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Not looking for single guys

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

On a profile when this is in use stops a single guy sending a message.

I've got a single female profile who wants to meet for mff and mfmf meets with me , but I can't ask a lot of the couple profiles that only after, couple or f meets

Anyway round this ?

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

"On a profile when this is in use stops a single guy sending a message.

I've got a single female profile who wants to meet for mff and mfmf meets with me , but I can't ask a lot of the couple profiles that only after, couple or f meets

Anyway round this ? "

Nope no way around as it helps those whom are looking for find those who are looking for similar

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes set up a couples profile together job done

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By *xploring_FunWoman over a year ago

Coventry

"On a profile when this is in use stops a single guy sending a message.

I've got a single female profile who wants to meet for mff and mfmf meets with me , but I can't ask a lot of the couple profiles that only after, couple or f meets

Anyway round this ? "

Have her message them. Or set up a joint profile.

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By *unmatt888Man over a year ago

Duns

"On a profile when this is in use stops a single guy sending a message.

I've got a single female profile who wants to meet for mff and mfmf meets with me , but I can't ask a lot of the couple profiles that only after, couple or f meets

Anyway round this ? "

Yes, you would appear to be a couple if planning to meet together.

So make a couples profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As others have said.

There is no way I would meet a couple if they didn't have a couple's profile and sent me a message from that.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man over a year ago

Home

What's wrong with us single fellas

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's wrong with us single fellas "

Nothing but if I don't want messages from them, I use my filters as that's what they are there for.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's wrong with us single fellas "

Nothing at all, some of us are only meeting single guys!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If its going to be a regular partnership with your female then set up a couples profile, if not then just keep searching

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"On a profile when this is in use stops a single guy sending a message.

I've got a single female profile who wants to meet for mff and mfmf meets with me , but I can't ask a lot of the couple profiles that only after, couple or f meets

Anyway round this ? "

Who is the female?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People seem to forget that its a swingers site which traditionally is couples swapping with other couples.

If you want to message other couples that like us have blocked single men then form a couples profile. Assuming this lady exists and its what she wants then it won't be a problem!

We blocked single men because they outnumber couples by an unbelievable amount and most of them think a single sentence or a duck pic will get them between the ladies legs. Nothing is further from the truth and they have no idea what the swinging lifestyle is about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Nah we don't forget , pretty clear what it is , but it also opens the door for singles as well, she's now going to send the messages as single females not blocked as much .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds pretty sketchy.

If it’s her that wants to contact couples for ffm why didn’t she just do that and then mention you’d be tagging along?

Pretty obvious solution really and I expect most couple don’t block a single lady from messaging.

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By *aomilatteCouple over a year ago

Midlands

Get her to comment on this thread. You may get some interest then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

She won't go alone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe get her to go on the introductions section..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nah we don't forget , pretty clear what it is , but it also opens the door for singles as well, she's now going to send the messages as single females not blocked as much ."

Good for 'her'.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She won't go alone "

Have you met her in real life or is this couple meet idea just something you have spoken about on messages?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Git chatting and I said I'd love to meet a couple but with like a fuck buddy , she said that she's wanted similar so we spoke about it and I told her I'd put the idea out there and see if we got any interest, and we have btw, I was just saying that because single males get blocked a lot , I did get to ask as many people as now she probably will. Was asking if there was a solution to our problem and a few people have been kind enough to suggest things that I didn't even think of .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So if I got this right….you have a profile, you’ve been exchanging messages with a ‘woman’ that wishes to hook up with you as a couple to meet couples or other women?

Have you even met this ‘woman’?

It all sounds a little too good to be true. You may well find that your ‘woman’ is actually called Bernard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How did you know her name ?

Well yes that's what we spoke about, but If it doesn't go anywhere I guess it was .

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

If you have a couples, or she has a single woman's, profiles - others would be able to search and find you. And vice versa.

A lot of single men will pretend all kinds of things to get to women, who are single or in couples. Using the site's tools is how the right people find each other and prevent deluge from the majority of others who aren't compatible.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So if I got this right….you have a profile, you’ve been exchanging messages with a ‘woman’ that wishes to hook up with you as a couple to meet couples or other women?

Have you even met this ‘woman’?

It all sounds a little too good to be true. You may well find that your ‘woman’ is actually called Bernard."

Nah it's defo a woman. She has a female profile and wants a 3some with a man she's never met.

Hot. As. Fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People really need to do live interactive web cams with others, it is the only way you know they are definitely real other than people with solid verification trails

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

No couple will want to meet with you and a lady you haven’t met!

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Yes set up a couples profile together job done "

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nah we don't forget , pretty clear what it is , but it also opens the door for singles as well, she's now going to send the messages as single females not blocked as much ."

I still wouldn't meet a couple if they didn't have a couples profile even if the woman sent the message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If you were at a club and a guy was chatting you up and then use started chatting with an attractive couple who sat down beside use . Would that stop you having a mfmf meet because you both were single ?

