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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What kind of messages do women like? do you speak about yourself, comment on their profile
Or go straight in with the sex side of meeting
Help out a struggling bloke please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reading their profile is the best tip. If they've posted pictures you can ask about the etc.
Don't blindly go straight into messaging, before you hit send take a second to think about how you would react if you received the message you were sending. |
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Start the message as if you are approaching the person in a club so to speak. You wouldn’t walk up to a female that caught your eye tell her the sight of her tits gave you a hard on, while grabbing her wrist and saying let’s be having you.
Engage with the person as normal even Chuck a complement and something about yourself
I find these a good starter to perk my interest  |
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The only one message that’s universally accepted and successful is a FAF message!
Other than that,just be yourself,read profiles,and see if there’s something there you can relate to.not that I’m a pro OP,just giving my tuppence worth. Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What kind of messages do women like? do you speak about yourself, comment on their profile
Or go straight in with the sex side of meeting
Help out a struggling bloke please "
If you're contacting a female from Glasgow offer them some chips, or even a kebab. |
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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Start the message as if you are approaching the person in a club so to speak. You wouldn’t walk up to a female that caught your eye tell her the sight of her tits gave you a hard on, while grabbing her wrist and saying let’s be having you.
Engage with the person as normal even Chuck a complement and something about yourself
I find these a good starter to perk my interest "
Shit that's where I go wrong in clubs..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry I’m not giving away my secrets.
Now if you’ll excuse me I must reply to the three replies I have to the 856 messages I sent asking if I could smash the recipient’s back doors in.  "
I replied YES  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry I’m not giving away my secrets.
Now if you’ll excuse me I must reply to the three replies I have to the 856 messages I sent asking if I could smash the recipient’s back doors in. "
I didn't get one  |
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I've seen you've said you always read the profile but I think a lot of peoples down fall is if people say they look for certain qualities that the reader may not have, the ignore it and think they'll be able to talk them round
I think people would do much better if they only messaged people where they genuinely meet what they persons looking for, the interests are similar etc
& you can reference something about the profile in the opening message |
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"Sorry I’m not giving away my secrets.
Now if you’ll excuse me I must reply to the three replies I have to the 856 messages I sent asking if I could smash the recipient’s back doors in.
I didn't get one "
857 messages |
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"Sorry I’m not giving away my secrets.
Now if you’ll excuse me I must reply to the three replies I have to the 856 messages I sent asking if I could smash the recipient’s back doors in.
I replied YES "
You always do, I’ll bring a spreader bar. And my tractor. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry I’m not giving away my secrets.
Now if you’ll excuse me I must reply to the three replies I have to the 856 messages I sent asking if I could smash the recipient’s back doors in.
I didn't get one
857 messages "
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"Sorry I’m not giving away my secrets.
Now if you’ll excuse me I must reply to the three replies I have to the 856 messages I sent asking if I could smash the recipient’s back doors in.
I didn't get one "
Me either ...talk about not being part on the 'in' crowd  |
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"Sorry I’m not giving away my secrets.
Now if you’ll excuse me I must reply to the three replies I have to the 856 messages I sent asking if I could smash the recipient’s back doors in.
I didn't get one
Me either ...talk about not being part on the 'in' crowd "
Even a smash your back doors in message can’t get through filters althouh I’ve only gone and given the secret up.   |
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"Sorry I’m not giving away my secrets.
Now if you’ll excuse me I must reply to the three replies I have to the 856 messages I sent asking if I could smash the recipient’s back doors in.
I didn't get one
857 messages
4 replies "
I’m going to change my name from Fiddlesticks to The Locksmith. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All women are different, si it can be really tough in knowing what to say...
I tend to just send random sense of humour stuff..or sometimes i will go by their profile and pick something out that catches my imagination and talk about it. I have found thougb that messages as a first shoukd not be to long, just enough to get them wanting to reply. Some women will want to talk sex straight away and they tend to be the one's that will get bored with your messages if you rabbit on to much. Some women want you to chat more,
I have had a female message me
Free?
Meet now?
Postcode
So, yeah..all women are dirrerent..
Just be you, dont be crude and just keep at it OP |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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Depends entirely on a multitude of factors that vary from woman to woman, day to day, hour to hour, minute to minute.
