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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
This is something which I have always done snd girls always seem to like
It’s always puzzled me, what is the girls perspective on it
Can we look deeper is there a sexual/ emotional trip
It’s certainly sexual in early part of a relationship and emotional later
From a woman’s perspective? |
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I don't see it as sexual at all. I do see it as affirmation of a bond I have with that person. It feels nice, it's a bit like when a man guides you with a hand on your back or waist, a bit protective, reassuring. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi
This is something which I have always done snd girls always seem to like
It’s always puzzled me, what is the girls perspective on it
Can we look deeper is there a sexual/ emotional trip
It’s certainly sexual in early part of a relationship and emotional later
From a woman’s perspective?"
I wish M would hold my hand, but he says he feels like a dick. I like holding hands though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sexual in the slightest. It's an act of being there for somebody without any words needed.
I hold my mums hand, I hold my sons hand, I hold my daughters hand. |
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I prefer to link arms...mainly because I'm clumsy and WILL trip over fresh air at some point, and it makes it easier for him to stop me from falling flat on my face if he has some form of contact with me 
I don't buy into any of this leadership/control stuff...I'm tactile and like to have physical contact just because I like physical contact. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"I prefer to link arms...mainly because I'm clumsy and WILL trip over fresh air at some point, and it makes it easier for him to stop me from falling flat on my face if he has some form of contact with me
I don't buy into any of this leadership/control stuff...I'm tactile and like to have physical contact just because I like physical contact. "
What Lily said (shocker)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy holding hands when I am with someone I like a lot. I mean, why wouldn't you?
I am a very touchy feely tactile person anyway, and hand holding, arms around waists, and any reason to connect via a touch is always enjoyable to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't especially want to hold hands with guys i meet but i love holding hands/linking arns with hubby.
On a disasterous social i had several years ago the guy was insisting we held hands, i told him no but he kept grabbing my hand, it was akward and awful.
The social got even worse too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm very tactile so I like it (not with random strangers obviously) and it's not necessarily sexual. It can be affectionate and grounding.
Sexual is when he's laced his fingers in mine to pin my hands to the mattress  |
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