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By *ikeC81 OP Man
over a year ago
harrow |
Brother is having stag party in March. Original date was fine. Best man (not me) had to move it to an amended date - Amended date isn’t - even though I said I couldn’t do the amended day but said I would try- however I have made it work, as I am at england at Wembley (brother knows I am a top capper and do stuff with england fa). So going for Friday, coming back to London on Saturday, coming back on up north on Sunday to the Monday. Only 3 people doing all 4 days and I am doing 3 of them
Anyway best man (not me) hasn’t organised anything, no hotels, No trains,No events Then my brother had a go at me saying why I haven’t helped. So I helped and now I am getting accused of taking over.
My brothers fiancé has now called my mum saying that it’s unacceptable that I am missing stag and I am putting football above him. The football has been booked that weekend before my brothers stag, clearly that comment is coming from her family
I just feel like I am getting blamed for everything. I don’t want to upset people, as it’s my brothers wedding but I will not take the blame and rubbish. I am so tempted to say I am not going to take myself out of the equation but know that will upset everyone.
Ahhh so frustrating.
Why couldn’t the best man be more organised so this wouldn’t happen. Feels like brother has turned in to a bridezilla lol
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Obviously we only have your appraisal of the situation OP, but if that is correct then the Best man the groom and the bride sound like a bunch of twunts.
If it were me I would be making them aware of this, |
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