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Do you kiss at a social meet?
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By *pal OP Woman
over a year ago
The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk |
Following on from a thread about kissing and most saying kissing is essential,it's not always easy to do for several reasons and would be such a disappointment if you only find that out when alone together for the first time that his/her kisses are not what you were hoping for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is a must for me , its a massive turn on and i love having a womans tongue deep in my mouth . Never had an awkward moment on a meet all mine have been great kissers . Hope i donr come across a shit one . Surely everyone can kiss properly its 2022 lol |
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By *pal OP Woman
over a year ago
The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk |
"Kissing is a must for me , its a massive turn on and i love having a womans tongue deep in my mouth . Never had an awkward moment on a meet all mine have been great kissers . Hope i donr come across a shit one . Surely everyone can kiss properly its 2022 lol "
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By *pal OP Woman
over a year ago
The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk |
"Kissing is a must for me , its a massive turn on and i love having a womans tongue deep in my mouth . Never had an awkward moment on a meet all mine have been great kissers . Hope i donr come across a shit one . Surely everyone can kiss properly its 2022 lol "
so you have a full on kiss at a social meet?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. A few people I’ve met use it for a test on socials, good idea really, if you don't enjoy kissing them it’s not going any further "
Everytime ive had a meet we have kissed yes |
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By *pal OP Woman
over a year ago
The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk |
"Yes. A few people I’ve met use it for a test on socials, good idea really, if you don't enjoy kissing them it’s not going any further "
I usually do and mention it in conversation at a social.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes it’s a good way of telling whether they’re into you sexually! Go for a kiss and if they’re not into it you can always tell…either the slap in the face or the difference between passion and just a wee peck. |
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By *pal OP Woman
over a year ago
The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk |
"Depends. I wouldn’t full on snog someone outside Costa in the daytime no! Night time after a pub in the car park I have. "
Yes daytime socials have that downside.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Coffee socials, it’s often a hug and a peck. But evening drinks, there’s usually a snog involved (unless I don’t fancy him, but I usually kiss anyone if tipsy enough!). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes if I felt a connection to test the water for another meet. If the kissing isn't any good it's a no for another meet . If the social gets a friendzone it's a cheek kiss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it depends on the social really. Kiss on the cheek for sure. If I feel its going really well and the spark is there, then I'll go in for a try. But it's not a deal breaker if there's no kissing on a 1st social |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes one on the cheek, if the spark was there after a proper kiss maybe on the cards but thats one of them you play by ear  "
This! Totally depends, if there's a spark then a kiss is definitely on the cards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would entirely depend on the man and the situation. I have done in the past and would if it felt right.
If I do, it's a great predictor for future meetings. |
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"Following on from a thread about kissing and most saying kissing is essential,it's not always easy to do for several reasons and would be such a disappointment if you only find that out when alone together for the first time that his/her kisses are not what you were hoping for. "
For a first social meet, I will always greet with a kiss on the cheek. If the meet has gone well, and ‘that’ feeling is there, I will cheekily broach the subject of a proper kiss, and take it from there……  |
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"Kissing is a must for me , its a massive turn on and i love having a womans tongue deep in my mouth . Never had an awkward moment on a meet all mine have been great kissers . Hope i donr come across a shit one . Surely everyone can kiss properly its 2022 lol "
Apparently not... I kissed a guy the other week and he was like "oh wow, you use your tongue" I mean, I thought that was the norm!
If I'm considering a meet, I always try to get a kiss if we're somewhere private enough. If the kiss isn't any good, it won't go any further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends who I am meeting on the social.
If it's a male, and we have gone for a coffee, chat has gone well, there is enough chemistry to suggest both are interested, then I would go for a kiss, as that is usually the deal breaker for me on whether I would want to pursue a meet.
If it's a couple, no I don't initially. I like to have a few socials with a couple to get to know them both first |
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"Yes, I have....and a cheeky bum squeeze!
See that's a no from me, I've had guys do that when I've just give them a friendly peck on the cheek. I'd rather someone kept their hands to themselves."
Fair dos. But, we really comfortable at this point, or I wouldn't have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, I have....and a cheeky bum squeeze!
See that's a no from me, I've had guys do that when I've just give them a friendly peck on the cheek. I'd rather someone kept their hands to themselves.
Fair dos. But, we really comfortable at this point, or I wouldn't have."
Yeah, you strike me as a total gent to be fair  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeh peck on the cheek to say hello and as we leave. We like to chat to ladies a little before a social so we havd already got to know them a bit before meeting so it has always felt right  |
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"Yes, I have....and a cheeky bum squeeze!
See that's a no from me, I've had guys do that when I've just give them a friendly peck on the cheek. I'd rather someone kept their hands to themselves.
Fair dos. But, we really comfortable at this point, or I wouldn't have."
A social is usually the first time I've met someone, I don't want them getting all handsy, when I've been polite and friendly. |
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"Yes, I have....and a cheeky bum squeeze!
See that's a no from me, I've had guys do that when I've just give them a friendly peck on the cheek. I'd rather someone kept their hands to themselves.
Fair dos. But, we really comfortable at this point, or I wouldn't have.
Yeah, you strike me as a total gent to be fair "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, I have....and a cheeky bum squeeze!
See that's a no from me, I've had guys do that when I've just give them a friendly peck on the cheek. I'd rather someone kept their hands to themselves.
Fair dos. But, we really comfortable at this point, or I wouldn't have.
A social is usually the first time I've met someone, I don't want them getting all handsy, when I've been polite and friendly. "
That is absolutely fair enough too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me I usually let the girl make that move as I wouldn’t want to be too foreward, but then again she could be touching up my leg and I’d still do nothing as I’m a guy so I’m bad at taking hints lol. But usually leave it to the lady to kiss me so I’m not pushing any boundaries  |
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I think you just know if it's right. There's body language, and actual language to guide you.
Obviously, you're not gonna go full caveman, but either a nice lip or cheek kiss finishes it off nicely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always. If they are rubbish at kissing then i know they will be rubbish at other things. Can tell a lot through hoe someone kisses. I always let the guys make the move but i let my intentions be known  |
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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago
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I’d always kiss on a social of I liked him and Iv had sex in the car after a social when it’s gone well and I decided why not.
I have also done the full on kissing after a day time Costa social With someone from here. Although it was next to my car which wasn’t in full view of lots of people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldnt say no but probably if I had arranged a social it would be just that because I wasnt planning on having sex. I dont know, I used to arrange sex meets for sex which makes me sound terribly forward but I wanted to get straight down it. Virtual kissing would have been done by messages
I might try some tantalising socials though, stir my loins a bit and get a faraway look in our eyes until we can bear it no longer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never kiss on a social meet other than a peck on the cheek at the beginning and end.
There was one exception to this rule and I knew that it was the right thing to do as I didn’t want it to be just a casual thing right from the off. And yes it was TG |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Give a kiss on the cheek and a weird side hug thing when saying goodbye. Not bold enough to make the first move for anything more.
Need clarification afterwards that they don't think I'm a gremlin  |
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"Give a kiss on the cheek and a weird side hug thing when saying goodbye. Not bold enough to make the first move for anything more.
Need clarification afterwards that they don't think I'm a gremlin "
Happy to confirm, you're anything but a gremlin x |
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if there is attraction, yes.