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Did this site make you Bi?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is my first ever forum post on hope only one. Did this site encourage male on male fun and bi interaction with you as its a sex site or do you think it was always there? Also why did males seem to admit bi during covid? And be more open..is it just me? Some males may not want to comment but try  and everyone inc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I always like same sex so I always knew but lots of bi cpl only fun goes on and many people try same sex on here? I know males do for the first time. I wonder if theres the option too easily on here to sway or try for sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dabbled growing up out of curiosity . Turns out I'm just a horny bast. I don't mind the odd play but but it was more a journey if discovery to sound cliche."
Did that discovery mainly happen on here? You horny *ast |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Think then post ha,I dont even need to think. I wanna know if people was persuaded coerced,manipulated,drawn,"sucked into" on here to try ha I wonder if guys only met a guy because of this site or a tv/ts/cd? Its all available like a menu but life aint like that unless you search? Be honest str8 men dont target guy but guys target straight men (some) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello OP, welcome to the Forum and congratulations on your first post.
In terms of my sexuality, it hasn’t ‘encouraged’ me to be any way other than how I have always been. I am straight, not even remotely curious nor have any desire to touch another man’s body, especially his penis except in a severe medical emergency.
What it has done is afforded me a better understanding of women’s sexuality where I once had a very limited experience of it and found I am not strange, alone or despicable for my preferences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t think websites have anything to do with you being attracted to guys/girls if you’re not already.
Might add a dimension to your sex life but it won’t ‘make you’ bi or gay or straight.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nothing 'makes' anyone, it's just undiscovered. All this site does is provide the opportunity to experiment with our sexuality, a path to discovery."
Maybe I should of phrased it as did this site open opportunities they may of never explored in life? or atleast fast tracked it i say these things because I met same sex who never explored that b4 and I feel this site makes it well easy or many options? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Been off and on here for years, never been tempted to be anything but straight. "
I have a question did you ever try or want to be with a cpl before you joined here? I never really thought about a 3some till joined here or even thought joining a cpl was a thing lol..but Wow |
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By *andy2Man
over a year ago
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No I have been bisexual for probably 30 years but possibility of meeting bi couples only presented themselves on this site
Before that meetings were either males or females
Thank goodness for fabswingers |
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I've always been curious, certainly a little dabbling/experimenting as a teen, then not a lot else as I stared getting into various straight relationships that, that element was suppressed.
It wasn't until I meet the wife and we started on our path of swinging and joining here that I opened up to her about experimenting and being curious. Things started to change and I have been able to expand my experiences. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They're only options if you're looking for options which I'm not so I've no idea if it's easy or not.
I do know it's very easy to not be bi or curious. "
Just throwing somwthing out there if a guy said you can have 1 night with my wife anything goes between you both but can I blow you 1st (m of cpl) would you say hell no!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was getting bicurious for women before Fab, my straight male friend told me about the site. It is what made me join on original profile about 4 or 5 years ago.
Although I have not acted on it yet and it comes and goes in cycles, I will say that Fab is a great place for bicurious people whichever way they are swaying from.
It is probably the only place I am likely to proceed comfortably with it in time, likely through MMF which I was close to doing few times originally on here. Although not in a current bicurious phase as such upon rejoining, it is slowly igniting again just being on here  |
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"I was getting bicurious for women before Fab, my straight male friend told me about the site. It is what made me join on original profile about 4 or 5 years ago.
Although I have not acted on it yet and it comes and goes in cycles, I will say that Fab is a great place for bicurious people whichever way they are swaying from.
It is probably the only place I am likely to proceed comfortably with it in time, likely through MMF which I was close to doing few times originally on here. Although not in a current bicurious phase as such upon rejoining, it is slowly igniting again just being on here "
Is it now |
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"They're only options if you're looking for options which I'm not so I've no idea if it's easy or not.
I do know it's very easy to not be bi or curious.
