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What question were you asked that secretly broke your heart
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whilst still sat in hospital after loosing my first baby late in pregnancy.
Someone asked me "when I would try again for another one"
As best not to leave it too long....  |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"Whilst still sat in hospital after loosing my first baby late in pregnancy.
Someone asked me "when I would try again for another one"
As best not to leave it too long.... "
Oh my god some people are insensitive idiots.  |
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"Whilst still sat in hospital after loosing my first baby late in pregnancy.
Someone asked me "when I would try again for another one"
As best not to leave it too long.... "
I wonder how peoples brains actually work sometimes and why they don't think before they speak. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You shouldn't have gone ahead with it [termination]".
9 years later I still can't comprehend it. Why? He wanted me to? Did he gain satisfaction of having that tiny hold over me? He's lucky certain things are illegal in this country. (not husband before you all gather with pitchforks) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""You shouldn't have gone ahead with it [termination]".
9 years later I still can't comprehend it. Why? He wanted me to? Did he gain satisfaction of having that tiny hold over me? He's lucky certain things are illegal in this country. (not husband before you all gather with pitchforks) "
Shucks. That wasn't a question. Although I'm sure there were alot of questions fired back and forth that day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whilst still sat in hospital after loosing my first baby late in pregnancy.
Someone asked me "when I would try again for another one"
As best not to leave it too long.... "
That made me gasp!!  |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
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"Whilst still sat in hospital after loosing my first baby late in pregnancy.
Someone asked me "when I would try again for another one"
As best not to leave it too long.... "
I thought I was insensitive sometimes... OMFG!!  |
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How can my dad love his step daughter and he can't even send me a birthday card, love me or see me?
She was 10 at time and hadn't seen her dad from 6yrs.
The step daughter messaged my daughter on fb messagener and told my daughter he did not love her.
We cried and it still breaks my heart thinking about it. She's 26 nearly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He's gone isn't he?
I had to call my brother to tell him to go home when my dad died. I didn't want to tell him over the phone especially while he was driving but I ended up having no choice |
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"Oh my gosh these are breaking my heart.
Especially Nora’s and the children not being loved by a parent.
Hugs to everyone here who’s had these awful experiences
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Nooooo! She was referring to a boyfriend. Long term relationship though. She was heartbroken x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My brother called me one night after a week of watching mum fade. He said “you know why I’m phoning, don’t you?”
Everyday someone had gone to sit with her at the care home. On that night my sister had been but left at 8.30pm, at 9pm a care worker had gone in to see her, she took a long breath, relaxed and that was it. She was 97. |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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"Oh my gosh these are breaking my heart.
Especially Nora’s and the children not being loved by a parent.
Hugs to everyone here who’s had these awful experiences
Nooooo! She was referring to a boyfriend. Long term relationship though. She was heartbroken x"
Ahhh! My mistake for you, mind you relationship heartbreak is just as tough especially your first x |
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Will never ever forget having to formally identify my 20 yr old son after a horrific car accident in July.
Police liaison officer to me ??
“ I have to ask you , is this your son “
Broken hearted doesn’t even begin to describe. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Will never ever forget having to formally identify my 20 yr old son after a horrific car accident in July.
Police liaison officer to me ??
“ I have to ask you , is this your son “
Broken hearted doesn’t even begin to describe. "
Oh my goodness, that's heartbreaking. I'm so sorry for your loss. |
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The vet called to say my bog did not make it through the night.
Seem very trivial to what's some of you guys and girls have been through and I wish you all the best literally broke my heart over and over. |
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"The vet called to say my bog did not make it through the night.
Seem very trivial to what's some of you guys and girls have been through and I wish you all the best literally broke my heart over and over."
Pets are family too x |
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"The vet called to say my bog did not make it through the night.
Seem very trivial to what's some of you guys and girls have been through and I wish you all the best literally broke my heart over and over.
