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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So when sending an opening message i am sure i am not alone in sometimes going blank, now we all know the Hey, your cute, lets fuck dont tend to work, so the question is what in a meesage grabs your attention the most? |
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Something that shows you've actually bothered to read my profile and please don't send a picture of your dick, for a lot of women that's an instant delete.
I also tend to look at the profile of the sender before I read the message so if you have a crap profile I probably won't read it anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Something that shows you've actually bothered to read my profile and please don't send a picture of your dick, for a lot of women that's an instant delete.
I also tend to look at the profile of the sender before I read the message so if you have a crap profile I probably won't read it anyway. "
This for me too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really like "nice tits xx". Don't forget the xx - it shows you're genuine. Make sure to have no punctuation and follow it up three hours later with "wanna spunk all over them xxx". Winning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm awful at first messages... I read the profile and look for something to start with but end up titling it with whatever they have asked to prove you read it and finish with a really crappy "hi how are you"... and I wonder why I have gotten nowhere on here in the months I've been here |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
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I can only imagine the messages that women and couples get. I've had a few that are just "wanna cum n wanker ova ma wife" or send messages with photos of the 'wife' attached etc. Something tells me these aren't from couples.
I very seldom send a first message but when I do I check my spelling, use punctuation marks, the correct form of the word (there, their, they're) and I'm never rude or forward.
And, don't get me started on, i, use/yous or to, too & two.
Right I'm off to lie down in a darkened room before work.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are going blank don’t message? It should be natural. Every message is or should be individual/personal telling someone what to say to grab attention isn’t so… |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you are going blank don’t message? It should be natural. Every message is or should be individual/personal telling someone what to say to grab attention isn’t so…"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm awful at first messages... I read the profile and look for something to start with but end up titling it with whatever they have asked to prove you read it and finish with a really crappy "hi how are you"... and I wonder why I have gotten nowhere on here in the months I've been here"
Have you tried social events?
Your leg crossed pic looks really friendly.  |
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