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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
Having a friend helps. One that wants to engage in rumpy pumpy even better!
Respecting boundaries, especially those regarding the relationship (so it doesn’t become one sided or one person wants/expects more).
Being able to have fun, the friends part, not just in the bedroom but a desire to hang out and do social things.
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
South Lakes |
Even before a social you should have a good feeling about if you would have things in common as well as similar desires in the bedroom. I prefer good banter and the feeling of being able to fulfil the wants of the others, that can become a great relationship which for me is preferable to a one off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone that wants the same as you, and likes to explore new things with you - can't go far wrong when you find that. Someone who you can also do non sexual activities with as well, but has no need for emotional connection. Dream find!! |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Being able to be 100% yourself around that person, where any hang ups you may have just bugger off and you can sit and watch shite tv in his T-shirt looking like crap just as easily as you can be in his company whilst restrained to his bed…an open honesty, communication, respect and friendship where you can laugh till your sides hurt.
My fwb is attentive yet surprising, dominant yet never disrespectful and kinky as hell..but he also has a soft side that over time I have gotten to see, that in itself makes it something pretty special.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being able to be 100% yourself around that person, where any hang ups you may have just bugger off and you can sit and watch shite tv in his T-shirt looking like crap just as easily as you can be in his company whilst restrained to his bed…an open honesty, communication, respect and friendship where you can laugh till your sides hurt.
My fwb is attentive yet surprising, dominant yet never disrespectful and kinky as hell..but he also has a soft side that over time I have gotten to see, that in itself makes it something pretty special.
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Love this reply Dancer  |
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"When the other person understands what FWB means.
It does NOT mean FB, dial a fuck when they are horny."
God yes!
Someone I can spend time with having a laugh as well as having sex with. No commitment but a genuine friendship at the basis of it.
FWBs I've had in the past would occasionally meet up for coffee and a natter even when sex was off the table, just to enjoy each other's company the way I do with other friends. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Connection, common perspective, outlook and expectations. Regular communication is key as the dynamics and feelings involved may change with time for one or both parties. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I think you both have to respect each other and be actual friends who enjoy each others company and can have a laugh together and be on the same page with what you are looking for sexually. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being able to be 100% yourself around that person, where any hang ups you may have just bugger off and you can sit and watch shite tv in his T-shirt looking like crap just as easily as you can be in his company whilst restrained to his bed…an open honesty, communication, respect and friendship where you can laugh till your sides hurt.
My fwb is attentive yet surprising, dominant yet never disrespectful and kinky as hell..but he also has a soft side that over time I have gotten to see, that in itself makes it something pretty special.
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Sounds quite appealing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being able to have fun, the friends part, not just in the bedroom but a desire to hang out and do social things."
^ this. A distinction between this and a f**k buddy/bootie call scenario. You do things together vertically. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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"Being able to be 100% yourself around that person, where any hang ups you may have just bugger off and you can sit and watch shite tv in his T-shirt looking like crap just as easily as you can be in his company whilst restrained to his bed…an open honesty, communication, respect and friendship where you can laugh till your sides hurt.
My fwb is attentive yet surprising, dominant yet never disrespectful and kinky as hell..but he also has a soft side that over time I have gotten to see, that in itself makes it something pretty special.
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Love this reply Dancer "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The key for me would actually be having a friendship first that develops into more through trust, honesty, conversations and a similar mind, not rushing and just letting things progress naturally without pressure. |
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Trust, honesty and mutual understanding. Be upfront with the rules of engagement first, enjoy each other’s company when you can, stay in touch but leave your jealous streak at home! That would destroy it!
I have a long standing and brilliant dynamic with mine - and it doesn’t always include sex! |
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For me it works best when we’re both fairly nonchalant about the whole thing. We don’t discuss the big topics. Just completely shallow conversation and lots of laughter which accompanies the rolling around naked at frequent intervals.
It sounds horrendous for some I’m sure but it’s how I like it  |
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