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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I wonder if there are any wives or girlfriends on here who like their husbands or boyfriends in women's clothes etc., or even don't mind it and tolerate it? I imagine only a very small number? |
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All of my previous long term relationships have accepted my crossdressing, it’s just different levels of participation that’s all. Some of my exes didn’t want to see me dressed but happy for me to go out on my own. Or did get involved with fully or part dressing for social or sexual games.
I’ve also talked to other Tgirl partners who never had an issue with their partners dressing.
What I would always advise (as it’s worked for me) is not to hide it. Be open and honest as all of my previous partners would’ve had second thoughts about staying in a relationship if they’d caught me or I owned up to it after starting to live together or committed in some other way.
Yes one or two may decide it’s not for them, but hopefully these days it’ll not be seen as too much of an issue.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the replies. I agree entirely that one should be open about it if going into any sort of permanent or long term relationship. The deception will cause far more hurt and disgust than what you are doing, and it is the deceit that is most likely to damage or destroy the relationship. It simply isn't fair on the other person to do it behind their back, and personally I couldn't stand the stress of doing so which would outweigh the enjoyment and benefits.
I think that it is still one of the few public 'taboos' for a lot of people but I think that is changing gradually too and a surprising number of people, particularly women, are actually more accepting of it than one might think, although clearly not all will be, but it is surely better to find that out at the start rather than painfully and destructively when they discover what you have been hiding and probably lying about? |
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