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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get very little so I’d prefer not to be woken for anything other than the apocalypse happening.
I do however, love lazy sleepy spooning that turns into a forking. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My sleep fetish is to be left asleep and not woken up unless the house is on fire.
Any other reason, unacceptable."
Another completely valid response haha, in fairness it’s not like all the time it’s normally just a one of, if it was all the time he would told to f right off  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
No I would be pretty pissed off if I woke up and someone was doing that. It annoyed me no end with my ex would wake me up trying to finger me I told him so many times how I would prefer to be woken and he still ignored it. So if that annoyed me someone actually entering me would not go down well at all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Non consensual sex, as you are unable to consent during sleep....technically sexual assault then! (The forum won't let me post the R word). "
That’s only assuming I haven’t given him full consent to do this considering it’s one of my kinks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Non consensual sex, as you are unable to consent during sleep....technically sexual assault then! (The forum won't let me post the R word). "
Give it a rest.
It's been mentioned by those being woken that it is encouraged.
If not spoken beforehand, fair enough but those that enjoy. That's a different story. |
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"Am I alone on loving waking up to my man already inside of me?
Anyone else with a sleep sex fetish haha "
It’s a sexy fantasy but it doesn’t totally work for us, although kitty enjoys trying to stay asleep as I give her oral! |
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"Non consensual sex, as you are unable to consent during sleep....technically sexual assault then! (The forum won't let me post the R word).
Give it a rest.
It's been mentioned by those being woken that it is encouraged.
If not spoken beforehand, fair enough but those that enjoy. That's a different story."
Exactly, between two people in an established relationship where it’s been discussed, you’re probably fine! |
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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago
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"Non consensual sex, as you are unable to consent during sleep....technically sexual assault then! (The forum won't let me post the R word).
Give it a rest.
It's been mentioned by those being woken that it is encouraged.
If not spoken beforehand, fair enough but those that enjoy. That's a different story.
Exactly, between two people in an established relationship where it’s been discussed, you’re probably fine! "
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In a relationship, with mutual trust and respect - it's possible. As the instigator would take no for an answer and likely this kink would've been discussed and agreed on beforehand.
It wouldn't be ok for some random to try their luck and/or ignore any objections. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I alone on loving waking up to my man already inside of me?
Anyone else with a sleep sex fetish haha "
Danish loves it, it's something we've spoken about a lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I also enjoy this OP and have had the conversation with Mr NBVN giving him my full consent. It had always been a fantasy of mine.
I usually wake up before he is actually inside me but I have experienced it with him when he's been having sex with me and then I woke up...I found it an instant turn on.
NBVN x |
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OP my ex absolutely adored this. I'd spoon her, lift her leg over my hip, and start to wank her gently.
She'd already be slightly wet from the night before. But what turned me on soooo much was the smell, that musky smell of previous sex.
I loved it. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love this and all my girlfriends enjoyed it. I had thought it was normal in a relationship until a thread here told me otherwise.
OP, this thread will be hijacked by those talking about consent issues soon, if they haven't already.
To me, the statement the OP has made with "MY MAN inside of me" CLEARLY states CONSENT already. She WANTS him inside of her. If we can PLEASE keep it on topic, that would make a lovely change.
I believe this 'kink' or fetish is Somnophilia. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Non consensual sex, as you are unable to consent during sleep....technically sexual assault then! (The forum won't let me post the R word). "
......and here we go. May I point out consent has clearly been stated in the OP with the words "loving waking up to my man already inside of me". |
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Yes. Its something I would have discussed with him as part of my sexual likes as all adults are supposed to do when they have clear communication with their sexual partners.
Most of the time I wake when his hands start caressing me when it's time to push back onto him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. Its something I would have discussed with him as part of my sexual likes as all adults are supposed to do when they have clear communication with their sexual partners.
Most of the time I wake when his hands start caressing me when it's time to push back onto him "
I found this is as far as I get most of the time because either my partners were very light sleepers or I'm terribly clumsy. 
I love the feeling when she pushes back on me whilst she's waking or when her hand reaches back to my hip and pulls me to her. |
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"Yes. Its something I would have discussed with him as part of my sexual likes as all adults are supposed to do when they have clear communication with their sexual partners.
Most of the time I wake when his hands start caressing me when it's time to push back onto him
I found this is as far as I get most of the time because either my partners were very light sleepers or I'm terribly clumsy.
I love the feeling when she pushes back on me whilst she's waking or when her hand reaches back to my hip and pulls me to her."
Yes.... and then you reach to caress her vag and nibble her shoulder as she arches her back towards you and rests her head over your shoulder |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My initial reaction would be to slap them.
Kinky.
You won't be saying that after I've slapped you across the face.
A test is in order."
To slap you? I won't say no to that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My initial reaction would be to slap them.
Kinky.
You won't be saying that after I've slapped you across the face.
A test is in order.
To slap you? I won't say no to that. "
Nor me, taking into account the reason why. |
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"How did I sleep through him sticking it in me. He would have to wake up early to do it as awake at 5 in the morning
And you not feeling it? How ineffective is his penis ?"
Can't be that good. Didn't even feel been stretched. That first feeling him entering me. I make a joke you can fuck me whilst I go to sleep  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP my ex absolutely adored this. I'd spoon her, lift her leg over my hip, and start to wank her gently.
