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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
"An old flame has contacted me and thinks she wants me back. She doesn't know I'm on here can I sacrifice fab for her "
It's an ex for a reason. Tell them about here so then if she reacts positively you can move forward but if not, fuck it off.
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"An old flame has contacted me and thinks she wants me back. She doesn't know I'm on here can I sacrifice fab for her "
. Did you part on good terms.Was there obstacles the first time that have now been removed.You also used the words she thinks she wants you back does she not know yet.I think you need to meet up for meal and a serious chat before doing anything else
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She's an ex for a reason but clearly you are tempted. You could sit down and talk to her. You can always hide your profile for a while until you know for sure. Just don't make any hasty decisions that you may regret. Good luck OP x |
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"An old flame has contacted me and thinks she wants me back. She doesn't know I'm on here can I sacrifice fab for her "
She "thinks" don't do anything unless she's sure.
Why sacrifice fab, ask her to join you |
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"An old flame has contacted me and thinks she wants me back. She doesn't know I'm on here can I sacrifice fab for her
She "thinks" don't do anything unless she's sure.
Why sacrifice fab, ask her to join you"
I'd love to but don't think she will. I'd love to find a lady I could be with and fab with |
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"What you mean is an old flame thought she could do better and now realised she can’t and is willing to accept you as 2nd best
Don’t be anyones 2nd choice "
You are right but not sure I can get any better |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"An old flame has contacted me and thinks she wants me back. She doesn't know I'm on here can I sacrifice fab for her "
Well you are more likely to get score with her than as a single bloke on here.
Seriously though I never go back. They are exes for a reason and I know by bitter experience that taking them back is no guarantee that the same problems that split you up won't change. |
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"An old flame has contacted me and thinks she wants me back. She doesn't know I'm on here can I sacrifice fab for her
Well you are more likely to get score with her than as a single bloke on here.
Seriously though I never go back. They are exes for a reason and I know by bitter experience that taking them back is no guarantee that the same problems that split you up won't change."
You are probably right. What to so now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry everyone I didn't listen and met her Saturday. She's still crap in bed but I really like her ffs "
Sounds like a great basis for a relationship there OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry everyone I didn't listen and met her Saturday. She's still crap in bed but I really like her ffs "
Crap sex is better than a lonely wank. Marry her. |
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"What you mean is an old flame thought she could do better and now realised she can’t and is willing to accept you as 2nd best
Don’t be anyones 2nd choice
You are right but not sure I can get any better "
Your gonna be gutted when the love of your life passes you by because your too busy being with someone you don’t actually want |
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"What you mean is an old flame thought she could do better and now realised she can’t and is willing to accept you as 2nd best
Don’t be anyones 2nd choice
You are right but not sure I can get any better
Your gonna be gutted when the love of your life passes you by because your too busy being with someone you don’t actually want "
So what are you saying she has to go |
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"What you mean is an old flame thought she could do better and now realised she can’t and is willing to accept you as 2nd best
Don’t be anyones 2nd choice
You are right but not sure I can get any better
Your gonna be gutted when the love of your life passes you by because your too busy being with someone you don’t actually want
So what are you saying she has to go "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She's your ex for a reason some things are best left that way, in my experience it's never the same going back. Look and see what you want out of the reconciliation and see if she can offer you that or work with it. Good luck OP |
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"She thinks she wants you back?. If she wanted you back then she would know and not think."
Bluebell - The voice of reason.  OP, Your ex should be clearer as to her intentions before you jump for her. |
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Looks like you joined Fab and started the lifestyle journey after your relationship ended.
From your bio you are looking a partner in crime? It’s time for honesty with your ex and explain your life has moved on and are in the lifestyle, if she wants you back then you explore the scene together. If she isn’t happy with it then it’s not worth going any further, remember why you split in the first place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What you mean is an old flame thought she could do better and now realised she can’t and is willing to accept you as 2nd best
Don’t be anyones 2nd choice
You are right but not sure I can get any better "
Everyone can do better than someone's second best!
There are so many on here that are actually looking for a relationship where swinging is a big part.
You've already eliminated many other guys on here as that's not what they are looking for, so your odds are even better.
I met my OH on here, lots of others have too.
Please don't sell yourself short (I hate that phrase but I can't think of any better way of saying it)
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"What you mean is an old flame thought she could do better and now realised she can’t and is willing to accept you as 2nd best
Don’t be anyones 2nd choice
You are right but not sure I can get any better
Everyone can do better than someone's second best!
There are so many on here that are actually looking for a relationship where swinging is a big part.
You've already eliminated many other guys on here as that's not what they are looking for, so your odds are even better.