Just throwing somwthing out there if a guy said you can have 1 night with my wife anything goes between you both but can I blow you 1st (m of cpl) would you say hell no!?"
Yes of course I would. That a pretty stupid question to ask a straight man. |
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"They're only options if you're looking for options which I'm not so I've no idea if it's easy or not.
I do know it's very easy to not be bi or curious.
Just throwing somwthing out there if a guy said you can have 1 night with my wife anything goes between you both but can I blow you 1st (m of cpl) would you say hell no!?
Yes of course I would. That a pretty stupid question to ask a straight man. "
Would it even be possible for it to physically happen if you’re totally straight do you think? |
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"They're only options if you're looking for options which I'm not so I've no idea if it's easy or not.
I do know it's very easy to not be bi or curious.
Just throwing somwthing out there if a guy said you can have 1 night with my wife anything goes between you both but can I blow you 1st (m of cpl) would you say hell no!?
Yes of course I would. That a pretty stupid question to ask a straight man. "
Would you ask a straight woman if she would have sex with another woman in the promise of an anything goes night with the hubby? |
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"They're only options if you're looking for options which I'm not so I've no idea if it's easy or not.
I do know it's very easy to not be bi or curious.
Just throwing somwthing out there if a guy said you can have 1 night with my wife anything goes between you both but can I blow you 1st (m of cpl) would you say hell no!?
Yes of course I would. That a pretty stupid question to ask a straight man.
Would it even be possible for it to physically happen if you’re totally straight do you think?"
Highly unlikely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely not, I’ve seen enough cock on here that confirms I definitely wouldn’t put one in my mouth.
The mr
Me too!!  "
Strangely I feel like in cock over dose with all the pics on here myself |
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No but I feel like the more time you spend on here, meets you have, the less inhibited you become & you may naturally find yourself wanting to push your boundaries which can lead to bi exploration |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always thought I might be a little bit but being here has made me realise Im not. I can get girly crushes easy enough but wouldnt take it much further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it is more difficult for a usually gay or straight male who is bicurious, as they have the pressure of trying to get it up if they are brave enough to step over the line. I guess easier if a lady in same situation with curiosity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't believe any website can make anyone bi, however it may have allowed people to explore their sexuality in a way they hadn't considered and I wouldn't say that was a bad thing.
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"I don't believe any website can make anyone bi, however it may have allowed people to explore their sexuality in a way they hadn't considered and I wouldn't say that was a bad thing.
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Yeah definitely this. I’d always thought about meeting women but never ever thought I ever would! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't believe any website can make anyone bi, however it may have allowed people to explore their sexuality in a way they hadn't considered and I wouldn't say that was a bad thing.
Yeah definitely this. I’d always thought about meeting women but never ever thought I ever would!"
I think what fab can do is open our minds to possibilities that we thought we would never consider. It's definitely made me more sexually confident and liberated. |
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"I don't believe any website can make anyone bi, however it may have allowed people to explore their sexuality in a way they hadn't considered and I wouldn't say that was a bad thing.
Yeah definitely this. I’d always thought about meeting women but never ever thought I ever would!
I think what fab can do is open our minds to possibilities that we thought we would never consider. It's definitely made me more sexually confident and liberated. "
Yes same with me. Lots of things I’ve tried that I probably wouldn’t have done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't believe any website can make anyone bi, however it may have allowed people to explore their sexuality in a way they hadn't considered and I wouldn't say that was a bad thing.
Yeah definitely this. I’d always thought about meeting women but never ever thought I ever would!
I think what fab can do is open our minds to possibilities that we thought we would never consider. It's definitely made me more sexually confident and liberated.
Yes same with me. Lots of things I’ve tried that I probably wouldn’t have done. "
Lots of things hey, we are listening |
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"I don't believe any website can make anyone bi, however it may have allowed people to explore their sexuality in a way they hadn't considered and I wouldn't say that was a bad thing.
Yeah definitely this. I’d always thought about meeting women but never ever thought I ever would!
