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By * F 2018 OP Couple
over a year ago
shropshire |
Sorry ranting really ,so I do apologise! Spoke to a guy all day yesterday and evening arranged to come over this morning ....no show not even a message ....rude !!! Time is precious
Oh well there you go , oh well get dressed and go out  |
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By *ingdangTV/TS
over a year ago
manchester |
Always take a pinch of salt for what people say on this site. Lots of them are just having a wank when they talk to you, and they quickly forget about it after they cum.
I learned at least talk to someone a number of times on different days before arrange anything, and don't say anything to help them wank. |
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I had been chatting to a couple for days, they cancelled the first meet and apologised, so we made arrangements for a new meet times, place etc down to fine details, the day before the meet they deleted their account |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always take a pinch of salt for what people say on this site. Lots of them are just having a wank when they talk to you, and they quickly forget about it after they cum.
I learned at least talk to someone a number of times on different days before arrange anything, and don't say anything to help them wank."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks lovelies xx I'd met him before 3 times actually but rude still the same....."
Could he have some life stuff going on?
We were ghosted by a bloke once. He reappeared a few days later, said he'd fallen off a roof and had been in hospital without his phone. 
Met him a couple of weeks later, it was true, he still had bruises.  |
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By *hloetTV/TS
over a year ago
Nottingham |
I don't really bother to have a conversation with anyone who I haven't met in person. With all the time wasters and catfish on the site it's not worth it.
I dunno why the site doesn't have a 2 step verification system. One to arrange a meet and one to confirm they actually showed up. It would go a long way to solving the problem. |
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Seems to be more common than most realise
Went to an 8 guy gangbang for a couple, I was the only one that turned up (worked well for me because I got her to myself)
Last meet was a couple and when I called and said I was parked on their street (at the time we agreed) they said they needed 30 mins
Rude, I thought. I’m on time. But when I get in it becomes clear, they’d had like 15 no shows in a row over a few weekends. They just stopped getting ready |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Always make my meets. Inexcusable to just not show up, and gives, especially us single men, a really bad name"
It doesn’t give men a bad name… I don’t depend on others, and I don’t determine anyone else’s fate!
Those who find a way to stand out will always stand out! Those people are having a blast!!!
Whenever I see a time waster thread I always ask myself “what processes did you put in place?” Did you ask for a photo, or a telephone number? Did you speak to them for long enough to get a feel for them? Did you get them to confirm on the day? Ect ect ect…
The problem is too many people let their loins take the lead rather than using their brains to look at their processes…
If the process isn’t working look at it and change it! If you have x amount of no shows, the common denominator is you! If something is broke… fix it! |
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"Thats part of fab,you do get shit like that."
--It is, it's just part of Fab.
For every future meet I kind of expect life to get in the way. Moods change and so do circumstances. A philosophical outlook that helps with frustration.
In is rude not to contact someone though for sure, I tend to assume conscience-related issues in that case! |
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By * F 2018 OP Couple
over a year ago
shropshire |
"Always make my meets. Inexcusable to just not show up, and gives, especially us single men, a really bad name
It doesn’t give men a bad name… I don’t depend on others, and I don’t determine anyone else’s fate!
Those who find a way to stand out will always stand out! Those people are having a blast!!!
Whenever I see a time waster thread I always ask myself “what processes did you put in place?” Did you ask for a photo, or a telephone number? Did you speak to them for long enough to get a feel for them? Did you get them to confirm on the day? Ect ect ect…
The problem is too many people let their loins take the lead rather than using their brains to look at their processes…
If the process isn’t working look at it and change it! If you have x amount of no shows, the common denominator is you! If something is broke… fix it! "
What??? This is your opinion. I had met him 3 times I knew what he looked like. telephone no, spoke to him before we went to sleep etc etc so you don't like time wasters threads...well tough I want a womanly rant and I apologised for doing so !! |
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By * F 2018 OP Couple
over a year ago
shropshire |
"Hate this! They have no idea how much time and effort it takes to make your whole body feel like a baby seal!! "
Yes exactly clean fresh and feeling like a baby seal as well as a fresh clean bed !!! |
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"Hate this! They have no idea how much time and effort it takes to make your whole body feel like a baby seal!!
Yes exactly clean fresh and feeling like a baby seal as well as a fresh clean bed !!!"
Even more annoying when it's someone you've already met and you trust them to show up.
That really is out of order |
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"Hate this! They have no idea how much time and effort it takes to make your whole body feel like a baby seal!!
Yes exactly clean fresh and feeling like a baby seal as well as a fresh clean bed !!!
Even more annoying when it's someone you've already met and you trust them to show up.
That really is out of order "
He didn't show up to meet you? What a wanker/lover (delete as appropriate) x |
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"Hate this! They have no idea how much time and effort it takes to make your whole body feel like a baby seal!!
Yes exactly clean fresh and feeling like a baby seal as well as a fresh clean bed !!!
Even more annoying when it's someone you've already met and you trust them to show up.
That really is out of order
He didn't show up to meet you? What a wanker/lover (delete as appropriate) x"
LOSER damn autocorrect! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been on here 2 years on and off and been let down on at least 3 occasions (no shows)I was even silly enough the one time to book a table in a rather nice country pub as they said they wanted to meet in a public place, fair enough,only to be left sitting there for an hour or so waiting for another no show, thank fuck I don't take it personally  |
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Personally it is why I very rarely meet anyone off fab nowadays. Find a lot of guys looking for the naughty chat but then won’t commit when you try & arrange a social meet. Or they want a daytime meet when their wife is at work or you meet them & they are nothing like their photo. I only meet at clubs now. Saves time wasting as you can assess whether the mutual attractiveness is there & then, have a social & then move to the naughty fun if you both so desire x |
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"I always ask for mutual confirmation an hour before, if I dont get confirmation I will take it as a no show.."
That’s what I do now. I give my number, the postcode and ask for confirmation an hour before where I’ll give the door number.
Last time I was in Coventry three guys, all well verified, made plans in the evening and then didn’t bother in the morning.
One was even cheeky enough to post a meet request the next day with a “no time wasters please” tag  |
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By *pidey68Man
over a year ago
St Helier |
Had a right pair of time wasters(couple) Saturday, gave me a right runaround. Hate that!!!
Ended up a good night out in the end though, didn't get sex but loads of dancing, a a whopping hangover the next day |
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