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What brings you to fabswingers and why the reason you remain?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It be nice to hear your stories?
Mine I am interested in pushing boundaries sexual wise! The second part, I find it interesting and always nice to chat to others! |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Why- I’m an exhibitionist who enjoys posting photos/photography, this is a platform that allows me to showcase that whilst exploring the kinks I enjoy with likeminded people
What keeps me here- the connections I have made with some fabulous people, the banter of the forums and well..perving material 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I came because I overheard a conversation about it.
I stay because I want to broaden my mind and see how people who engage in this lifestyle do so. I know it isn't necessarily representative but it is enough for me. I don't engage in social media otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sex. The end "
I'm mostly the same. I love casual sex! I also like talking to, and meeting new people. Plus I have some kinks my husband doesn't share. So I play on here  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The curiosity drew me in, then the incredible people I’ve met over the years has been amazing.
Had many a fun day/night and some incredible socials in the club bars 
Definitely will be sticking around longer now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jonied…..because my wife and I have different and mutually exclusive interests now; she has her scene and I have this one.
Stay….because the forums are entertaining, I’ve had some great DM chats, the perv material is excellent and, the only negative, I’ve still not managed the sex part. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Joined because I’ve a high sex drive, interested in pushing boundaries and a severe lack of sex at home.
No idea why I stay really, I get as much sex from here as I do at home!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Found myself single at 40 after a very long boring vanilla sex life, was fed up of going on dates only to find guys were after one thing only, so thought if you can't beat em join em |
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Initially curiosity, then two aspects...learning, yes learning as half of the stuff I read on here did not know even exist and then... the banter in the forums which mostly is great except the few times that has been innapropriate in my opinion but have learned to get passed all that. I put a thread out yesterday 'My education' which was about this very thing and as I felt it at the time |
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"Joined out of curiosity
Stayed because I liked it
Leaving because I've done what I wanted to do x
Leaving??????? 
I have a new path to follow x
OK, when? don't forget to say goodbye. Xx"
Ofcourse I won't forget x |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
Why did I join:
To have sex,
To meet other people that like to have sex,
To make friends with people that like to have sex.
Why do I stay:
Because by being on Fab I manage to achieve all of the above. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Came for the sex and the like-minded fun. Since I came back (for the tenth time), sex hasn’t figured, but I love the forums and also I’m a nosey bastard |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
The guy I was seeing wanted me to meet young guys for sex and then either let him watch or tell him all about it afterwards. I found a guy on POF and he told me about Fab. I signed up and was intrigued by it so when we split up, I stayed on and a guy I used to meet told me about the forums. I met some truly lovely people and I’ve had some amazing experiences and that’s why I stay. |
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By *lowingMan
over a year ago
Warrington |
I was going to clubs and was asked a few times whether I was on Fab so I had a look and joined. Why do I stay? Most of the friends I have met through Fab I chat to offline as they have become really good friends. I guess I stay as there is a chance of meeting more really good friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined through a recommendation from a friend about 12 years ago. Stayed a good long while. Left a few times over the years but always seem to find myself back here for more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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first time was over 10 years ago after going to a swingers club
now.. life changes, wantibg to relive 10 years ago and the forum.. where else would people post about medievil history and bareback creampies!!  |
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Curiosity brought me here.
Meeting new, like-minded people, having a website that gives you a reasonable opportunity to do that, pushing my boundaries instead of being a wallflower, keeping in touch with people I have met and having the occasional perv keeps me here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was recommended it from somebody on another site, ironically they turned out to be fake hahaha although this place drives me crazy at times I’ve already spoken with some amazing people and I mean only spoken with and that’s enough for me we will see what develops naturally, I know some will slate for for this because admittedly it’s obviously a swingers site but I’m actually here for friendship before anything else |
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We joined because we were on another swinging site but there weren't many people on there, and very few were local.
Staying put for now because we use it to meet people for sex. Plus I enjoy the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hoping to find a fwb. Someone I can have a laugh with, someone I have things on common with, as well as good sex.
But I'm still here because of pure boredom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A guy i was seeing created a couples account for us and introduced me to fab - we split up shortly after and i decided to make a single profile in the hope of meeting someone experienced in BDSM
I loved taking photos in the early days and learnt to accept /appreciate my body and i also loved seeing the variety of other people's bodies and appreciating their kinks
There isn't much keeping me here in honesty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Came out of a relationship where sex didn't happen, I lost my confidence and was curious about a few things.
I stay as like the openness of all subjects and feel quite at home with it.. And for swinging as a couple.
PW |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can be a bit of a exhibitionist whenever I feel like it, talk rubbish to strangers as much or as little as I'm in the mood for and easily find sexual encounters with zero commitment. For the most part, Fab works for me and when it gets boring I just take a wee break. |
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"I can be a bit of a exhibitionist whenever I feel like it, talk rubbish to strangers as much or as little as I'm in the mood for and easily find sexual encounters with zero commitment. For the most part, Fab works for me and when it gets boring I just take a wee break. "
We love your exhibits. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To chat with strangers - and then they’re not strangers anymore - sometimes talk sensibly - sometimes talk shite lol - but not to take things too seriously - have a laugh - not fall out with people and enjoy the forums.
