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Really, is there any genuine people left on here?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Feel like I've been completely blindsided by so many people on here, you talk to them too long and then meet and things fuck up... You don't talk too much and meet and still fucks up. You think you've found everything perfect with someone and then they gaslight you? Like what is it with just not saying and literally bullet pointing what they want, looking for and if it's not for you then wish well and move on? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not exactly sure if I’m honest, sorry to hear it’s happened. Although I do think though obviously there is always a reason as to why. It’s not always as straightforward, I think some people are going through so many different life obstacles with themselves, family, work etc…
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No words of wisdom OP.
In my day you just went out, got hammered and then fingered up the back of the club.
Worked out well in the end, 26yrs later and 2 kids we're still pretty happy.
Head up, tits oot and don't let the fuckers get you down x |
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I'm sorry that Fab hasn't worked well for you.
However, there are loads if genuine people on here.
It might not be your thing, but clubs are a guaranteed way to meet others for nsa sex.
If you're looking for more, maybe try a different approach. Are you doing your own searching or responding to messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not exactly sure if I’m honest, sorry to hear it’s happened. Although I do think though obviously there is always a reason as to why. It’s not always as straightforward, I think some people are going through so many different life obstacles with themselves, family, work etc…
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The reason could simply be that the ghoster is an arsehole, no?
Bad behaviour cannot, or should not, always be excused. |
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"No words of wisdom OP.
In my day you just went out, got hammered and then fingered up the back of the club.
Worked out well in the end, 26yrs later and 2 kids we're still pretty happy.
Head up, tits oot and don't let the fuckers get you down x"
So can I not go out and get fingered up the back of a club now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a case of sorting the wheat out from the chaff. Genuine folk do exist, admittedly hard to find. I do think social events and clubs are easier way to find genuine people. |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"Feel like I've been completely blindsided by so many people on here, you talk to them too long and then meet and things fuck up... You don't talk too much and meet and still fucks up. You think you've found everything perfect with someone and then they gaslight you? Like what is it with just not saying and literally bullet pointing what they want, looking for and if it's not for you then wish well and move on?"
People suck!. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not exactly sure if I’m honest, sorry to hear it’s happened. Although I do think though obviously there is always a reason as to why. It’s not always as straightforward, I think some people are going through so many different life obstacles with themselves, family, work etc…
The reason could simply be that the ghoster is an arsehole, no?
Bad behaviour cannot, or should not, always be excused."
Yeah of course they could be an arsehole but there are also other reasons as to why it might happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No words of wisdom OP.
In my day you just went out, got hammered and then fingered up the back of the club.
Worked out well in the end, 26yrs later and 2 kids we're still pretty happy.
Head up, tits oot and don't let the fuckers get you down x
So can I not go out and get fingered up the back of a club now "
Course you can.....I'll probably be on the seat next to you  |
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By *91kMan
over a year ago
Maidstone |
"Feel like I've been completely blindsided by so many people on here, you talk to them too long and then meet and things fuck up... You don't talk too much and meet and still fucks up. You think you've found everything perfect with someone and then they gaslight you? Like what is it with just not saying and literally bullet pointing what they want, looking for and if it's not for you then wish well and move on?"
There is no right or wrong way with Fab unfortunately. Some are pushy and wanna swap numbers instantly, which can make you feel pressured and want to withdraw. Then you get called a timewaster! Other times it goes on for weeks and when you're finally ready to, they get bored.
At least for you being a single female you're getting plenty of attention and will likely find someone decent. For a guy it's a bit more difficult...
Best of luck OP, don't give up if you were closer I'd be very tempted to message  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes is the short answer. There's a lot of genuine people on here but also a few that aren't. The worse one's are those who seem genuine then treat you like shite after you've banged. It's all lessons to be learnt but I like to believe there's more good people than bad. |
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"No words of wisdom OP.
In my day you just went out, got hammered and then fingered up the back of the club.
Worked out well in the end, 26yrs later and 2 kids we're still pretty happy.
Head up, tits oot and don't let the fuckers get you down x
So can I not go out and get fingered up the back of a club now
Course you can.....I'll probably be on the seat next to you "
Great news, can I fondle ya boobs whilst we get a good seeing too then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No words of wisdom OP.
In my day you just went out, got hammered and then fingered up the back of the club.
Worked out well in the end, 26yrs later and 2 kids we're still pretty happy.
Head up, tits oot and don't let the fuckers get you down x
So can I not go out and get fingered up the back of a club now
Course you can.....I'll probably be on the seat next to you
Great news, can I fondle ya boobs whilst we get a good seeing too then "
Bye a lassie a vodka and first ffs....what do you think I am? |
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"No words of wisdom OP.
In my day you just went out, got hammered and then fingered up the back of the club.
Worked out well in the end, 26yrs later and 2 kids we're still pretty happy.
Head up, tits oot and don't let the fuckers get you down x
So can I not go out and get fingered up the back of a club now
Course you can.....I'll probably be on the seat next to you
Great news, can I fondle ya boobs whilst we get a good seeing too then
Bye a lassie a vodka and first ffs....what do you think I am? "
I’ll get you a double. One for each tit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No words of wisdom OP.
In my day you just went out, got hammered and then fingered up the back of the club.
Worked out well in the end, 26yrs later and 2 kids we're still pretty happy.
Head up, tits oot and don't let the fuckers get you down x
So can I not go out and get fingered up the back of a club now
Course you can.....I'll probably be on the seat next to you
Great news, can I fondle ya boobs whilst we get a good seeing too then
Bye a lassie a vodka and first ffs....what do you think I am?
I’ll get you a double. One for each tit "
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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One can get discouraged with repeated disappointment. Sorry to hear.
Op you do seem to be looking for something very specific which makes finding what you're after that much harder. |
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