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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to be the worst person in the world at recognising a come on. Maybe if they were to slap their cock or their tits in my face i might get it. Are you any good?  "
I dont know ive never tried slapping my cock in your face lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Over messages no I can’t
In person I am good a reading body language and can spot it a mile off
But never act on it I wait to see if they blow any cold signs at some point in the future
If they do it means it was infatuation in the moment so never act off it
If they blow hot content then it means they in to you |
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"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again.
Painted it on a road sign, that big enough  "
Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place  |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
South Lakes |
I too find it difficult to read signs that all is well and have missed opportunities only revealed by message or text after the fact leaving me kicking myself. I do tell people I am not very forward before meeting and hope they will make things obvious if things could escalate. I'm always afraid of making an unsolicited and unwanted approach. |
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By *jt11Man
over a year ago
Bewdley |
"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again.
Painted it on a road sign, that big enough
Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place "
I'll have to remember that, on my next coffee social
"Yes can I order a sticky bun, cup of tea and if you wouldn't mind bringing me a piece of A4 paper" Thank you.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again.
Painted it on a road sign, that big enough
Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place "
Or just pin you up against the wall and whisper in your ear" next time!" |
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"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again.
Painted it on a road sign, that big enough
Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place
Or just pin you up against the wall and whisper in your ear" next time!""
Hahaha. But what if I don’t like them  . Then I’d just be scared  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again.
Painted it on a road sign, that big enough
Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place
Or just pin you up against the wall and whisper in your ear" next time!"
Hahaha. But what if I don’t like them . Then I’d just be scared . "
Oh just say no lol |
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By *jt11Man
over a year ago
Bewdley |
"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again.
Painted it on a road sign, that big enough
Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place
Or just pin you up against the wall and whisper in your ear" next time!"
Hahaha. But what if I don’t like them . Then I’d just be scared . "
I think in that case if you don't like them.. try giving them a sign before they try to pin you up against the wall.. otherwise they are getting a Slap.. |
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"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again.
Painted it on a road sign, that big enough
Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place
Or just pin you up against the wall and whisper in your ear" next time!"
Hahaha. But what if I don’t like them . Then I’d just be scared .
I think in that case if you don't like them.. try giving them a sign before they try to pin you up against the wall.. otherwise they are getting a Slap.."
One man I met in the early days who I really didn’t like slapped my arse as I left and walked back to my car! I actually can’t believe I didn’t react but I just wanted to get out of there ASAP! |
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I am terrible at this. I think its because I don't think I'm sexy.
I have been to group socials and been messaged after saying that they were into me but I had not done anything.
I take people on face value and imagine, somewhat foolishly, that people talk for talking sake.
Especially here where open declaration of attraction is common.
If I think a lady is attractive, I tell her. She can do whatever she wants with that information. |
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"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again.
Painted it on a road sign, that big enough
Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place
Or just pin you up against the wall and whisper in your ear" next time!"
Hahaha. But what if I don’t like them . Then I’d just be scared .
I think in that case if you don't like them.. try giving them a sign before they try to pin you up against the wall.. otherwise they are getting a Slap..
One man I met in the early days who I really didn’t like slapped my arse as I left and walked back to my car! I actually can’t believe I didn’t react but I just wanted to get out of there ASAP!"
Should have slapped his face, quid pro quo if that's the right saying |
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"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again.
Painted it on a road sign, that big enough
Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place
Or just pin you up against the wall and whisper in your ear" next time!"
Hahaha. But what if I don’t like them . Then I’d just be scared .
I think in that case if you don't like them.. try giving them a sign before they try to pin you up against the wall.. otherwise they are getting a Slap..
One man I met in the early days who I really didn’t like slapped my arse as I left and walked back to my car! I actually can’t believe I didn’t react but I just wanted to get out of there ASAP!
Should have slapped his face, quid pro quo if that's the right saying"
I can’t believe I didn’t! Think it was my first social meet. I came home and deleted fab. |
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"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again.
Painted it on a road sign, that big enough
Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place
Or just pin you up against the wall and whisper in your ear" next time!"
Hahaha. But what if I don’t like them . Then I’d just be scared .
I think in that case if you don't like them.. try giving them a sign before they try to pin you up against the wall.. otherwise they are getting a Slap..
One man I met in the early days who I really didn’t like slapped my arse as I left and walked back to my car! I actually can’t believe I didn’t react but I just wanted to get out of there ASAP!
Should have slapped his face, quid pro quo if that's the right saying
I can’t believe I didn’t! Think it was my first social meet. I came home and deleted fab. "
Well glad your back, horrible experience |
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"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again.
Painted it on a road sign, that big enough
Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place
Or just pin you up against the wall and whisper in your ear" next time!"
Hahaha. But what if I don’t like them . Then I’d just be scared .
I think in that case if you don't like them.. try giving them a sign before they try to pin you up against the wall.. otherwise they are getting a Slap..
One man I met in the early days who I really didn’t like slapped my arse as I left and walked back to my car! I actually can’t believe I didn’t react but I just wanted to get out of there ASAP!
Should have slapped his face, quid pro quo if that's the right saying
I can’t believe I didn’t! Think it was my first social meet. I came home and deleted fab.
Well glad your back, horrible experience"
Aw thanks. Been back about 50 times since then x |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
Nope, I've given up trying to read the signs. Largely because some are so subtle and obscure it can be confusing as all hell.