She'd already be slightly wet from the night before. But what turned me on soooo much was the smell, that musky smell of previous sex.
I loved it. X"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An ex once asked me to do this and I felt really uncomfortable doing it but she seemed to enjoy it. I’d take sleepy sex every morning over how I get woke up these days… a 2 year old jumping my head |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I would be pretty pissed off if I woke up and someone was doing that. It annoyed me no end with my ex would wake me up trying to finger me I told him so many times how I would prefer to be woken and he still ignored it. So if that annoyed me someone actually entering me would not go down well at all. "
Really glad he's your ex.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My sleep fetish is to be left asleep and not woken up unless the house is on fire.
Any other reason, unacceptable."
This. 
Sleep is my favourite activity (as it is the one I get to enjoy the least!).
My Hubby knows not to wake me up for sex because I would year his fucking head off.
- Helena. x |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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Love the idea of this....waking up to a long term partner gently teasing my pussy and sliding a cock inside. When I was married my ex hubby tried it and I swore at him and he never tried again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Those of us who quote consent have maybe experienced something others haven’t.
Putting up with someone who ignores consent and tramples boundaries tends to make you a bit sensitive around things like this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Those of us who quote consent have maybe experienced something others haven’t.
Putting up with someone who ignores consent and tramples boundaries tends to make you a bit sensitive around things like this. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex wife, was very dangerous in the mornings.. so it was a no no, but when with my fb now I still wouldn't wake her with my cock although she says its ok it just doesn't feel right |
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My ex missus used to love it.I would come home after doing the night shift,snuggle up behind her.If I was having difficulty getting it in she would reach behind and guide it in.She would then push backwards to make it go deeper.Oh happy days. |
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Just for the record, if I'm asleep, that's the way I want to stay. I'll wake up when my body says it's time to wake. Only after I have woken up do I want to have sex. When I'm asleep, I crave sleep, not sex. Luke |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never complained when woken up with Mrs or lady friend playing with me/sucking - woke up being ridden once - little disconcerting initially but soon got over it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have a mixed crowd it seems "
Funny subject. Comes up quite regularly. 50/50 whether you'll get a thread full of people saying they love it or a ranting mob wanting to imprison the OP for sexual assault.
There appears to be a slight bias towards a better outcome with a female OP but only slight.
If you like it, your partner knows you like it and you both enjoy it, then crack on as far as I'm concerned. Not sure I could get a far as actually being inside her ladyship without waking her but she definitely enjoys being woken with that intent.
Sadly, people seem to believe that everyone should think the way they do and anyone who enjoys something different is a deranged pervert at best, a sexual predator at worst.
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"So what's the veiw on being woken up by spooning etc.. there's still an intimacy here and is the classed as assault?
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I don’t know how other people live their lives but I wouldn’t be waking up to someone i didn’t trust! In all my years there has never ever been a need to stop and ask/give/discuss sexual consent. As for spooning someone who you’ve spent the night with to even be considered under that umbrella is beyond me. |
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"We have a mixed crowd it seems
Funny subject. Comes up quite regularly. 50/50 whether you'll get a thread full of people saying they love it or a ranting mob wanting to imprison the OP for sexual assault.
There appears to be a slight bias towards a better outcome with a female OP but only slight.
If you like it, your partner knows you like it and you both enjoy it, then crack on as far as I'm concerned. Not sure I could get a far as actually being inside her ladyship without waking her but she definitely enjoys being woken with that intent.
Sadly, people seem to believe that everyone should think the way they do and anyone who enjoys something different is a deranged pervert at best, a sexual predator at worst.
Mr"
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Have done this and had done to me
Always enjoyed waking partner slowly teasing clit or nipples and have spooned so slide in. Also had lady woke me sucking me as soo as o opened eyes she rode me was sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have a mixed crowd it seems
Funny subject. Comes up quite regularly. 50/50 whether you'll get a thread full of people saying they love it or a ranting mob wanting to imprison the OP for sexual assault.
There appears to be a slight bias towards a better outcome with a female OP but only slight.
If you like it, your partner knows you like it and you both enjoy it, then crack on as far as I'm concerned. Not sure I could get a far as actually being inside her ladyship without waking her but she definitely enjoys being woken with that intent.
Sadly, people seem to believe that everyone should think the way they do and anyone who enjoys something different is a deranged pervert at best, a sexual predator at worst.
Mr"
This
Fwiw I love it |
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"Very grey area from a male perspective. Putting them at great risk if things potentially went sour. Authorities spring to mind.  "
I think it very much depends on the trust and understanding you have in your relationship. |
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"Am I alone on loving waking up to my man already inside of me?
Anyone else with a sleep sex fetish haha "
Didn't know this was a fetish? It's just something that feels natural to us and we both enjoy. |
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Nope. I would love it but unfortunately I'm not only a very light sleeper who wakes up as soon as they attempt any access between my legs but I also somehow have managed to find two partners who can sleep for England and its rare they're awake before me. One humps me in his sleep though so that's enjoyable |
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"I find consent too much of a turn on for this to work…."
I’d like to dial back my comment here. It’s still absolutely not for me, but I was maybe too quick to judge. What consenting couples do is entirely their look-out. |
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