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How Hard is it to get a FB/FWB ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been here for about 3months plus and in that space of time, have had loads of women/couple reach out to me, admire the BBC and all…Most are not local, some I don’t fancy(quality over quantity for me) and the ones I fancy that are local seem to keep putting off meets and actually grow cold…How hard can it be to find a mutual FB in here ffs (lol)!…x |
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"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.
Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body?"
Lighting?
Can you explain how that is relevant to the thread? |
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"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.
Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body?
Lighting?
Can you explain how that is relevant to the thread? "
Not directly it isn’t, but could be a reason why the guy can’t find what he is looking for |
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Can be easy, can be hard. Lots of people looking for the same in my experience on here back as a single guy. I think some people underestimate the compatibility and a level of commitment to a FB/FWB thing. It's more than just having a dedicated sexual partner on a string that you can turn on and off at your purely on your terms and at your disposal (not saying you think like that but some do and women are very wary of this mentality). There's an element of you having what people are looking for, an element of how well you communicate for suitability for this arrangement and purely the luck of finding the right compatibility and chemistry. Just hang in there and continue seeking.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.
Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body?
Lighting?
Can you explain how that is relevant to the thread? "
Fake photos? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.
Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body?
Lighting?
Can you explain how that is relevant to the thread?
Not directly it isn’t, but could be a reason why the guy can’t find what he is looking for "
See, you get it. Fake photos are very common. His hands are in 2 different photos and they are very different.
It's funny how no one takes small penis pictures. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.
Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body?
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Was your Spidey senses telling you anything? |
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I'm going to use a racing analogy here to describe the odds.
Imagine you've got a horse who has never taken part in a race and likes firm hard ground when you have a gallop.
You've just entered him into the grand national and before the race it rains solidly for month. Rivers burst their banks, homes are evacuated, part of the racecourse is now a swimming section.
My odds on here of finding the regular arrangement I'm looking for feel the same odds as the odds of that horse winning.
Oh, and the horse only has three legs. And it's dead.
You can probably tell I no longer hold out much hope. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm going to use a racing analogy here to describe the odds.
Imagine you've got a horse who has never taken part in a race and likes firm hard ground when you have a gallop.
You've just entered him into the grand national and before the race it rains solidly for month. Rivers burst their banks, homes are evacuated, part of the racecourse is now a swimming section.
My odds on here of finding the regular arrangement I'm looking for feel the same odds as the odds of that horse winning.
Oh, and the horse only has three legs. And it's dead.
You can probably tell I no longer hold out much hope. "
 I'm sorry I really am but that analogy is hilarious! |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm going to use a racing analogy here to describe the odds.
Imagine you've got a horse who has never taken part in a race and likes firm hard ground when you have a gallop.
You've just entered him into the grand national and before the race it rains solidly for month. Rivers burst their banks, homes are evacuated, part of the racecourse is now a swimming section.
My odds on here of finding the regular arrangement I'm looking for feel the same odds as the odds of that horse winning.
Oh, and the horse only has three legs. And it's dead.
You can probably tell I no longer hold out much hope. "
The horse will always have a home at Iceland…..In a Findus crispy pancake. |
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I found a FB within 2 weeks of joining 
I set up a fairly detailed profile and put various pics up showing me in different states of undress.
I didn’t have cock pics up and didn’t mention my cock at all, thinking that women would want to see my personality first before anything else.
I’m not saying my way was the winning formula but if you aren’t getting anywhere then try something different 
K |
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"I found a FB within 2 weeks of joining
I set up a fairly detailed profile and put various pics up showing me in different states of undress.
I didn’t have cock pics up and didn’t mention my cock at all, thinking that women would want to see my personality first before anything else.
I’m not saying my way was the winning formula but if you aren’t getting anywhere then try something different
K"
I would say that’s what most women here look for tbh K.
A sticker album of dicks and men in various poses having sex/oral with other women is probably a no for the majority. It’s all about the language, the tone, the connection, the spark and the meeting .x |
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"I'm going to use a racing analogy here to describe the odds.
Imagine you've got a horse who has never taken part in a race and likes firm hard ground when you have a gallop.
You've just entered him into the grand national and before the race it rains solidly for month. Rivers burst their banks, homes are evacuated, part of the racecourse is now a swimming section.
My odds on here of finding the regular arrangement I'm looking for feel the same odds as the odds of that horse winning.
Oh, and the horse only has three legs. And it's dead.
You can probably tell I no longer hold out much hope. "
It will not get better than this today |
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"I'm going to use a racing analogy here to describe the odds.
Imagine you've got a horse who has never taken part in a race and likes firm hard ground when you have a gallop.
You've just entered him into the grand national and before the race it rains solidly for month. Rivers burst their banks, homes are evacuated, part of the racecourse is now a swimming section.
My odds on here of finding the regular arrangement I'm looking for feel the same odds as the odds of that horse winning.
Oh, and the horse only has three legs. And it's dead.
You can probably tell I no longer hold out much hope. "
this did make me laugh.. Thank you it was so needed today. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm going to use a racing analogy here to describe the odds.
Imagine you've got a horse who has never taken part in a race and likes firm hard ground when you have a gallop.
You've just entered him into the grand national and before the race it rains solidly for month. Rivers burst their banks, homes are evacuated, part of the racecourse is now a swimming section.
My odds on here of finding the regular arrangement I'm looking for feel the same odds as the odds of that horse winning.
Oh, and the horse only has three legs. And it's dead.
You can probably tell I no longer hold out much hope.
It will not get better than this today "
Comment of the day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.
Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body? Ffs racist remarks. "
That’s not racist remarks. Looks like two very different persons in pics. Maybe that’s the reason he is not getting any meets. |
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"I found a FB within 2 weeks of joining
I set up a fairly detailed profile and put various pics up showing me in different states of undress.
I didn’t have cock pics up and didn’t mention my cock at all, thinking that women would want to see my personality first before anything else.
I’m not saying my way was the winning formula but if you aren’t getting anywhere then try something different
K
I would say that’s what most women here look for tbh K.
A sticker album of dicks and men in various poses having sex/oral with other women is probably a no for the majority. It’s all about the language, the tone, the connection, the spark and the meeting .x"
It's also about timing. You may well be a good match with someone but if their dance card is full, you're not getting in the door. Patience and right place, right time, which you can't plan for.
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"Been here for about 3months plus and in that space of time, have had loads of women/couple reach out to me, admire the BBC and all…Most are not local, some I don’t fancy(quality over quantity for me) and the ones I fancy that are local seem to keep putting off meets and actually grow cold…How hard can it be to find a mutual FB in here ffs (lol)!…x"
I know what you mean about the locals not wanting to meet, whereas people from miles away are keen as mustard...  Is it those further afield know you're unlikely to ever meet, so it feels 'safe' to say "Mmmmmm, we should meet!".......? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.
Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body? Ffs racist remarks.
That’s not racist remarks. Looks like two very different persons in pics. Maybe that’s the reason he is not getting any meets."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm going to use a racing analogy here to describe the odds.
Imagine you've got a horse who has never taken part in a race and likes firm hard ground when you have a gallop.
You've just entered him into the grand national and before the race it rains solidly for month. Rivers burst their banks, homes are evacuated, part of the racecourse is now a swimming section.
My odds on here of finding the regular arrangement I'm looking for feel the same odds as the odds of that horse winning.
Oh, and the horse only has three legs. And it's dead.
You can probably tell I no longer hold out much hope. "
Ahahahah  this is very accurate. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.
Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body? Ffs racist remarks. "
Take a look yourself. Maybe, just maybe there is a reasonable and honest reason, however you can't deny that it is suspicious as hell and leans itself toward fake photos somewhere and on some level. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.
Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body? Ffs racist remarks. "
How's it racist? It's clearly fake photos, nothing matches. |
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By *aseMan
over a year ago
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"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.
Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body? Ffs racist remarks.
How's it racist? It's clearly fake photos, nothing matches."
Black cock ,White hands lol |
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"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.
Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body? Ffs racist remarks.
How's it racist? It's clearly fake photos, nothing matches.Black cock ,White hands lol"
Thank god there's no skin disorders that result in different parts of a body being different colours or this would be one long ignorant thread wouldn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.
Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body? Ffs racist remarks.
How's it racist? It's clearly fake photos, nothing matches.Black cock ,White hands lol
Thank god there's no skin disorders that result in different parts of a body being different colours or this would be one long ignorant thread wouldn't it?"
So the hands are white in one picture and black in the other 
Does this skin condition come and go then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I found a FB within 2 weeks of joining
I set up a fairly detailed profile and put various pics up showing me in different states of undress.
I didn’t have cock pics up and didn’t mention my cock at all, thinking that women would want to see my personality first before anything else.
I’m not saying my way was the winning formula but if you aren’t getting anywhere then try something different
K"
That's certainly the type of profile I would respond well to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm going to use a racing analogy here to describe the odds.
Imagine you've got a horse who has never taken part in a race and likes firm hard ground when you have a gallop.
You've just entered him into the grand national and before the race it rains solidly for month. Rivers burst their banks, homes are evacuated, part of the racecourse is now a swimming section.
My odds on here of finding the regular arrangement I'm looking for feel the same odds as the odds of that horse winning.
Oh, and the horse only has three legs. And it's dead.
You can probably tell I no longer hold out much hope.
It will not get better than this today "
Agreed. Post of the day for me |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"I'm going to use a racing analogy here to describe the odds.
Imagine you've got a horse who has never taken part in a race and likes firm hard ground when you have a gallop.
You've just entered him into the grand national and before the race it rains solidly for month. Rivers burst their banks, homes are evacuated, part of the racecourse is now a swimming section.
My odds on here of finding the regular arrangement I'm looking for feel the same odds as the odds of that horse winning.
Oh, and the horse only has three legs. And it's dead.
You can probably tell I no longer hold out much hope. "
How did the horse die? |
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"I've got a few, it's not difficult at all.
Incidentally. Can you explain why the colour of your hands don't match the rest of your body? Ffs racist remarks.
How's it racist? It's clearly fake photos, nothing matches.Black cock ,White hands lol
Thank god there's no skin disorders that result in different parts of a body being different colours or this would be one long ignorant thread wouldn't it?
So the hands are white in one picture and black in the other
Does this skin condition come and go then?"
Jeez u obsessed! |
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"I found a FB within 2 weeks of joining
I set up a fairly detailed profile and put various pics up showing me in different states of undress.
I didn’t have cock pics up and didn’t mention my cock at all, thinking that women would want to see my personality first before anything else.
I’m not saying my way was the winning formula but if you aren’t getting anywhere then try something different
K
I would say that’s what most women here look for tbh K.
A sticker album of dicks and men in various poses having sex/oral with other women is probably a no for the majority. It’s all about the language, the tone, the connection, the spark and the meeting .x
It's also about timing. You may well be a good match with someone but if their dance card is full, you're not getting in the door. Patience and right place, right time, which you can't plan for.
C"
This also |
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Finding a perfect for you FB on here is like trying to do a jigsaw blindfold. You just have to persevere and with a bit of luck the pieces fit.
In other words, it’s blooming difficult but not impossible. |
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