FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Life begings at 40
Life begings at 40
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Id like to share, iam not 40 yet but could never understand the meaning of life begings at 40, i was always worried about getting older lol until one day i stopped And it all just hit me...... How you mature,how you can say exsactly what you want now where yrs ago you wudnt have dare,the yrs you wasted in dead sex relationship because you thought you loved someone, i joined this site 6 months ago And wow iam so glad i did i cant wait to be 40 lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
On what’s my first single Valentines Day since 2008 this is what I needed to hear! Seriously though, this is so right.
I’m 40 in August and this version of me is more self confident, intelligent and probably more physically attractive.
Thank you. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"On what’s my first single Valentines Day since 2008 this is what I needed to hear! Seriously though, this is so right.
I’m 40 in August and this version of me is more self confident, intelligent and probably more physically attractive.
Thank you."
  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I don’t know about beginning at 40 for me, but I’ve certainly had some of my best times since I hit that age. I’m getting better looking as I age too.  "
good glad to hear it x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
40s we’re by far my best decade, not just here but financial freedom, maturity, knowing what I really want , confidence , kids become more like friends than dependencies, you take much less shit from annoying people generally . But then it’s all over and you’re old  Enjoy your 40’s  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I can't say that 40's were any less dynamic, rewarding, and fulfilling than my 20's, 30's or now in my 50's. It's all just a game, it's simply how you play it that makes the difference. "
some good advice x
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Think I was mid 30's when I came to the realisation that no one actually gives a fuck what you look like or do in real life. Just be you! "
Thank you x
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Id like to share, iam not 40 yet but could never understand the meaning of life begings at 40, i was always worried about getting older lol until one day i stopped And it all just hit me...... How you mature,how you can say exsactly what you want now where yrs ago you wudnt have dare,the yrs you wasted in dead sex relationship because you thought you loved someone, i joined this site 6 months ago And wow iam so glad i did i cant wait to be 40 lol "
often by 40, people jids are grown up or enhough that they dont need full time supervision,
often our careers are well established.
in your 40 you are more settled in your skin, less angsty, more cofident, know what you want from life, have explored sexually and know what you like.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"40s we’re by far my best decade, not just here but financial freedom, maturity, knowing what I really want , confidence , kids become more like friends than dependencies, you take much less shit from annoying people generally . But then it’s all over and you’re old Enjoy your 40’s "
luv it lol x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
This really hits. I’ll be 40 in a couple of months and only now am I starting to work out who I am. What I want. What I need. Life experience and bad times have taught me a lot. It takes time to get to know you I’m finding |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"This really hits. I’ll be 40 in a couple of months and only now am I starting to work out who I am. What I want. What I need. Life experience and bad times have taught me a lot. It takes time to get to know you I’m finding "
you are right x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"My advice to any man hitting 40 would be to make it an absolute priority to procure yourselves a lifelong loving female partner, the girls can pull at any age."
Not so. At 65 ones pulling power is considerably reduced |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"My life began at 50. Fab has helped me find myself again as I got lost for so many years."
This happened to me though the last couple of years has been difficult and am hoping 57/58 became the years I start living again..
X storm x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Id like to share, iam not 40 yet but could never understand the meaning of life begings at 40, i was always worried about getting older lol until one day i stopped And it all just hit me...... How you mature,how you can say exsactly what you want now where yrs ago you wudnt have dare,the yrs you wasted in dead sex relationship because you thought you loved someone, i joined this site 6 months ago And wow iam so glad i did i cant wait to be 40 lol "
 really happy to read this, especially today of all days!!... I think there's so many possibilities and opportunities, it's definitely a wonderful time - let the fun last as long as possible.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"My life began at 50. Fab has helped me find myself again as I got lost for so many years.
This happened to me though the last couple of years has been difficult and am hoping 57/58 became the years I start living again.. I like ur thinking look good aswel x
X storm x "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Id like to share, iam not 40 yet but could never understand the meaning of life begings at 40, i was always worried about getting older lol until one day i stopped And it all just hit me...... How you mature,how you can say exsactly what you want now where yrs ago you wudnt have dare,the yrs you wasted in dead sex relationship because you thought you loved someone, i joined this site 6 months ago And wow iam so glad i did i cant wait to be 40 lol "
I never understand why people don't want to get older. To me, it just means I've survived another year... which is a GOOD thing.
Cal |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Id like to share, iam not 40 yet but could never understand the meaning of life begings at 40, i was always worried about getting older lol until one day i stopped And it all just hit me...... How you mature,how you can say exsactly what you want now where yrs ago you wudnt have dare,the yrs you wasted in dead sex relationship because you thought you loved someone, i joined this site 6 months ago And wow iam so glad i did i cant wait to be 40 lol
really happy to read this, especially today of all days!!... I think there's so many possibilities and opportunities, it's definitely a wonderful time - let the fun last as long as possible. Thanks babe, was nice night out the other night, cant wait to do it again x "
Definitely, we should plan something again soon - no waiting for 40 lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I have to say that each decade has got better, so my 40s have been the best so far, despite Covid.
Hoping my 50s will be better again.
I think it's a combination of being increasingly comfortable in your skin and children being more independent. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I have to say that each decade has got better, so my 40s have been the best so far, despite Covid.
Hoping my 50s will be better again.
I think it's a combination of being increasingly comfortable in your skin and children being more independent. "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Definitely don’t believe in this sentiment - life begins when you start living it the way you want too, when you stop listening to society’s ideals of how you should look, behave etc and you basically just give less fucks!
I’m glad you are enjoying yourself OP and it’s great to see a positive thread  xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
We’re closing in on 40 and whilst we definitely don’t feel that old, (it isn’t old!) I’ve definitely felt like pressure to conform and be what society thinks I should be. Turning 30 made me realise that my life should be my own and I should be who I am without worrying about what others think. I definitely feel more comfortable and confident in my own skin now at 36 than I did at 20!
C x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
