From my experience, which is limited people were friendly enough.
If I were you I'd go with no expectations. Just soak up the vibe and see where it's at.
Once you been a couple of times then maybe you'll feel more relaxed about it all.
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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If you're confident enough to start a thread like this then you're confident enough to attend a club.
Another option is to attend a group social. No sex expected, but at least you'll meet people from the scene.  |
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"If you're confident enough to start a thread like this then you're confident enough to attend a club.
Another option is to attend a group social. No sex expected, but at least you'll meet people from the scene. "
Social group interesting, any of you lovely folk would recommend ?
I do wish to go to a club/spa kestrels, a dabs or lb I will make time for one these at some point .
I also understand why folk would meet people of the back of few messages too, but a lot still do. My profile isn’t doing to much broadcasting because of the line of work I do and can’t risk a leak of my pf. But on the other hand I do recon I could genuinely offer the right folk that mutual fun we all seek , but it’s just people just don’t seem to want know , even I’ll put genuine effort into writing a message after reading the said persons or couples pf attaching various pics all non revealing from my gallery. Never crude or rude.
So brings me back to the non sexual meets mentioned by guy above is there such a thing or not?
Sorry for speech but am getting frustrated because I know I’ll do well with a few veri’s
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"If you're confident enough to start a thread like this then you're confident enough to attend a club.
Another option is to attend a group social. No sex expected, but at least you'll meet people from the scene.
Social group interesting, any of you lovely folk would recommend ?
I do wish to go to a club/spa kestrels, a dabs or lb I will make time for one these at some point .
I also understand why folk would meet people of the back of few messages too, but a lot still do. My profile isn’t doing to much broadcasting because of the line of work I do and can’t risk a leak of my pf. But on the other hand I do recon I could genuinely offer the right folk that mutual fun we all seek , but it’s just people just don’t seem to want know , even I’ll put genuine effort into writing a message after reading the said persons or couples pf attaching various pics all non revealing from my gallery. Never crude or rude.
So brings me back to the non sexual meets mentioned by guy above is there such a thing or not?
Sorry for speech but am getting frustrated because I know I’ll do well with a few veri’s
Morning to all cheers "
Yes there are organised socials, look in the meet requests and parties section of the forum.
We've been to quite a few, they're a good way to meet new people.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok so really want to start attending meets. Never been so have no idea what to expect. Are people friendly and welcome to first timers? "
If you're respectful and good company but without any expectations then yes, in my experience, everyone is lovely and friendly to first timers. It's worth considering going with a female friend too (as two singles) so that you've got someone to chat to at the start when you might be more nervous |
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