Past month two of my neighbours have passed away, one in her 60's then today a lad in his early 30's, different households, both decided they didn't want to carry on, spoke every day to both, listened to what they had to say, never offered a solution just listened, understood they were both struggling in different ways. I just wish they had knocked on my door and screamed. Sorry guys for posting this just wanted to share n say ffs if you, any of you want to scream message me. I will hold my hand out to anyone x
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over a year ago
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Likewise, amyone who feels the need to offload to a total stranger, dont evwr think ypu are alone.
Just reach out
And that goes to you Op, it must be tough.
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"Hope your ok OP, must be hard. Here if you want to chat. X
Thank you, I'm ok, I know it's a shite post of this sort of forum but wanted to say I'm here if anyone feels low etc"
Hope you are ok. Talk to your neighbours.  |
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"Hope your ok OP, must be hard. Here if you want to chat. X
Thank you, I'm ok, I know it's a shite post of this sort of forum but wanted to say I'm here if anyone feels low etc
Hope you are ok. Talk to your neighbours. "
Indeed, talk to your neighbours. You all knew them and there may be some comfort in sharing that grief and dare I say it, perhaps a sense of guilt.
It isn't a "shite post" and I'm glad you reached out with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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How devastating for you... Just keep in mind how much of a lovely friend you were to them both and what that would of meant to them. You couldn't of done more for them
Just take care of yourself OP xx |
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By *r GLTMan
over a year ago
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Good morning OP there is nothing wrong with off loading on strangers i have done it on several occassions. Hope all is well i've been running for over 50 years which for me is very theraputic (have i spelt that right)keep your chin up keep positive. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
That's so sad OP. You sound really kind, don't beat yourself up about what's happened. I think when people have decided to take their lives there is very little anyone can do to change their minds.
It's ok, sometimes better to seek help from strangers  |
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