Also the phase of the moon, what the weather is like, who we have spoken to that day and whether or not they've changed our mood.
And those are just the variables that change the factors that vary.
So..... that wasn't much help, sorry. But there isn't a way of answering the question that is going to be true for all women, or even all the women you're interested in.
The best piece of advice.... don't try and be someone you aren't. |
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"Sorry I’m not giving away my secrets.
Now if you’ll excuse me I must reply to the three replies I have to the 856 messages I sent asking if I could smash the recipient’s back doors in.
I replied YES "
So did I! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What kind of messages do women like? do you speak about yourself, comment on their profile
Or go straight in with the sex side of meeting
Help out a struggling bloke please "
Read the profile, yes. Then some may want the 'straight in' approach. Their profile will usually give you an idea of what they are here for and what they would appreciate.
Refer to something in their profile to show why you're emailing them not just anyone and everyone. |
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"Sorry I’m not giving away my secrets.
Now if you’ll excuse me I must reply to the three replies I have to the 856 messages I sent asking if I could smash the recipient’s back doors in.
I replied YES
So did I!"
Someone had beat me to it |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Any messages that get straight into sex talk are deleted right away.
I Prefer a message that shows my profile has been read and maybe a bit of humour in it.
Saying that, with the best will in the world, if the profile doesn't appeal, I tend to not reply,unless it's a really good message. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Any that reference being punished, pounded, used - automatic delete!
Ones that wish to breed you - automatic delete
Offering money - automatic delete
Wishing to buy used knickers - automatic delete
Offering free massages/photoshoots - automatic delete
Anything other I’d consider responding to if the message displayed that they had read my profile and have a modicum of being able to converse in a normal non entitled manner xx |
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"A simple one just got my attention straight away! He said he has chocolate!  x
Ooo that's a low blow ...!
There is no resistance to that, don't let them all know "
I know such a tease! As I'm scrapping bottom of the xmas quality street tub x  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any that reference being punished, pounded, used - automatic delete!
Ones that wish to breed you - automatic delete
Offering money - automatic delete
Wishing to buy used knickers - automatic delete
Offering free massages/photoshoots - automatic delete
Anything other I’d consider responding to if the message displayed that they had read my profile and have a modicum of being able to converse in a normal non entitled manner xx"
This along with location - if they are the other side of the country they are unlikely to materialise into a real encounter, likely all talk. |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"A simple one just got my attention straight away! He said he has chocolate! x
Ooo that's a low blow ...!
There is no resistance to that, don't let them all know
I know such a tease! As I'm scrapping bottom of the xmas quality street tub x x"
The tub lasted into February  ...wow, thats self control |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A simple one just got my attention straight away! He said he has chocolate! x
Ooo that's a low blow ...!
There is no resistance to that, don't let them all know
I know such a tease! As I'm scrapping bottom of the xmas quality street tub x x"
Hahah oh nooo don't let them know about the chocolate  |
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It’s not just the message.
We will look at the profile and pics too and if there’s anything with red flags there then it really doesn’t matter what the message says.
So your message might be great, but if your profile/pics aren’t then you aren’t likely to be getting anywhere.
2/3 then we’ll maybe chat.
0 or 1 then probably not.
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"A simple one just got my attention straight away! He said he has chocolate! x
Ooo that's a low blow ...!
There is no resistance to that, don't let them all know
I know such a tease! As I'm scrapping bottom of the xmas quality street tub x x
The tub lasted into February ...wow, thats self control "
Not really! All the crud ones left am of work this week usually bring Cadbury mini eggs or bars of choc home from work! Not been near a shop lol x |
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For me...going straight in with the sex talk makes me feel cheap and like a play thing... yes it's a sex site, however I love chatting and getting to know someone first, they could be the most beautiful person here, but have a really dull and boring personality and that would instantly put me off. I like to chat first and see if we 'click'
As someone else has said... defo read the profile...our profile is very clear with what we are looking for.. yet get single straight men messaging wanting me it becomes frustrating. At the end of the day... you wouldn't walk up to someone in a pub and say "I want to cum all over your tits" ... well maybe some would... lol
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