I think what fab can do is open our minds to possibilities that we thought we would never consider. It's definitely made me more sexually confident and liberated.
Yes same with me. Lots of things I’ve tried that I probably wouldn’t have done.
Lots of things hey, we are listening"
Haha. Nooooo I don’t spill. There is one thing I haven’t done  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't believe any website can make anyone bi, however it may have allowed people to explore their sexuality in a way they hadn't considered and I wouldn't say that was a bad thing.
Yeah definitely this. I’d always thought about meeting women but never ever thought I ever would!
I think what fab can do is open our minds to possibilities that we thought we would never consider. It's definitely made me more sexually confident and liberated.
Yes same with me. Lots of things I’ve tried that I probably wouldn’t have done. "
Absolutely and I discovered I was actually very sub, This site did not make me sub however it gave me an opportunity to explore that side of my sexuality and I think the same could be said about being bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't believe any website can make anyone bi, however it may have allowed people to explore their sexuality in a way they hadn't considered and I wouldn't say that was a bad thing.
Yeah definitely this. I’d always thought about meeting women but never ever thought I ever would!
I think what fab can do is open our minds to possibilities that we thought we would never consider. It's definitely made me more sexually confident and liberated.
Yes same with me. Lots of things I’ve tried that I probably wouldn’t have done.
Lots of things hey, we are listening
Haha. Nooooo I don’t spill. There is one thing I haven’t done "
FFFFFF? |
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"I don't believe any website can make anyone bi, however it may have allowed people to explore their sexuality in a way they hadn't considered and I wouldn't say that was a bad thing.
Yeah definitely this. I’d always thought about meeting women but never ever thought I ever would!
I think what fab can do is open our minds to possibilities that we thought we would never consider. It's definitely made me more sexually confident and liberated.
Yes same with me. Lots of things I’ve tried that I probably wouldn’t have done.
Lots of things hey, we are listening
Haha. Nooooo I don’t spill. There is one thing I haven’t done
FFFFFF? "
And that! Only FFF. |
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"I don't believe any website can make anyone bi, however it may have allowed people to explore their sexuality in a way they hadn't considered and I wouldn't say that was a bad thing.
Yeah definitely this. I’d always thought about meeting women but never ever thought I ever would!
I think what fab can do is open our minds to possibilities that we thought we would never consider. It's definitely made me more sexually confident and liberated.
Yes same with me. Lots of things I’ve tried that I probably wouldn’t have done.
Absolutely and I discovered I was actually very sub, This site did not make me sub however it gave me an opportunity to explore that side of my sexuality and I think the same could be said about being bi. "
 . I don’t think I’ll ever discover that haha. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"More interested in why you hop this is your only post, is this the only topic that has any interest for you?"
Hiya, its because im aware if you post comments and put anything personal init you cant delete lol and I was a tad tipsy last night but I really am interested in everyone experiences and thought. I enjoyed just reading back comments |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I found i liked bi fun in my early 20s, I love the bi mmf scenario, especially if the lady is watching us and I'm sharing him with her, or their sharing me, it's the only way to play  "
When you say it like that, thats the type of mmf I want to try!..bi friendlyI say but all sharing eachother is a very sexy thought to me. Love everyones comments and appreciate the insights |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing 'makes' anyone, it's just undiscovered. All this site does is provide the opportunity to experiment with our sexuality, a path to discovery."
This really…. and as well as opportunity it provides a much less judgemental forum for people to experiment… missJ |
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"I think it is more difficult for a usually gay or straight male who is bicurious, as they have the pressure of trying to get it up if they are brave enough to step over the line. I guess easier if a lady in same situation with curiosity. "
My husband has said this, he enjoys sucking a cock & is open to more bi play but when he tries to take things further his body just won't react in the way it does with a women, he's managed to fuck a guy a few times if I'm present and involved in the play but if he's on a solo meet he's only managed it once |
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