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By *oon999 OP Man
over a year ago
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Single bloke looking to venture to a club for the first time. Im in Essex but can travel. I’m confident but it still feels a bit daunting choosing and going to a club and would feel odd going alone. That’s if I can go alone.
Any advice greatly recieved
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Single bloke looking to venture to a club for the first time. Im in Essex but can travel. I’m confident but it still feels a bit daunting choosing and going to a club and would feel odd going alone. That’s if I can go alone.
Any advice greatly recieved
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I go alone. Be confident, be yourself and converse with people |
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"There isn’t any problem going alown
But just think off it as a pub with extra rooms
Go with no expectation "
Yes, good point, forgot that. If you're expecting an instant lay, you're going for the wrong reasons |
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"Yeah I’m not expecting a scene from the calligula as soon as I walk through the door lol"
Good man. Be yourself. Yeah, your stomach will be in knots on visit 1, but you'll be put at your ease quickly. If it has a hot tub, use it, as it breaks down taboos really quickly. |
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By *oon999 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Yeah I’m not expecting a scene from the calligula as soon as I walk through the door lol
Good man. Be yourself. Yeah, your stomach will be in knots on visit 1, but you'll be put at your ease quickly. If it has a hot tub, use it, as it breaks down taboos really quickly."
Just a case of finding one and taking the plunge literally! He who dares Rodney lol |
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"I'd try a seven iron. It's quite forgiving and will give you a fair amount of lift and distance so you don't embarrass yourself. "
Sorry - wrong thread. |
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"Yeah I’m not expecting a scene from the calligula as soon as I walk through the door lol
Good man. Be yourself. Yeah, your stomach will be in knots on visit 1, but you'll be put at your ease quickly. If it has a hot tub, use it, as it breaks down taboos really quickly.
Just a case of finding one and taking the plunge literally! He who dares Rodney lol "
There appears to be a good choice in London. See if you can find a wing man or woman. |
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"May I recommend vanilla alternative, has a hot tub… I went recently for the first proper club visit I’ve had, the staff, fellow visitors and venue amazing - you will feel so so welcomed! "
I'm right about the hot tub? So liberating |
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"May I recommend vanilla alternative, has a hot tub… I went recently for the first proper club visit I’ve had, the staff, fellow visitors and venue amazing - you will feel so so welcomed!
I'm right about the hot tub? So liberating"
I didn’t go in but it certainly looked relaxing and boundary lowering! |
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My local club does an event specifically for newbies as well as some social events which are a good opportunity to get to know people and look around without all the other stuff going on that may overwhelm some at first. It might be worth seeing if any clubs near you do similar  |
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"There isn’t any problem going alown
But just think off it as a pub with extra rooms
Go with no expectation
Yes, good point, forgot that. If you're expecting an instant lay, you're going for the wrong reasons "
100% |
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"May I recommend vanilla alternative, has a hot tub… I went recently for the first proper club visit I’ve had, the staff, fellow visitors and venue amazing - you will feel so so welcomed!
I'm right about the hot tub? So liberating
I didn’t go in but it certainly looked relaxing and boundary lowering! "
Yeah, it is. At that point your inhibitions have gone |
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Pleasures in Kent on a Friday night is ok or Kestrels /AbFab near Heathrow.
Come the nice weather Eureka in Kent is nice for the outside grounds and pool.
If you’re confident enough to walk into a pub on your own and chat to strangers then you’ll be fine at a club.
Perhaps avoid congregating with other men for long because we (as a couple) would always avoid a group or couple of males together.
Good luck and go for it. |
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"Pleasures in Kent on a Friday night is ok or Kestrels /AbFab near Heathrow.
Come the nice weather Eureka in Kent is nice for the outside grounds and pool.
If you’re confident enough to walk into a pub on your own and chat to strangers then you’ll be fine at a club.
Perhaps avoid congregating with other men for long because we (as a couple) would always avoid a group or couple of males together.
Good luck and go for it. "
Yes, that's a good point. Don't 'hunt in a pack' and don't follow people around. |
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By *oon999 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Pleasures in Kent on a Friday night is ok or Kestrels /AbFab near Heathrow.
Come the nice weather Eureka in Kent is nice for the outside grounds and pool.
If you’re confident enough to walk into a pub on your own and chat to strangers then you’ll be fine at a club.
Perhaps avoid congregating with other men for long because we (as a couple) would always avoid a group or couple of males together.
Good luck and go for it. "
Thank you I like the idea of the outside grounds |
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