I met my OH on here, lots of others have too.
Please don't sell yourself short (I hate that phrase but I can't think of any better way of saying it)
PNG x "
Thank you so much guys it means alot. She has to go then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What you mean is an old flame thought she could do better and now realised she can’t and is willing to accept you as 2nd best
Don’t be anyones 2nd choice
You are right but not sure I can get any better
Everyone can do better than someone's second best!
There are so many on here that are actually looking for a relationship where swinging is a big part.
You've already eliminated many other guys on here as that's not what they are looking for, so your odds are even better.
I met my OH on here, lots of others have too.
Please don't sell yourself short (I hate that phrase but I can't think of any better way of saying it)
PNG x
Thank you so much guys it means alot. She has to go then. "
YOU need to make that decision alone.
Go with what your gut tells you.
We can give great advice and our own experience which is why you posted about it, but at the end of the day, go with what you feel is the right choice for you.
Good luck OP |
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"What you mean is an old flame thought she could do better and now realised she can’t and is willing to accept you as 2nd best
Don’t be anyones 2nd choice
You are right but not sure I can get any better
Everyone can do better than someone's second best!
There are so many on here that are actually looking for a relationship where swinging is a big part.
You've already eliminated many other guys on here as that's not what they are looking for, so your odds are even better.
I met my OH on here, lots of others have too.
Please don't sell yourself short (I hate that phrase but I can't think of any better way of saying it)
PNG x
Thank you so much guys it means alot. She has to go then.
YOU need to make that decision alone.
Go with what your gut tells you.
We can give great advice and our own experience which is why you posted about it, but at the end of the day, go with what you feel is the right choice for you.
Good luck OP "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My bf and I split. I moved on and even met a lovely guy but my ex-bf came back and persuaded me to give us a try again. I regret the decision to go back. Only time can tell if your leopard changed her spots op |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been exactly where you are now . Split with an exi adored ( her choice) spent months getting over her only for her to show up again after she'd had a bad relationship we started again then out of the blue she was gone again to France as it turned out ! Exes should stay just that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And it's no sacrifice
Just a simple word
It's two hearts living
In two separate worlds
But it's no sacrifice
No sacrificeeeeeeee
It's no sacrifice at all
Decisions yours OP  |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"What you mean is an old flame thought she could do better and now realised she can’t and is willing to accept you as 2nd best
Don’t be anyones 2nd choice
You are right but not sure I can get any better
Everyone can do better than someone's second best!
There are so many on here that are actually looking for a relationship where swinging is a big part.
You've already eliminated many other guys on here as that's not what they are looking for, so your odds are even better.
I met my OH on here, lots of others have too.
Please don't sell yourself short (I hate that phrase but I can't think of any better way of saying it)
PNG x
Thank you so much guys it means alot. She has to go then.
YOU need to make that decision alone.
Go with what your gut tells you.
We can give great advice and our own experience which is why you posted about it, but at the end of the day, go with what you feel is the right choice for you.
Good luck OP "
This. Matters of the heart are complicated. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"So met her again last night slept with her but no sex plus I have a stiffness she didn't even offer me a massage she isn't obviously trying to get me back that bad"
Bin her off. Every lass knows the way to soothe his stiff neck is to sit on his face to realign his spine*
*I’m not medically trained so don’t try this without an ambulance on speed dial. |
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"So met her again last night slept with her but no sex plus I have a stiffness she didn't even offer me a massage she isn't obviously trying to get me back that bad
Bin her off. Every lass knows the way to soothe his stiff neck is to sit on his face to realign his spine*
*I’m not medically trained so don’t try this without an ambulance on speed dial."
Are you offering to help cure me |
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"Are you afraid to be alone, that it makes you keep going back to someone who you probably know isn’t the right one?
TrixieMe
Sort of and I do quite like her"
What do you want from this relationship? Is it long term or do you see it as something that will dissipate because you’re both not that into each other.
Work out what it is you want, not what she wants or anyone else and I think you’ll come to the right decision.
Don’t be with someone just because you’re afraid to be on your own, honestly it’s not worth it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Okay an update. She's gone for good. She aired me for over 8 hours after saying she wanted be back and regretting leaving me. Goodbye. Now time to enjoy my life again "
That's good news.   Hope you find someone decent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Okay an update. She's gone for good. She aired me for over 8 hours after saying she wanted be back and regretting leaving me. Goodbye. Now time to enjoy my life again "
aired you? Whats that mean
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So met her again last night slept with her but no sex plus I have a stiffness she didn't even offer me a massage she isn't obviously trying to get me back that bad"
Delete and block. Why keep going back  |
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