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I asked a male friend this question and his answer didn't surprise me...just wondered what others, male and female would say.
For me, what makes it good is the connection you have with that person. It isn't all about making someone orgasm/cum x |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Compatibility, connection, chuckles and communication.
Have all four and the sex tends to be mindblowing (for me at least).
Coming isn't the be all and end all for sex, not by a long shot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great sex comes in many different shapes and forms. All that matters though is that all parties get the enjoyment they seek from it, and everyone walks away satisfied. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Compatibility, connection, chuckles and communication.
Have all four and the sex tends to be mindblowing (for me at least).
Coming isn't the be all and end all for sex, not by a long shot."
Perfectly worded. Exactly this for me  |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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Kissing.
If the kissing is bad, at least in my experience, I know the sex isn’t going to be good. Applies to me as I know some people don’t kiss and that is ok too!
Of course, apart from all the connection, things in common etc  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whispering filthy unmentionable things into her ear when fucking her slowly. 
Looking into her eyes and loudly telling her how naughty she is whist fucking her hard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex after a prolonged tantric massage. Heightening her root chakra energies to her 2nd chakra. Brushing past her pussy with every stroke. Watching her grind her bum up and down into the massage table begging to be fucked. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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If sex was just about orgasming, I’d just stick with my sock!
The ability to have a laugh and not take everything seriously, especially when I get naked and do my sexy sexy dance is crucial.
A connection with mutual interests also helps ensure that what you get up to is mutually enjoyable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I asked a male friend this question and his answer didn't surprise me...just wondered what others, male and female would say.
For me, what makes it good is the connection you have with that person. It isn't all about making someone orgasm/cum x"
What did he say?  |
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"I asked a male friend this question and his answer didn't surprise me...just wondered what others, male and female would say.
For me, what makes it good is the connection you have with that person. It isn't all about making someone orgasm/cum x
What did he say? "
He said connection. |
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Many people will answer in terms of their own preferences, at their particular time in life. And that's fair enough, it's their life, their body.
But in my experience that limits you to pleasure only within those narrow parameters. And in my experience there is no one size fits all.
Different things, with different people, at different times, can lead to not just good sex, but intense, new and wonderfully rewarding sex,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me the mr, it’s all about the connection you have with that person, the better the connection the better the sex as you learn each other’s bodies and how they react to the thing you’re doing, plus the more you fuck the more confident you are to say, I don’t like the way you do that but do it this way and it will be amazing. |
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A sense of humour which is often an ideal ice-breaker.
Kissing: the perfect invocation of tactility. Slow, sustained kisses peppered along the neckline, under and along the earlobes, the warm breath on the cheek as gentle as a sigh, the senses heightened by the merging of each other's cologne.
Sensual hands stroking around the derrière, eye contact and gazing into each other as you lose yourself in wild abandonment.
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Sorry, I'm getting carried away!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When u first meet in person and you look at them m and u have a little drink And if they simply smile right
And kiss good connection as I find if the man kissing wow always great sex play mmmmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I asked a male friend this question and his answer didn't surprise me...just wondered what others, male and female would say.
For me, what makes it good is the connection you have with that person. It isn't all about making someone orgasm/cum x"
Got it in one OP. Nothing else comes close if you don't have a connection  |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
That feeling of being absolutely 100% done , heart pounding, unable to get enough air, legs like jelly and you both lie there laughing unable to move and all you can say is “fuck” a few times, and then , “again” ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which brings me to my other question.....
Can you still have that "connection" with a one night stand and if not.....
Does that mean the sex isn't good??"
Is it been in the moment and both of you want each other that bad classed as good sex? You know the one when your hands can't keep off each other and sparks fly with kissing and... better stop |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So what is a 'connection'? Because I think I have a good connection with lots of people but I don't want sex with them.
Sounds a bit wishy washy, like an 'x-factor' or other such terms that don't really mean much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So what is a 'connection'? Because I think I have a good connection with lots of people but I don't want sex with them.
Sounds a bit wishy washy, like an 'x-factor' or other such terms that don't really mean much."
Electric chemistry, passion, sparks, undressing one another with your eyes, flutters between your legs, ripping one another’s clothes off before you get in through the front door, not being able to keep your hands off each other and explosive orgasms over and over again.
Horny AF now. Thanks guys!! |
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Being on the same wavelength both non-sexually and sexually, feeling comfortable and safe with each other, the sexual connection that is communicated through eye contact, being able to listen to each other's bodies and respond accordingly, when you feel like you could orgasm before any clothes come off. Kissing intimately is the best. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"So what is a 'connection'? Because I think I have a good connection with lots of people but I don't want sex with them.
Sounds a bit wishy washy, like an 'x-factor' or other such terms that don't really mean much."
Is it when thier sister in laws next door neighbour knows your ex wives brother from ‘back home’ ? |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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Chemistry - that magnetic force that sends every hair on your body into a frenzy from the slightest of touches to a vigorous fuck fest, that feeling of everything else being drowned out and just being lost in each other x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chemistry - that magnetic force that sends every hair on your body into a frenzy from the slightest of touches to a vigorous fuck fest, that feeling of everything else being drowned out and just being lost in each other x"
Sounds lush! |
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"I asked a male friend this question and his answer didn't surprise me...just wondered what others, male and female would say.
For me, what makes it good is the connection you have with that person. It isn't all about making someone orgasm/cum x"
Connection, chemistry, laughs and banter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Natural chemistry, someone who can make you howl with laughter and cum like a trooper. Being fully comfortable to push boundaries, test limits and know how to make each other tick. |
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has to be in the spark between the people concerned... sense of humour, maybe, feeling relaxed enough... open and honest communication... being sure it's right... and maybe just a little boundary pushing. |
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A connection with relaxed fun company but when you get down to it, it all just flows naturally. No thinking about it, no awkwardness, no caring what positions you are ending up in, as you both just don’t care as lost in that moment and before you know it hours have past |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sex with someone else in the room. "
I usually find that it’s any that involves me, haha. A good connection helps too, so if I’m on my own, a mirror is great, as I can tell by the look I give me if I’ve clicked!
Otherwise him being there guarantees great sex, and some very lovely ladies too
Viv xx |
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