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What draws you into someone's profile
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Let's go the opposite now. We've had what puts you off someone's profile. What draws you in? Open to everyone.
It will be an accumulation of everything as to whether I like them or not. But their profile picture is the first thing I see so a good picture will mean I'll have a peak at the profile and other photos   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree, for me it's the profile pic and a lovely bio explaining who they are and what they are seeking. Something nice and gentle to draw a person in and makes them feel warm and welcoming. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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The way they interact/post with others on the forum.
If there's a hint of playful wit, a slight self deprecating streak, a suggestion of intelligence... I'm looking at their profile. 
Or if a friend/associate mentions them to me because I'm curious.
But what actually draws me in and makes me consider interacting with them outside of the fora? Their bio. The veris.
Photos rarely do it for me. Joy of the demi life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Normally a decent and unusual profile pic - such as your new one! Then it's the biog, and thirdly the pics, though I can still like the pics even if the biog is shite!! A decent mix of pics is always appreciated and the biog not being too pretentious and entitled. I don't like seeing professional mentioned as I think that's just plain wrong - what does it matter when your cock is in someone if they flip burgers or defend scum bags for a living??? |
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Depends which type of profile it is .
If it’s a couple I like to see photo of both sexies, if it’s a man’s I don’t just want to see a dick pic as that’s an instant turn off , I do love to read peoples profile as it give you an insight into what they are wanting out of the lifestyle.
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I don't search profiles so the only time I'll look at a profile is when they make a forum comment and I don't recognise them or if they message me.
As far as what draws me in, I have a check list when looking at any profile.
First the age and if that is outside my filters I click out of the profile without reading the bio or looking at pics.
Then I read the full bio and if that appeals I'll look at their pics. If it doesn't I don't bother with the pics.
If the pics are consistent with the bio and just as appealing that will determine how I respond to their message if one exists. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i just start messaging at the start of my local updates and keep going until i'm asleep or stsrting at the beginning.
thought that was the point of the game?
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
An interesting bio that tells me about the person and what they are looking for.
Nice well thought out pics and consistency with both bio and pics.
None of the Sydney university rubbish.
Also if they are on the forums how they interact with others and is it the same as how they come across in their bio.
In messages if they can be hold a conversation and not just chat about sex all the time. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"Gapping fannys is always a win!
Is your preference for it to be empty? Containing fruit/veg/dildos? Pulled open with fingers?
Asking for a friend  "
The kind where even the echos have echos have echos! |
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"Gapping fannys is always a win!
Is your preference for it to be empty? Containing fruit/veg/dildos? Pulled open with fingers?
Asking for a friend
The kind where even the echos have echos have echos!"
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The profile pic initially grabs us then it’ll be how they’ve presented themselves in their profile and whether we’d be compatible.
Then we’d look at further pics.
It’s very exciting when you find a profile that resonates…
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
Usually I will see someone in the Forums. (Sometimes, but rarely in chat rooms).
When I look at their Profile it's a mixture of how they've written what they've written and the content of their gallery.
Of course I'm always more interested if people are close in location and looking for things similar to me.
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Good pictures, not all being explicit but teasing always gets a good response from me.
Self deprecating humour.
Mutual likes and dislikes.
Their profile text matches mine for what we are both looking for in a meet.
Basically if they’ve put in an effort
Also it really doesn’t matter if their spelling or punctuation isn’t perfect, just as long as they’re perfect for me |
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First off a profile pic rather than a sillohette
Then I check out the photos (when I'm looking for guys I actually enjoy a cock pic or two)
Then I look at the bio & interests, if they align with my own rather than one line it will fill in later kinda bio, then they'll have got my attention |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Usually a forum comment or a few forum comments. Sometimes a profile picture.
Someone wanting boobs for his birthday usually does the trick  mine in March "
It's mine in just over a week |
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By *iggingMan
over a year ago
Oldham |
"Usually a forum comment or a few forum comments. Sometimes a profile picture.
Someone wanting boobs for his birthday usually does the trick mine in March
It's mine in just over a week "
and what would you like? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A humorous, yet informative profile text that gives me an indication to whether or not we’d be compatible bed mates. A selection of well taken photo’s is always preferable so I can gauge initial attraction. |
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"A humorous, yet informative profile text that gives me an indication to whether or not we’d be compatible bed mates. A selection of well taken photo’s is always preferable so I can gauge initial attraction. "
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Usually a forum comment or a few forum comments. Sometimes a profile picture.
Someone wanting boobs for his birthday usually does the trick mine in March
It's mine in just over a week and what would you like?"
I'll be getting it..... |
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"Usually a forum comment or a few forum comments. Sometimes a profile picture.
Someone wanting boobs for his birthday usually does the trick mine in March
It's mine in just over a week "
It was mine this week and not a boob or fanny to be seen |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Usually a forum comment or a few forum comments. Sometimes a profile picture.
Someone wanting boobs for his birthday usually does the trick mine in March
It's mine in just over a week
It was mine this week and not a boob or fanny to be seen "
Did you ask? |
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"Usually a forum comment or a few forum comments. Sometimes a profile picture.
Someone wanting boobs for his birthday usually does the trick mine in March
It's mine in just over a week
It was mine this week and not a boob or fanny to be seen
Did you ask? "
Do they not just appear automatically? Damn I read the small print wrong  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Usually a forum comment or a few forum comments. Sometimes a profile picture.
Someone wanting boobs for his birthday usually does the trick mine in March
It's mine in just over a week
It was mine this week and not a boob or fanny to be seen
Did you ask?
Do they not just appear automatically? Damn I read the small print wrong "
Just pretend it's your birthday again in a couple of days and ask then! |
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"If they have a photo of them self sitting on a big squishy cake or pouring a gallon of custard over their naked body.
What?
It’s a thing.
I’m allowed a thing.
Aren’t I ? "
No kink shaming here ….weirdo |
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"If they have a photo of them self sitting on a big squishy cake or pouring a gallon of custard over their naked body.
What?
It’s a thing.
I’m allowed a thing.
Aren’t I ?
No kink shaming here ….weirdo "
That’s Weirdo in Chief if you don’t mind |
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"If they have a photo of them self sitting on a big squishy cake or pouring a gallon of custard over their naked body.
What?
It’s a thing.
I’m allowed a thing.
Aren’t I ?
No kink shaming here ….weirdo
That’s Weirdo in Chief if you don’t mind "
Sorry Chief Weirdo |
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