I've actually had 3 or 4 couples on here message back saying yes btw.

So it's not out the question

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you were at a club and a guy was chatting you up and then use started chatting with an attractive couple who sat down beside use . Would that stop you having a mfmf meet because you both were single ?

I've actually had 3 or 4 couples on here message back saying yes btw.

So it's not out the question "

A club meet is completely different because I can see there are 2 people 1 male and one female. I can also Gauge whether I have a connection or interest in them much more easily. If you had 3 or 4 couples messaging you what's the need for the post?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've actually had 3 or 4 couples on here message back saying yes btw.

So it's not out the question "

They’ll be mighty surprised when you turn up with Bernard in tow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Because I was asking a question about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have met singles and have met couples but we're not particularly interested in meeting singles as a couple though it has happened with singles we have got to know from previous meets. This means we already know the two individuals, know how we react to them and have given them the opportunity to talk and decide if they want to be involved. The dynamic is very different with an actual couple. Obviously we are all different but many couples have the same preferences. Is it a bit one sided to say we will introduce singles but are not interested in singles as a couple? Yeah, it probably is but it's what works for us.

Re the site filters, no there is no way around them, that's why they're there. Believing that something about you makes you alone worthy of special treatment and that people's choice of filters shouldn't apply to you is a deeply unattractive trait. If you can't understand why a couple who doesn't want contact from a single man also won't want contact from a single man offering play with him and a random woman he hasn't met then I'd suggest swinging isn't for you.

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

I've actually had 3 or 4 couples on here message back saying yes btw.

So it's not out the question "

Of course you have

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've actually had 3 or 4 couples on here message back saying yes btw.

So it's not out the question

They’ll be mighty surprised when you turn up with Bernard in tow. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would never meet someone who claims to be a couple off a single male profile.

Your point about a club scenario is entirely different as you are both there in person.

The likelihood of that from a someone online claiming to be is very slim especially as you’ve not even met “her” am I right to believe?

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By *inger_SnapWoman over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

You've never met "her" lol

Is she verified in any way?

Tenner says it's a bloke using you for wank material.

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

"You've never met "her" lol

Is she verified in any way?

Tenner says it's a bloke using you for wank material."

The op isn’t even verified. Why isn’t this girl verifying him then rather than a status asking for someone to cam verify him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Waow I've not met her , only been talking and verify chat wasn't on the table.if she's not real I've clearly been blind to it . She seemed keen and was happy to try it out. Once she's back online I'll ask her to join the forum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP I would suggest you meet this lady and if you're both happy and agreeable, set up a couples profile before going any further.

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By *iss.ddWoman over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

I get red flags from this. Soz

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yip that's the plan

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Waow I've not met her , only been talking and verify chat wasn't on the table.if she's not real I've clearly been blind to it . She seemed keen and was happy to try it out. Once she's back online I'll ask her to join the forum "

If you use the Reply + quote button we know who you are replying to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If you use the Reply + quote button we know who you are replying to. "

Thanks for that great help

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

Think you need to meet and discuss first then open a couples profile before even thinking of meeting others.

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By *xploring_FunWoman over a year ago

Coventry

"No couple will want to meet with you and a lady you haven’t met! "

This.

Especially when you message people and completely fail to mention that you haven’t even met her…

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

Caught out me thinks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nah we don't forget , pretty clear what it is , but it also opens the door for singles as well, she's now going to send the messages as single females not blocked as much .

I still wouldn't meet a couple if they didn't have a couples profile even if the woman sent the message. "

This .

Plus the fact you have no pics on your profile . I would just delete a silhouette profile even if they claimed to be a ‘couple ‘

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Nah we don't forget , pretty clear what it is , but it also opens the door for singles as well, she's now going to send the messages as single females not blocked as much .

I still wouldn't meet a couple if they didn't have a couples profile even if the woman sent the message.

This .

Plus the fact you have no pics on your profile . I would just delete a silhouette profile even if they claimed to be a ‘couple ‘ "

Take them off while I'm not on , no reply from the profile so I guess use were right .

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

"Nah we don't forget , pretty clear what it is , but it also opens the door for singles as well, she's now going to send the messages as single females not blocked as much .

I still wouldn't meet a couple if they didn't have a couples profile even if the woman sent the message.

This .

Plus the fact you have no pics on your profile . I would just delete a silhouette profile even if they claimed to be a ‘couple ‘

Take them off while I'm not on , no reply from the profile so I guess use were right . "

rotfl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nah we don't forget , pretty clear what it is , but it also opens the door for singles as well, she's now going to send the messages as single females not blocked as much .

I still wouldn't meet a couple if they didn't have a couples profile even if the woman sent the message.

This .

Plus the fact you have no pics on your profile . I would just delete a silhouette profile even if they claimed to be a ‘couple ‘

Take them off while I'm not on , no reply from the profile so I guess use were right . "

Ach Bert, don't sweat it, we've all be duped to some degree on here before I'm sure. You'll be a bit more savvy next time. If it seems too good to be true, it probably is!

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