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Was shopping and came to part shop they done for valentines and it knocked me and made me feel sad and even more lonely than I usually am.
This is my first one for 8yrs and always spoiled and tried make special in past and seeing people all loved up buying stuff etc knocked me I was feeling happy till then but I nearly wanted cry as felt so sad and pathetic still gets to me.
Sorry as usual for posting rubbish anyone wants a male geeky friend lol msg me happy chat or any ladies want a nice guy lol
Am not always this sad just after tough Christmas this came too quick
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We normally do something nice for Valentine’s Day but really it’s just a made up day. People in shops buying stuff are the real mugs if you think about it and that includes me. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear that op. Just remember it's just another day and all about making money.
You're re not defined by being alone, I'm half a couple and we don't really do much on valentines day.
I Prefer to do random nice things on other days too. |
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"Sorry to hear that op. Just remember it's just another day and all about making money.
You're re not defined by being alone, I'm half a couple and we don't really do much on valentines day.
I Prefer to do random nice things on other days too. "
Oh yeah I was similar day just day and nice things other days more what I’d do esp with shifts etc but was more just seeing it and remembering hit me lick a wet fish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember that feeling well  *hugs*. If it makes you feel any better there will be loads of couples literally not giving a shit about that day.
I agree with the other poster, show yourself some love, buy yourself something lovely, get a takeaway, some chocs, a bottle of wine, have a long soak in the bath, watch a comfort film or invite a mate over to share it with. Wear your best clothes that make you feel confident. Turn it inti the ultimate self care day, that sounds epic to be fair. |
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"I think a lot of people will be feeling the same as you do OP.
Keep smiling. Hopefully things will get better and the feeling will fade x"
Thank you
I think I’ve felt lost since break cos I didn’t see coming and no explanation so feel just lost person and stuck in limbo and people say try dating again or stuff but that is soul destroying esp as never match with anyone and when do it’s porn bots or they vanish when I say hi |
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"I think a lot of people will be feeling the same as you do OP.
Keep smiling. Hopefully things will get better and the feeling will fade x
Thank you
I think I’ve felt lost since break cos I didn’t see coming and no explanation so feel just lost person and stuck in limbo and people say try dating again or stuff but that is soul destroying esp as never match with anyone and when do it’s porn bots or they vanish when I say hi"
Just give yourself time. Everyone is raw after a break up. Focus on yourself for a while. You will get there x |
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"I'm sorry OP. You should lavish that level of care on yourself instead this year. Spoil yourself. Grow your love for yourself so you're more able to love another when the time comes again. "
Thank you beautiful lady
I am trying to like myself again just hard when I don’t know what did wrong so sometimes I worry I must be extremely damaged but working on it |
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"I think a lot of people will be feeling the same as you do OP.
Keep smiling. Hopefully things will get better and the feeling will fade x
Thank you
I think I’ve felt lost since break cos I didn’t see coming and no explanation so feel just lost person and stuck in limbo and people say try dating again or stuff but that is soul destroying esp as never match with anyone and when do it’s porn bots or they vanish when I say hi
Just give yourself time. Everyone is raw after a break up. Focus on yourself for a while. You will get there x"
Thank you gorgeous I know it will just hard when have no social circles so fab forums my only chat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a load of commercial pish. 90% of the folk you saw out buying stuff were either in the throes of a new relationship or buying shit out of habit.
I want someone to show they love and respect me through their actions 365 days a year. |
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Sorry to hear you feel like this OP.
I can't take away the way you feel or why you feel like this but to add a different perspective is something I can offer.
Valentines items for sale in the shops are purely money making incentives for the companies. They are the same chocolates and flowers that are available all other times of the year yet when adorned in pink or red boxes with love hearts they are supposed to be symbolic of love. Its bulk bought stock, that's the truth of it.
What I am trying to explain is that you manage your emotions and triggers every other day of the year, so I encourage you to see these items for what they are and not what they are trying to symbolise.
I may sound like a cold hearted woman, and that couldn't be further from the truth. I know that I do not need commercialism for me to tell Mr NBVN how much he means to me.
I hope you start to feel better soon, look inward and find the love for yourself because it's you that is important and not stock in a supermarket  
NBVN x |
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"I'm sorry OP. You should lavish that level of care on yourself instead this year. Spoil yourself. Grow your love for yourself so you're more able to love another when the time comes again.
Thank you beautiful lady
I am trying to like myself again just hard when I don’t know what did wrong so sometimes I worry I must be extremely damaged but working on it"
Just because relationships end it doesn't always mean someone did something wrong. |
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"It's a load of commercial pish. 90% of the folk you saw out buying stuff were either in the throes of a new relationship or buying shit out of habit.
I want someone to show they love and respect me through their actions 365 days a year. "
^^^ this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry to hear you feel like this OP.
I can't take away the way you feel or why you feel like this but to add a different perspective is something I can offer.
Valentines items for sale in the shops are purely money making incentives for the companies. They are the same chocolates and flowers that are available all other times of the year yet when adorned in pink or red boxes with love hearts they are supposed to be symbolic of love. Its bulk bought stock, that's the truth of it.
What I am trying to explain is that you manage your emotions and triggers every other day of the year, so I encourage you to see these items for what they are and not what they are trying to symbolise.
I may sound like a cold hearted woman, and that couldn't be further from the truth. I know that I do not need commercialism for me to tell Mr NBVN how much he means to me.
I hope you start to feel better soon, look inward and find the love for yourself because it's you that is important and not stock in a supermarket
NBVN x"
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Valentine's day sucks when you're single and don't want to be.
Half price chocs and flowers on the 15th is always good though OP, treat yourself as well as you would've treated a partner and be your own Valentine  |
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"Valentine's day sucks when you're single and don't want to be.
Half price chocs and flowers on the 15th is always good though OP, treat yourself as well as you would've treated a partner and be your own Valentine "
Thanks I will try |
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