Guys, if a woman or couple have read your first message and looked at your profile and they delete the message, you know where you are. Right! If they don't delete the message, but don't reply, do you send a second message? |
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over a year ago
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As a couple, I don't delete the messages I haven't responded to incase there is an interest for J, as it's not all about me  if I don't reply we're either not looking for anyone else at the moment or not for us |
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"Guys, if a woman or couple have read your first message and looked at your profile and they delete the message, you know where you are. Right! If they don't delete the message, but don't reply, do you send a second message?"
nope never,
I'll send a msg,( maybe after seeing a profile in new pics and I end up fabing a few of her shots I'll drop a quick note) 1/2 the time I don't necessarily want a reply or think I'd get one, but I'd never re-msg especially if they read the last and there was no reply. |
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"Guys, if a woman or couple have read your first message and looked at your profile and they delete the message, you know where you are. Right! If they don't delete the message, but don't reply, do you send a second message?"
Nah. It's a couples profile, so for one thing they often get quite a lot of messages, and the ones that are interesting - at least in our case - get left until we've both had a chance to have a look. Even then, we've got a hell of a lot more to be doing with our lives than replying to messages on Fab 
TL;DR If they're interested, they'll reply. Be patient yo. |
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Quite often as couples either if us could be online at anytime and we will leave a message for the other to read before discussing and sending a return message.
What with work patterns and life stuff this could very well mean a message is sitting there.
The best way to approach this is don't check up on the message status, send a message and delete from your sent items or as the site rules state that a non reply is a no thank you.
We dislike chasing messages and that would instinctively put us off someone.
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"Guys, if a woman or couple have read your first message and looked at your profile and they delete the message, you know where you are. Right! If they don't delete the message, but don't reply, do you send a second message?"
Its rare I delete messages. If I don't reply or give a short answer then I'm really not interested. |
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No reply is a reply in itself.
Just to add, if someone is inundated with messages, sending another makes it worse and decreases the chance of a reply.
Leave it with them and they'll find you if they want to |
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Personally I wouldn't be offended by a second one after a few weeks/months in case the first got lost among the spam. It's the people who send you the same message repeatedly who just end up blocked. |
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We don’t respond to all messages straight away.
Sometimes they’ll be left for each other to see or just been opened to read and no time to respond.
At times it’s pot luck as we could be talking to a few people already and not necessarily be looking.
But I would say that if we are keen then we are going to reply…
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