications might suggest that someone is in quite a different league to me.
I find it a turn on to read the verification of someone I'm planning to meet so long as it's within my comfort zone.
Too many going in the wrong direction and I might be put off.
Online dating shouldn't provide too many surprises |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As some have said not all veris are from play
I have 29 of those 13 are just social meets only with 16 for play meets and because I've got regular meets the 16 play veris are only from 11 different ladies or couples
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