Either be up front and tell me, or I/we will just miss out and let it pass by. Completely done with little mind games and having to chase for a solid and clear clarification. |
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"Nope, I've given up trying to read the signs. Largely because some are so subtle and obscure it can be confusing as all hell.
Either be up front and tell me, or I/we will just miss out and let it pass by. Completely done with little mind games and having to chase for a solid and clear clarification. "
I don’t think it’s mind games. Some people may not have the confidence to be so up front. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I tend to go with people not fancying me/flirting with me unless it's either clearly stated or so obvious a sign I couldn't miss it.
I don't think it's because I'm on the spectrum, I think it's more that because I've never been turned down, I protect myself by operating a no one fancies me approach. It works for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would't like to count the amount of missed opportunities I've had due to me being an absolute shambles at reading signs!! My pals come to me after and say - she was right into you, and I would be scratching my head thinkng she never noticed I was even in the room!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am terrible at this. I think its because I don't think I'm sexy.
I have been to group socials and been messaged after saying that they were into me but I had not done anything.
I take people on face value and imagine, somewhat foolishly, that people talk for talking sake.
Especially here where open declaration of attraction is common.
If I think a lady is attractive, I tell her. She can do whatever she wants with that information. "
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On behalf of those of us who assume someone isn't interested, thank you. This is enough for us to respond.
Why can't life be like when you're kids and you decide someone is going to be your friend for that week? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, I’ve been told by an ex wife, a few GF and a few Girl Friends that I’m oblivious. However, on the odd occasion I think I’m attracting interest, I’m always right.
On here, wouldn’t have a clue, I don’t get messages! |
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I’m absolutely terrible at this  , on the opposite side, I’m one of those who is smiley and chatty to everyone, and they all think I’m flirting when I’m not!! If only they were rubbish at reading the signals too haha, or maybe they are and that’s the point hmmm! Miss pc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My mind works a bit like this...
DON'T find them attractive:
they're definitely hitting on me and I'm uncomfortable
DO find them attractive:
they can't possibly be hitting on me, I mean what would they see in me? |
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"My mind works a bit like this...
DON'T find them attractive:
they're definitely hitting on me and I'm uncomfortable
DO find them attractive:
they can't possibly be hitting on me, I mean what would they see in me? "
I’m a bit like this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am terrible at the time but later on when I think about it I realise. Mrs is completely oblivious. People have literally followed her down the street trying to talk to her and she just thinks “oh what a polite man” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In real life, I'm dreadful. Never think anyone is interested amd then it's always a huge surprise when I find out "
I’m intrigued.
How interested would someone need to be, in your opinion, to travel nearly 2 hours to wait say 3+hours later than arranged for someone at a designated meeting point that’s right on said persons doorstep? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I assume they are just being friendly.
Yes! This! I'm amazed I've ever had sex in all honesty. I still think it here on occasion which is daft. "
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As do I. It has to be blatantly obvious to elicit a response from me. Even then, I'm not sure I'd catch it. |
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I'm not bad as I'm quite flirty myself and can pick up on if someone is half interested if I'm talking to them.
On the other hand Mr is absolutely hopeless. He can't flirt if his life depended on it and a naked woman could sit on his knee and he would just think she's being nice to him, nothing more.
Ruby |
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If you want me, please just come out and say that you want me. Otherwise you could be naked in front of me and I'm still not going to start anything.
I shall eagerly await the receipt of no messages... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Awful. If they were flashing a giant neon sign that said "Lorenzo I want you to fuck my brains out right now, no questions asked." I'd still probably not be 100% sure
LvM"
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"How do girls even give a sign or shoot interest. Most I’ve heard is they stare at you for a bit and think that’s how to shoot their shot lol"
Would you prefer that we shot our love batter all over your boat-race instead? Eyes fair game |
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"How do girls even give a sign or shoot interest. Most I’ve heard is they stare at you for a bit and think that’s how to shoot their shot lol
Would you prefer that we shot our love batter all over your boat-race instead? Eyes fair game "
Huh? Ahaha I have no idea what that means |
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"How do girls even give a sign or shoot interest. Most I’ve heard is they stare at you for a bit and think that’s how to shoot their shot lol
Would you prefer that we shot our love batter all over your boat-race instead? Eyes fair game
Huh? Ahaha I have no idea what that means "
Translation: Would you prefer that we [women] ejaculate a thick and creamy substance upon your face [as a means of shooting our shot]? The eyes are fair game |
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"How do girls even give a sign or shoot interest. Most I’ve heard is they stare at you for a bit and think that’s how to shoot their shot lol
Would you prefer that we shot our love batter all over your boat-race instead? Eyes fair game
Huh? Ahaha I have no idea what that means "
come on you surely know what that means |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do girls even give a sign or shoot interest. Most I’ve heard is they stare at you for a bit and think that’s how to shoot their shot lol
Would you prefer that we shot our love batter all over your boat-race instead? Eyes fair game
Huh? Ahaha I have no idea what that means
Translation: Would you prefer that we [women] ejaculate a thick and creamy substance upon your face [as a means of shooting our shot]? The eyes are fair game "
Ohhh. Yes please |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do girls even give a sign or shoot interest. Most I’ve heard is they stare at you for a bit and think that’s how to shoot their shot lol
Would you prefer that we shot our love batter all over your boat-race instead? Eyes fair game
Huh? Ahaha I have no idea what that means come on you surely know what that means "
The boat-race confused me ahah |
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thank you x
But it comes from years of doubting myself 