Pets are family too x"
I would still eat one (pet) if there was a Zombie ?? apocalypse..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or fook it im doing it this is so hard for me I've not talked to anyone about this. My dad passed away recently and he depended on me for advice it was lung cancer. Macmillan came out and told me he didn't have long, i did everything in my power to help and we was talking that night just before they put they put the machine on to him he went to sleep. Sorry everyone I can't do it my finger is hovering do I press? I'm a man we shouldn't be like this |
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"Or fook it im doing it this is so hard for me I've not talked to anyone about this. My dad passed away recently and he depended on me for advice it was lung cancer. Macmillan came out and told me he didn't have long, i did everything in my power to help and we was talking that night just before they put they put the machine on to him he went to sleep. Sorry everyone I can't do it my finger is hovering do I press? I'm a man we shouldn't be like this "
strong man your Dad would be so proud  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of mine was when I had to have one of my cats put down last year.
And the vet said to me do you want to be with her when she goes or not?
Of course I did, little did I know that because of the restrictions they were not allowed to give her the injection directly. Instead they had to give it to her via a long tube whilst she was on my lap in a towel, and she just looked up at me and then closed her eye's it broke my heart in so many pieces!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or fook it im doing it this is so hard for me I've not talked to anyone about this. My dad passed away recently and he depended on me for advice it was lung cancer. Macmillan came out and told me he didn't have long, i did everything in my power to help and we was talking that night just before they put they put the machine on to him he went to sleep. Sorry everyone I can't do it my finger is hovering do I press? I'm a man we shouldn't be like this strong man your Dad would be so proud "
Thanks buddy im just not ready, lovely post op honestly not just saying that. and yes I hope my old man is proud of me I fooking miss him so much you all would have loved him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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“She’s not one of them, is she?”
Question asked by my ex mother in law, when I told her her three year old grandchild was being tested for autism. She meant children who went to a school for challenging behaviour. As it was my daughter’s needs were too profound and she needed specialist education, so that school was unsuitable anyway.
Her loss though, my daughter is awesome! Even if she isn’t a mathematical genius like everyone assumed she would be, lol- good old Rain Man meant everyone was an expert on autism x
Viv x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why aren’t I pretty like the other girls?
Said to me by my daughter after I broke the bathroom door down where she had locked herself in and refused to come out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why didn’t you say something sooner?
I don’t think an explanation is needed. It’s what everyone is asked, whatever age you are, whatever gender the perpetrator is, whatever type it is x
Massive healing hugs to anyone who has ever been asked that question x |
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"Why didn’t you say something sooner?
I don’t think an explanation is needed. It’s what everyone is asked, whatever age you are, whatever gender the perpetrator is, whatever type it is x
Massive healing hugs to anyone who has ever been asked that question x "
because I am shy and could never pluck up the courage to ask her out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why didn’t you say something sooner?
I don’t think an explanation is needed. It’s what everyone is asked, whatever age you are, whatever gender the perpetrator is, whatever type it is x
Massive healing hugs to anyone who has ever been asked that question x because I am shy and could never pluck up the courage to ask her out "
Apologies, I was stating a question that broke my heart “why didn’t you say something sooner?”
In regards to your response though, I think we’ve all been like that at some point, and I’m sorry that you didn’t get to ask her out xx |
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"Why didn’t you say something sooner?
I don’t think an explanation is needed. It’s what everyone is asked, whatever age you are, whatever gender the perpetrator is, whatever type it is x
Massive healing hugs to anyone who has ever been asked that question x "
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My 9 year old son, when begging his grandparents to tell him why their son won't even talk to him.
"Your mother won't let him"
Absolutely, utterly and completely untrue. I spent many years trying to keep contact for my children and although they tell me they don't believe what they were told, they heard that lie when they were both children so there will always be doubt.
We all carry that with us and both my adult children feel abandoned by their father still.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or fook it im doing it this is so hard for me I've not talked to anyone about this. My dad passed away recently and he depended on me for advice it was lung cancer. Macmillan came out and told me he didn't have long, i did everything in my power to help and we was talking that night just before they put they put the machine on to him he went to sleep. Sorry everyone I can't do it my finger is hovering do I press? I'm a man we shouldn't be like this "
You are a man exactly because you feel. I'm sure he was very proud of the man you are. |
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