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over a year ago
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What's everyone's thoughts on using condoms and if not a preference to use them why not?
I prefer bareback, with the other person's consent, to fuck because my cock goes limp when I roll a condoms on and just refuses to get hard again.
If someone wants to fuck me then it's a safe fuck. |
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So you like to fuck others bare but they fuck you safe?
Apologies if I've confused your post.
For me I like bareback but only with an established partner. All others are safe play only apart from oral unless that's what the guy wants. It's a bit like sucking a deflated balloon though. |
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"What's everyone's thoughts on using condoms and if not a preference to use them why not?
I prefer bareback, with the other person's consent, to fuck because my cock goes limp when I roll a condoms on and just refuses to get hard again.
If someone wants to fuck me then it's a safe fuck. "
You need to rethink the condom as a precursor to fun, as opposed to a barrier of enjoyment…..  |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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I'd only not use a condom with my partner, I'd never trust a meet.. If they'd go bare with me, who else are they doing it with.
Each to their own, people who do Bb know the risks and many are at least open about it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No problem at all using condoms OP if you go limp when rolling one on then maybe you have a deeper problem than you think  "
I agree. I get Viagra on prescription but they don't always work. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd only not use a condom with my partner, I'd never trust a meet.. If they'd go bare with me, who else are they doing it with.
Each to their own, people who do Bb know the risks and many are at least open about it.
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A good answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No problem at all using condoms OP if you go limp when rolling one on then maybe you have a deeper problem than you think
I agree. I get Viagra on prescription but they don't always work. "
Have you tried wanking at home with them on your own with no pressure? Might get you more used to them |
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"No problem at all using condoms OP if you go limp when rolling one on then maybe you have a deeper problem than you think "
There are actually medically recognised issues rolled up under the term CAEP (condom associated erectile problems) and it actually affects the majority of men in one way or another.
However, there are things that can be done to help, one of which is simply getting used to wearing them (by wearing them whilst you wank). |
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"No problem at all using condoms OP if you go limp when rolling one on then maybe you have a deeper problem than you think
I agree. I get Viagra on prescription but they don't always work. "
Viagra can only increase the blood flow, but you still need the arousal otherwise the blood isn't allowed to flow into your penis (if it did, everyone with high blood pressure would have a constant errection).
If they aren't working, it often means it's a psychological issue, such as stress, depression, anxiety.
It's definitely worth talking to the GP about more. |
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By *edheadjMan
over a year ago
High Wycombe |
No glove no love. Never had a problem using condoms, once you get some that fit properly you're set.
There is still a lot of guys out there that put them on wrong way to start and then turn them inside out to use once they realise their mistake.
You have to throw it away if you do that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's everyone's thoughts on using condoms and if not a preference to use them why not?
I prefer bareback, with the other person's consent, to fuck because my cock goes limp when I roll a condoms on and just refuses to get hard again.
If someone wants to fuck me then it's a safe fuck. "
Practice safe sex = keep trying condoms until you can forget its there and draw all your attention on the appsolutly sexy person in front of you that you want to fuck their brains out hence they give you an enormous erection throughout...usually works  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's everyone's thoughts on using condoms and if not a preference to use them why not?
I prefer bareback, with the other person's consent, to fuck because my cock goes limp when I roll a condoms on and just refuses to get hard again.
If someone wants to fuck me then it's a safe fuck. "
What do you mean? It's a safe fuck because you can't get an erection so they can't catch anything? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I won't use them. I have issues with them drying me out and causing irritation. But I also can't stand them, they really spoil sex for both. I only play bare xx |
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By *edheadjMan
over a year ago
High Wycombe |
"I’m always up-front about alway playing bare as it’s always been my preference. I only contact those that appear to like the same. That way hopefully not offending those that prefer to cover up. "
Honest question. Do you get checked regularly and do you insist your partner's do the same? |
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"What's everyone's thoughts on using condoms and if not a preference to use them why not?
I prefer bareback, with the other person's consent, to fuck because my cock goes limp when I roll a condoms on and just refuses to get hard again.
If someone wants to fuck me then it's a safe fuck. "
I always use condoms, even for blow jobs. Certain diseases can be dealt with via anti biotic, but others cannot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m always up-front about alway playing bare as it’s always been my preference. I only contact those that appear to like the same. That way hopefully not offending those that prefer to cover up.
Honest question. Do you get checked regularly and do you insist your partner's do the same? "
Why is that question to a bareback person? Do you know that condoms are not 100% 'safe'?
Many people use condoms and don't bother getting tested unless something turns green and drops off. |
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By *edheadjMan
over a year ago
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"I’m always up-front about alway playing bare as it’s always been my preference. I only contact those that appear to like the same. That way hopefully not offending those that prefer to cover up.
Honest question. Do you get checked regularly and do you insist your partner's do the same?
Why is that question to a bareback person? Do you know that condoms are not 100% 'safe'?
Many people use condoms and don't bother getting tested unless something turns green and drops off. "
I asked because they play without condoms and I was curious.
Yes condoms are not 100 percent full proof, but they significantly reduce the chances of an sti and pregnancy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First thing we check on profile if someone plays bareback with strangers before arranging to meet. Tbh it puts us off if they play bare but each to their own. Great sex doesn’t have to be risky. Stay safe |
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"What's everyone's thoughts on using condoms and if not a preference to use them why not?
I prefer bareback, with the other person's consent, to fuck because my cock goes limp when I roll a condoms on and just refuses to get hard again.
If someone wants to fuck me then it's a safe fuck. "
have a wank with condom on... it's not an excuse to go bareback as it is possible to over come this |
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By *lynJMan
over a year ago
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"What's everyone's thoughts on using condoms and if not a preference to use them why not?
I prefer bareback, with the other person's consent, to fuck because my cock goes limp when I roll a condoms on and just refuses to get hard again.
If someone wants to fuck me then it's a safe fuck. "
Get your partner to put the condom on you as part of the play. You can distract yourself by giving them attention while they roll it onto you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A pack of 3 always, playing safe is always the best way plus I find you last longer with one on.
I don't get glow in the dark condoms unless you like star wars and you think its a lightsaber, or you want it to look like a rave  |
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I'm very clear that I always use condoms for penetrative sex. It's in my profile and it's one of my absolute non-negotiables.
In the last 20 years the only time I've had sex without a condom was when I was in a monogamous relationship and we'd both tested clean twice.
I'm no longer interested in monogamy so I'm back to using condoms.
It filters out some guys who refuse to wear them but that's fine by me - I'm not here to police anyone else's behaviour and I'd rather they found someone who feels the same way as them than try to change my views. |
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