All good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can be a bit of a exhibitionist whenever I feel like it, talk rubbish to strangers as much or as little as I'm in the mood for and easily find sexual encounters with zero commitment. For the most part, Fab works for me and when it gets boring I just take a wee break.
We love your exhibits. "
Right back at you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We went to the club for the first time in November, we were on a double bed together and another couple asked if they could squeeze in and use the space next to us (it was in an archway). It was so incredibly erotic! Nothing happened between us but just being in the same space turned me on so much. Now I keep thinking about what if something had happened and we had taken it further with them. That is what lead us to being on the site! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is my 3rd time on here . No luck on finding anyone for over a year so thought I'd give it one more try. I'm glad I did as I have found a male fwb who visits regular since November. So I'm glad I returned.
Now I need to find a female fwb ( coz I'm greedy lol ) and ill be a very happy woman . Added bonus alot of woman on here are very hot so I like to perve xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I came to swing, when I was in a couple on here many moons ago.
I've stayed because I actually have made some good pals, have had some great sex and much prefer this to the apps. Oh and I also like to post pictures on the odd occasion! And now I've discovered the forums I will probably never leave. |
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I arrived with my husband after we decided to explore our growing love of kink and bdsm and we had a good few years as Peachfuzz!
Amicably separated now, he chose a life away from here and I'm here because it feels like the right place for me  |
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I want to push my boundaries. I want to meet fun, like minded people who I connect with and experience things I've not done before.
Still here as I still have those bucket list wishes I want to tick off ... |
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By *ornyguyMan
over a year ago
Hillsborough, NI |
joined to perv as I have limited to no sex life (been easily over a year now). so living vicariously though other people's horny antics, and I prefer connecting with real people, if they let me, and enjoying everyone's pics and vids; does more for me than professional porn. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
I arrived because my ex started me a profile without my knowledge or consent (in a revenge porn style act), I found out and (convoluted story later) made it work for me.
I stay because of the forum. And because of the forum I've got the best people in my life in my life.
So actually it turned out ok. |
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The initial reason I joined is now way off why I stay ...
I joined around 102 years ago as a naive newbie thinking it was all a big con but obviously I know it isn't..
It was only when I started using the forum that I really started to appreciate this place and my life has literally changed for the better 1000000000% .
A fair few slate the site but I've embraced the lifestyle and love it now and on the whole I find you lot way more trustworthy and open than most Muggles xx
In short , I joined for sex , I stay for socialising and friendship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My reasons are simple.
1. I like sex
2. I want to bring more excitement to our marriage and the bedroom and so I’m here for ideas and to see what happens from there.
3. I want Jayne to enjoy herself sexually and feel that she can be free to explore when she wants without boundaries (which she can)
4. I like a good perv
5. Some of you are funny and fuck and I enjoy the banter. Some of you are just rude and up your own arses but thats life.
Enjoy and thanks for all being fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Felt accepted with no judgment on my need for sex and lots of it. A place I feel safe to open up my mind to others and share my deepest darkest desires. A place I can find likeminded people to meet and enjoy being myself with.
It’s built my confidence both personally and sexually and tbh, I’ve made some amazing friends both socially and sexually and although I sometimes have to take a break from it (not often ) I am always drawn back to fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like meeting people, socially and sexually
I'm child free at weekends when most single Dad's have theirs
I can't commit to a partner as I only have weekends to give them and I still like to have a life of my own
Better sex in swinging, I've found X Love a good threesome and can have a date night with males or couple's which can end up in a raging session x
Waiting to tick off mfff so anyone wanna help with that please contact me X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Created an account having discussed our separate previous experiences. Viking played in a previous relationship nearly 20 years ago on SDC - that site seems to have taken a dive and this one more traffic.
I Viking spend time talking shite on forums as I prefer it to watching crap on telly
We've made good on our first experience together and forged a commitment to try many more listed experiences.
We are staying to make those list items happen - patience being the most valuable virtue here |
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My FWB introduced me to Fab because he thought I needed more than vanilla and he was right! It’s been an incredibly exciting journey. I’ve met some down right sexy hotties over the years and continue to do so
I must admit I’ve outgrown fab and moved on elsewhere but I do still drop in and out to keep in touch with those I met here |
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I joined because I needed a something outside of the life that I was living.
I don't think I found it here, I don't think I've found it anywhere yet.
Why am I still here? I sometimes ask that question myself yet I keep coming back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Basically for sex… wanted to become a bit more adventurous and had things I wanted to try.
Then met Mr Red unexpectedly, now we’re here for social and sexy times with other ladies and couples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At first I just wanted some fun with out a relationship.
Now I stay because I enjoy a wide variety of fun. After all you don't go to the same restaurant and all the same food every week so why have the same sex every week. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I probably joined out of curiosity more than anything... to see if there was anyone nearby.
I was nicely surprised to find a brilliant bunch of open minded people, and I stayed for the conversation. |
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